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{Moved to thread to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits section of the forum}

 

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[aaron2020 11,651]

Divorce and move on.

 

His immigration problem, not yours. 

 

His criminal problem, not yours.  

 

No way he is going to successfully with removing conditions and having a drug arrest for 55 lb of MJ.

You're still liable on the I-864.  It will end when he's deported.

Edited October 30, 2019 by aaron2020

[Zoeeeeeee 796]

2 hours ago, aaron2020 said:

Divorce and move on.

 

His immigration problem, not yours. 

 

His criminal problem, not yours.  

 

No way he is going to successfully with removing conditions and having a drug arrest for 55 lb of MJ.

You're still liable on the I-864.  It will end when he's deported.

I was thinking about the I-864 whilst reading this thread...

 

Obviously the OP won’t be held accountable for her husband/ex-husband’s crimes...but will she not be held accountable for his debts? Such as his post-stroke hospital bill (I’m assuming he probably didn’t pay that at the time, as sounds like he’s been ‘quite busy’)...  

[Dedede75 0]

3 hours ago, Ash. said:

Are ya'll divorced?

1. Don't open his mail, that's illegal. Even if the mail comes to your house, you can only open mail in your name, or in the name of minor dependents.
2. Get divorced if you haven't already.
3. Nothing he does should affect you, it's not your responsibility to report his crimes.
4. Start looking for ways to move on without him.

 

[Dedede75 0]

Just now, Dedede75 said:

 

I didn't open his mail and his girlfriend sent me pictures of all the court date and paperwork. I didn't even know he got denied for the I-751 and that had to be there. 

[Eric-Pris 1,602]

16 hours ago, Dedede75 said:

Yes he use me to get here I have been through hell and back

Why did you bail him out then?  Divorce him.

 

There's probably an active warrant for missing immigration court.  And possibly a warrant for missing his criminal case hearing.  He may get "lucky" and get caught by ICE first and get deported before the cops catch him.  If the cops catch him first, he'll probably do some jail time, and then be deported.  But either way, once caught he's done.

[Dedede75 0]

18 minutes ago, Eric-Pris said:

Why did you bail him out then?  Divorce him.

 

There's probably an active warrant for missing immigration court.  And possibly a warrant for missing his criminal case hearing.  He may get "lucky" and get caught by ICE first and get deported before the cops catch him.  If the cops catch him first, he'll probably do some jail time, and then be deported.  But either way, once caught he's done.

I was stupid and he took really sick in jail

[WaterLeaf 199]

My first thought on this thread is about the I-864 because of the medical bill the guy had piled up and not paying for it. I'm not sure if he leave the state as OP may be responsible for it or not.

@Dedede75 Are you still married to the guy? If you are, make your life easier by divorcing him and move on, his problem will chase him, not you. You should have nothing to do with his issue, and you can set up a contact-through-lawyer-communication-only so it's on file and no one else is allowed to bother YOU.

[Nitas_man 3,100]

22 hours ago, Dedede75 said:

Yes will be held accountable for him fleeing. Also with that kind of charge is that automatic deportation. 

I meant will I be held accountable.

No

[Dedede75 0]

On 10/30/2019 at 7:45 PM, Nitas_man said:

No

Are you saying I will be held accountable we are not together. He lives in another city

[Nitas_man 3,100]

14 hours ago, Dedede75 said:

Are you saying I will be held accountable we are not together. He lives in another city

No means no you are not accountable for his criminal actions.

[Sandra G. 5,016]

On 10/29/2019 at 10:03 PM, Dedede75 said:

I was asking should I have reported it to immigration. I sure that is why he has missed three court dates because he has to be fingerprint him and it will pop up

You don’t have to report anything to immigration. He should hire an attorney to do this,despite it will be just a matter of time for him to be deported.

 

He is a drug trafficker,that being said his chance to be here is almost non-existent.

[HappyAndIKnowIt 24]

On 10/30/2019 at 5:16 AM, mindthegap said:

This.

 

Notice To Appear, and Immigration Judge.

 

 

This is not a notice of deportation. This is a (non-legally binding) notice of termination by USCIS  - It would then have to go to court for a hearing and final order of removal.

At this time he technically remains a LPR (lawful permanent resident). 

 

He can still file an I-751, even late, and if he gets a laywer will be advised to.

 

Are you still married?

 

That looks a lot like a Notice to Appear, which is the document summoning him to appear in immigration court.

[mindthegap 2,537]

1 hour ago, HappyAndIKnowIt said:

That looks a lot like a Notice to Appear, which is the document summoning him to appear in immigration court.

On a second look you are correct.....but the broader point still stands - it it not a notice of deportation as the OP thought it was.

[HappyAndIKnowIt 24]

5 minutes ago, mindthegap said:

On a second look you are correct.....but the broader point still stands - it it not a notice of deportation as the OP thought it was.

Yep, agreed.

 

Would you mind visiting this thread and lending your thoughts ?  Your name came up and I wanted to glean whatever I could from your experience.