Please Help!

[Hello729 74]

8 minutes ago, payxibka said:

Google it.  10 second search and I had an sample 

Ok I am doing this now and thank you 🙏 

[Hello729 74]

Do I withdraw the affidavit of support only?  Or do I have to withdraw the application for green card too?

[carmel34 3,529]

The California State Bar Association offers a referral service I suggest you visit and use it to find a good divorce attorney.  Good luck!

 

https://californiaattorneyreferral.com/?PPCCode=G4-CA-LAW&gclid=CjwKCAjwk93rBRBLEiwAcMapUXQSzMTO4RAfILq0BkYSq-Ii4Z6pr_aX_t2WiasVeHDtgB7DvckuaRoCJo8QAvD_BwE

[SalishSea 16,765]

Just now, Hello729 said:

Do I withdraw the affidavit of support only?  Or do I have to withdraw the application for green card too?

The GC application is hers.  You can only withdraw the I-864, without which she cannot get the GC.

[JFH 12,189]

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[Hello729 74]

12 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

The GC application is hers.  You can only withdraw the I-864, without which she cannot get the GC.

Got it thank you so much 🙏

[JFH 12,189]

Check your benefits package with your employer. Ours provides access to a lawyer for family matters such as divorce and child custody. 

[Hello729 74]

4 minutes ago, Hello729 said:

Got it thank you so much 🙏

In order to withdraw the affidavit of support, do I have to give a reason?  If so, what should I write?

[Zoeeeeeee 795]

Just to add to this - my understanding is that most divorce lawyers in California, when representing women, fight dirty. My fiancé’s ex wife told him when they were going through their divorce that her friends (who had been divorced themselves and been advised by their lawyers) and her own lawyer, all advised her to say she was physically abused by him, because it would help re payouts if she ‘looked a victim’. 

 

Fortunately, she refused to lie about something like that, despite the lawyer pushing her to do so...but it is concerning that this is apparently a common tact used by divorce lawyers there 🙁.

[Hello729 74]

2 minutes ago, JFH said:

Check your benefits package with your employer. Ours provides access to a lawyer for family matters such as divorce and child custody. 

 

1 minute ago, Zoeeeeeee said:

Just to add to this - my understanding is that most divorce lawyers in California, when representing women, fight dirty. My fiancé’s ex wife told him when they were going through their divorce that her friends (who had been divorced themselves and been advised by their lawyers) and her own lawyer, all advised her to say she was physically abused by him, because it would help re payouts if she ‘looked a victim’. 

 

Fortunately, she refused to lie about something like that, despite the lawyer pushing her to do so...but it is concerning that this is apparently a common tact used by divorce lawyers there 🙁.

Oh wow!  

[Hello729 74]

This might be a dumb question...but do I have to tell her that I am withdrawing the affidavit of support?  

[Just Paul 4,591]

2 minutes ago, Hello729 said:

This might be a dumb question...but do I have to tell her that I am withdrawing the affidavit of support?  

NO

[Hello729 74]

1 minute ago, Paul & Mary said:

NO

Ok got it!

[Boiler 43,423]

You could expect a Restraining Order.

[Hello729 74]

9 minutes ago, Boiler said:

You could expect a Restraining Order.

Do you mean she will place a restraining order against me?  What’s for? (I am sorry if this is one of my many dumb questions).