is there any red flag in our relatioship... need advices

[Ben&Zian 4,397]

Definately isn't the 'oddest' case on here so. As was mentioned, the age gap may be main thing; but 10 years isn't too bad compared to others that have been around and should be able to be overcome with strong evidence. Morocco is a difficult embassy so just make sure you're prepared. Multiple visits, marriage not being on first visit, all plus's. 

Edited September 24, 2018 by Ben&Zian

[Liam2021 564]

A little bit about my i130: only one visit and get marriage at the first visit, and visa approved with no problem. BUT: we're was born in the same city, go to high school, college together, and we have a bunch of evidence before we marriage, so technical we know each other more than 13 years before marriage.So, unless you have a long story about your relationship like me, my advice is do not get marriage on the first visit.

[Boiler 43,715]

Do you share the same first language?

[janet3 1,170]

How are you currently supporting four children? How did you add him to your auto insurance if he is not in the US? 

 

If you have a  co sponsor there will be a lot of questions from the embassy......

Who is the co sponsor?

Have you met the sponsor?

why would a stranger want to sponsor you?

 

There will also be a lot of questions regarding your children and if they have met your husband....he will need to know their names, ages, grades in school, how well they do in school, how they feel about your husband, if they speak to him and have met him in person (this is a big one....it will be important that they have met him)

 

just a couple of examples of questions they might have.....

 

and just a FYI....you can amend tax returns....if you need to change something on your tax return you can amend it now...

[bavana Havana 3]

58 minutes ago, janet3 said:

How are you currently supporting four children? How did you add him to your auto insurance if he is not in the US? 

 

If you have a  co sponsor there will be a lot of questions from the embassy......

Who is the co sponsor?

Have you met the sponsor?

why would a stranger want to sponsor you?

 

There will also be a lot of questions regarding your children and if they have met your husband....he will need to know their names, ages, grades in school, how well they do in school, how they feel about your husband, if they speak to him and have met him in person (this is a big one....it will be important that they have met him)

 

just a couple of examples of questions they might have.....

 

and just a FYI....you can amend tax returns....if you need to change something on your tax return you can amend it now...

the spornsor its my sister , and if not i suport four children on my taxes yes , i dont make enough only 27.000 per year not enough to add my husband  and plus i can still have the ticket  i buy it from tax money return every year so i every after it i buy the ticket to visit my husband . and yes you can add your husband to asurence auto and life  and he is not here  , many couples did it , the one thing that is imposible its with banks  they dont accept make account he still outside USA , and  my children cant met him its expencive the ticket i cant afford it , he talks to my old daughter sometimes chat ; and my mom ;  ,, really i can  change my tax now  thank you so much 

[Illiria 980]

12 hours ago, savana said:

and  my children cant met him its expencive the ticket i cant afford it , he talks to my old daughter sometimes chat ; and my mom ; 

He doesn’t talk to the others, not even just a hello and goodbye for each call and happy birthdays if they are too young? Why just the eldest daughter? These are things he will be asked too at the interview. I would suggest that you encourage all to talk to him as often as possible. 

 

you met on Facebook, how? Was it a friend of a friend thing or is your profile public and he added or messaged you?

Edited September 25, 2018 by Illiria
Added question and modified language as sounded like a male donkey :-)

[bavana Havana 3]

47 minutes ago, Illiria said:

He doesn’t talk to the others, not even just a hello and goodbye for each call and happy birthdays if they are too young? Why just the eldest daughter? These are things he will be asked too at the interview. I would suggest that you encourage all to talk to him as often as possible. 

 

you met on Facebook, how? Was it a friend of a friend thing or is your profile public and he added or messaged you?

my youngest girl is shy  but she know my husband he dont talk to her  , my oldest girl its open minded and she talks to him sometimes , and he he sometimes saying hi to my younger son , ,  we meet on facebook  he sent me request i accept him and we start talking 

[rianeaouji 1]

i swear if  u follow  the  word of everybody u will  only drive urslef  and ur husband  crazy    right now i didnt  see no one  motivat u  or  only saying that as long as  there is  love between u and him   no one  can  stop u to be together   as long as  there is  love between u and  him    one  day u will be both   good luck  Savana !

[bavana Havana 3]

1 hour ago, rianeaouji said:

i swear if  u follow  the  word of everybody u will  only drive urslef  and ur husband  crazy    right now i didnt  see no one  motivat u  or  only saying that as long as  there is  love between u and him   no one  can  stop u to be together   as long as  there is  love between u and  him    one  day u will be both   good luck  Savana !

yes i seen so many telling me things  really get confused  didnt kno people have this imagining of all things ,   but i just answered them all they quetions  .... 

[pushbrk 12,232]

Your reverse age difference combined with low income for your family size work together as a red flag.  You can probably overcome it with evidence of time spent together in person, but realize that those two things together fit a common fraud profile for that region.  The better career HE has the better it fits that profile/scenario.  If HE is the one who can afford the things you cannot, it looks more like a marriage for HIS immigration benefit.

 

Not trying to throw cold water on your parade, but do look at the process through those glasses and prepare accordingly.

[bavana Havana 3]

16 hours ago, pushbrk said:

Your reverse age difference combined with low income for your family size work together as a red flag.  You can probably overcome it with evidence of time spent together in person, but realize that those two things together fit a common fraud profile for that region.  The better career HE has the better it fits that profile/scenario.  If HE is the one who can afford the things you cannot, it looks more like a marriage for HIS immigration benefit.

 

Not trying to throw cold water on your parade, but do look at the process through those glasses and prepare accordingly.

i just want to understant  how you know all this information , i made a clear post about my relatioship with my husband ,  but all people here  telling me things am so surprise ,   i just makes me confused how you judge it , what do you think  i will be rish , of course i will have low income i have four kids and take care for them i met my husband i need him , our raltioship its true and  also strong  of course we will be ready . i get know morocco  high fraud  country , we sent alots of evidence  i visted morocco  3 times i get married second times  we made  weeding , , i pays all my ticket with myself  , but let us wait and see what the consulate will says and we will see of all of you  is right  ,  no one motivat me ,   but thank you for  all your helps 

[Boiler 43,715]

Not wishing to speak for @pushbrk, but we have seen many similar cases on here.

 

If you do a search on VJ you will find them.

[bavana Havana 3]

6 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Not wishing to speak for @pushbrk, but we have seen many similar cases on here.

 

If you do a search on VJ you will find them.

yes i  know but this not mean  to judge  it  by others  didnt get their visa ,  i know so many their case look like  red flag to people and they get their visas , i know a friend  she is older 59 years old  and her husband  30   and he get his visa  at the interview ,  , we dont have any red flag in our relatioship  just see  ,  just wanted to see what people think because  they are here long than me 

[Boiler 43,715]

Well I counted 10 and we can argue about some of them but to say none strikes me as being unrealistic.

[bavana Havana 3]

1 minute ago, Boiler said:

Well I counted 10 and we can argue about some of them but to say none strikes me as being unrealistic.

yes thank you