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    N and J reacted to Ebunoluwa in What do I do to increase my chances for a B2 visa to visit my boyfriend.   
    Even if you apply for a B2 to visit a BF you have not met, he's still a BF and the whole purpose of your visit.
    You will likely not get the visa to do so, even with the items you have as proof, which isn't much at all and his items you want to include will
    hinder not help. You have to show that you stand on your own 2 feet with ties and finances.
    Save the money and let him come visit you instead, see your country, meet your family and gather evidence of that visit
    for a future K1 if he wants to petition you.
    Your chances are zero for a B2, especially not because your country is Nigeria. Sorry !
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    N and J reacted to soulstriker in What do I do to increase my chances for a B2 visa to visit my boyfriend.   
    b2 visa is hard from Nigeria your boyfriend might as well just go to Nigeria and visit you there to make things easier for yall , no point wasting money just to get denied a b2 visa , even if you said you were just visiting a friend , because your young , they'll deny you , they usually approve ppl in Nigeria with ppl who have families , my gf wanted to visit me in the US just for 2 weeks ha and she still got denied under lack of ties so , good luck
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    N and J reacted to aleful in What do I do to increase my chances for a B2 visa to visit my boyfriend.   
    hi
    you don't need nothing of his, you must show strong ties to your country, you have to convince the immigration officer that you will return to your country
    he has nothing to do with your tourist visa,
    of course you have to be truthful when asked about the purpose of your trip
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    N and J got a reaction from TBoneTX in One Year Later, Villatoro's Deportation Still Resonates   
    I'm sorry I guess I find illegal immigrants to be a huge slap in the face to families who go through the process the right way and either have to wait many years to be with their family or families that get right out denied. I also find it to be adding salt to the wound when women come right over the border to have kids....from any place it's not just Latin countries. I know an old man from my town who used to live a very simple life (he was here legally from the Philippines) he wanted to bring his wife here to be treated for cancer....well she died during the 12 year wait...he died alone. If you break the law by coming here one should not be rewarded by given legalization. If we don't hold up the law than what is the point of the visa process? Just let anyone in. I don't blame this family for the whole thing....we have a very flawed system. Very flawed. I am all for legal immigration from any place! I am all for brining refugees here....just don't come here illegally and expect people to feel sorry when something happens. I mean it was a law that was broken. Normally when you break major laws you go to jail...consequences come in every form.
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    N and J got a reaction from Unlockable in One Year Later, Villatoro's Deportation Still Resonates   
    I'm sorry I guess I find illegal immigrants to be a huge slap in the face to families who go through the process the right way and either have to wait many years to be with their family or families that get right out denied. I also find it to be adding salt to the wound when women come right over the border to have kids....from any place it's not just Latin countries. I know an old man from my town who used to live a very simple life (he was here legally from the Philippines) he wanted to bring his wife here to be treated for cancer....well she died during the 12 year wait...he died alone. If you break the law by coming here one should not be rewarded by given legalization. If we don't hold up the law than what is the point of the visa process? Just let anyone in. I don't blame this family for the whole thing....we have a very flawed system. Very flawed. I am all for legal immigration from any place! I am all for brining refugees here....just don't come here illegally and expect people to feel sorry when something happens. I mean it was a law that was broken. Normally when you break major laws you go to jail...consequences come in every form.
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    N and J reacted to OriZ in One Year Later, Villatoro's Deportation Still Resonates   
    I agree in theory but the path should be A. Alot harder than Obama wanted and B. Not include the last 5 years or so. The example I gave earlier of the child - she actually believed she was an American until at some point I don't remember how she found out - maybe tried applying for something - found out, the advice she got(A lawyer or something that completely screwed her) made her leave thinking she'll be allowed back, it was a big mistake.
    I agree children shouldn't pay for their parents' mistakes, I also think if you convey to people that from now on there will be no more leniency, even if you are lenient towards those who have been here forever, it would still deter enough people. And even those should have to pay in several ways. This will create a situation where if you think about coming in illegally you know that:
    1. There's a big chance you will now be deported right away.
    2. if for some reason you manage to get away and under the radar and have a family etc, even 20 years from now there will be consequences.
    I also do believe in making legal immigration easier. Right now basically the only way is through family or a job. Someone that just wants to move to America for a better life can't do that unless they are considered refugees. I think those people should be screened and allowed, under certain circumstances to become residents. I get there's the diversity visa, but, that ain't quite enough.
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    N and J reacted to mansux in Depression..   
    How about doing some volunteer work somewhere? You won't get paid but you will feel useful
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    N and J reacted to TBoneTX in Depression..   
    Your feelings are very, very typical of those who have newly arrived.
    Fortunately, you entered on a CR-1, which should shorten this "limbo" time.
    Do you live in a university town? If so, when your husband leaves for work, he could drop you at the student center and pick you up in the evening.
    And/or, he could drop you at the public library.
    When you're at home, you can make lists of things that you want to do after you have your Social Security card and your driver's license. Let your imagination run free. Be as detailed as possible as you write down your plans. You might not end up doing everything that you write down, or what you actually do might vary, but this is a good intellectual exercise that will help you to focus on the future, rather than the "limbo" of the present.
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    N and J reacted to Adil & Jeanne in Question about proof of relationship and co-sponsor birth certificate.   
    Morocco does require original from all / maybe not Canada but this is Morocco
    need advise from those of us who have gone thru the Morocco process as it is a high fraud country unlike the others
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    N and J reacted to ParisHeart in Request for Evidence - proof of bona fide marriage   
    Fire the agency, you can do this all yourself.
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    N and J reacted to Transborderwife in woken up by immigration officers   
    Pregnancy doesn't speed up the process
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    N and J reacted to LionessDeon in Questions about A P 221g, Case sent back? (merged threads)   
    FIrst of all sending a letter to the embassy with accusations is not a good idea. 1. you don't know if they are true. 2. if you want a visa you have to deal with that embassy again, bet they'll remember you now.
    Morocco is a tough embassy. Have you done any researching or reading about other Morocco experiences? You need to find out why you were denied before applying again. There is a reason(s). You have to get to the bottom of why your fiance was denied. Go over the interview with him detail by detail. What questions were asked, what comments were made, has he been completely honest about everything in his life?, etc, etc. What red flags does your relationship have (if any)?. This anger will not do you any good unless you use it for a solution. Start investigating. Maybe a senator could help get an answer of reason for denial. You must overcome this issue if you want another chance with a successful ending!
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    N and J reacted to NikLR in What happens USCIS denies your CR1 visa?   
    My lack of understanding of why someone would marry someone who is currently an inmate has zero effect on anyone's relationship. Whatever floats yer boat sweetheart.
    Dating and marrying someone who had been to prison is a little different than dating and marrying someone who is currently in prison. If none of that dating occurred outside of prison, I again, don't understand why, but again, whatever floats yer boat.
    And no, people aren't sent to prison for anything and everything. I've never seen the inside of a prison. I have maybe one family member who has even been in the drunk tank, and maybe a couple friends, but that's about it. My husband can't think of anyone either. But there are 330 million people here, obviously someone has been chucked in prison for something irrationally stupid.
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    N and J got a reaction from fantonledzepp in K1 interview will be in 3 days... Now my fiance is not ready to get marry   
    Your comments about "I can't cancel, because I don't want to." and the comment "I am worried it will affect immigration in the future." is a little concerning. I wouldn't be so worried about a visa if I loved someone and they were telling me we didn't belong together. It would worry me more that my relationship was failing. If he isn't ready at least he is honest. You are asking him what he wants but he is telling you. He doesn't know and doesn't feel like it is going to work. If you get here and he sees it isn't going to work what are you going to do? If he doesn't file for your papers you have to leave....if you don't and you get caught you better believe that will affect any future plans you ever have on immigrating here. I say thank you after every meal and so does my husband who is from Morocco. It is just having good manners but every culture is different. That is a minor thing and when someone is looking to get out they will use minor excuses and find any little thing to pick on. I would just let him go or postpone your interview and wait to see what happens. If you don't postpone it or cancel it and try playing games (not saying you will) it could jeopardize your immigration to the US if you look to reconcile with your fiance.
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    N and J got a reaction from IcezMan_IcezLady in K1 interview will be in 3 days... Now my fiance is not ready to get marry   
    I'm sorry but you make it sound like she isn't eager to get here. Which I would understand being she wants to start her life. But she does not have to give everything up to come here. It is her choice. I don't believe we are getting the full story. Normally when you pull something so petty as "you didn't say thank you" out you are pretty much reaching for anything to end a relationship. Sorry to me I would think if it was a case of "thank you" he would bring that up and not base a relationship on it but say "in my culture we say thank you after every meal" and move on. She isn't going to know if he doesn't tell her. His response is as good as "it's not you, it's me." Maybe he thinks he is being played....maybe he is hiding something else. Maybe he is just that petty that he is highly insulted. Maybe he is a control freak...Keeping her dangling isn't right just like her pressing him to be with her isn't right.
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    N and J got a reaction from Unlockable in K1 interview will be in 3 days... Now my fiance is not ready to get marry   
    Your comments about "I can't cancel, because I don't want to." and the comment "I am worried it will affect immigration in the future." is a little concerning. I wouldn't be so worried about a visa if I loved someone and they were telling me we didn't belong together. It would worry me more that my relationship was failing. If he isn't ready at least he is honest. You are asking him what he wants but he is telling you. He doesn't know and doesn't feel like it is going to work. If you get here and he sees it isn't going to work what are you going to do? If he doesn't file for your papers you have to leave....if you don't and you get caught you better believe that will affect any future plans you ever have on immigrating here. I say thank you after every meal and so does my husband who is from Morocco. It is just having good manners but every culture is different. That is a minor thing and when someone is looking to get out they will use minor excuses and find any little thing to pick on. I would just let him go or postpone your interview and wait to see what happens. If you don't postpone it or cancel it and try playing games (not saying you will) it could jeopardize your immigration to the US if you look to reconcile with your fiance.
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    N and J reacted to HFM181818 in Tourist Visa from Morocco Questions (merged threads)   
    there is nothing written on the Statue of Liberty that says, "give everyone a tourist visa who wants one.'
    Laws were either absent or far different years and years ago - today, just like in the early 1900's at Ellis Island, American jobs were protected (probably more so back then than now)...we regulate our borders much differently...people break promises all the time....there are few, if any, meaningful border controls once someone arrives in the US with a tourist visa...and as such, combined with 214b, visa seekers from developing countries, including those in the 'sand box', face far more scrutiny than others...that's just the way it is, until Congress legislates otherwise (which, given their far from stellar record at accomplishing anything save re-election, is not likely).
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    N and J reacted to Alaska2012 in NVC processing   
    Find a sponsor.
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    N and J reacted to NikLR in IR-1 visa denied, 221g questions   
    1) would be a good idea if she wants a visa in it
    2) probably not
    3) anywhere to a week to several months depending on the speed of the embassy
    4) You can try your mother again or find another qualified joint sponsor. Your choice.
    ~~moved to AP and waivers from IR1/CR1 process and procedures~~
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    N and J reacted to Harpa Timsah in Visiting Visa While IR1-CR1 Is Pending   
    Completely false. Fire that attorney.
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    N and J reacted to Adil & Jeanne in K1 interview will be in 3 days... Now my fiance is not ready to get marry   
    i would go to the interview and pray you get visa and he did not cancel petition on you
    you have 6 months from time of your medical exam to come to the US
    talk to him / you expressed yourself qute clearly here / maybe there is another issue
    saying thank you anytime is quite polite and nice but i said it so much my husband said you do not have to thank me
    if he changes his mind completely, say, you lost a good woman who loved you dearly and move on
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    N and J reacted to Cathi in K1 interview will be in 3 days... Now my fiance is not ready to get marry   
    Not sure why you are worried about possible future petitions for potential other fiances. If this relationship doesn't work out, the thing to do would get to know someone better before you jump into getting a visa.
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    N and J reacted to Illiria in K1 interview will be in 3 days... Now my fiance is not ready to get marry   
    If he's not ready then he's not ready. He is being honest with how he feels. This should be congratulated, he would be a worse person to have these misgivings and not tell you until you are out in the US.
    As for saying thank you, well that's just good manners. My husband and I have split the cost of meals for all of our 12 year relationship and if he treats me by paying for both of us or I treat him by paying for both of us then we thank the other person as it is a nice thing for them to do. I certainly don't expect it of him and brush it off without saying thank you. If he does it repeatedly in a week as I was feeling down or ill, which he has done before, I would even comment on how he is being nice and thoughtful to show that I have acknowledged and appreciated his kindness. Don't think this is odd.
    You say if it ends you will be hurt again, is this due to having a previous American boyfriend where it ended?
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    N and J reacted to Adil & Jeanne in Can someone point me in the right direction for paperwork?   
    yes, for Morocco, if you do not send original to USCIS, they will want it at NVC stage
    Morocco applications do not accept copies like other countries / my lawyer sent copy of marriage and NVC said this is not original / it is not on the size paper they use / they also asked for originals of all docucents including birth certificates with translated certified copies attached
    I can give you the names of several moroccans who have gone thru this and your infromation must be from them as other countries are much different
    you are not getting ahead of yourself if you prepare now
    best of luck to you'
    Jeanne and Adil
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    N and J reacted to kiandi in Can someone point me in the right direction for paperwork?   
    Here is a step by step guide to the visa you are going for.
    http://www.visajourney.com/content/i130guide1
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