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Since she is not his child he cannot obtain dependent coverage for her. Due to privacy laws I don't think he can obtain any insurance coverage for her, the best he can do is pay the mother the cost of the insurance. Morally yes, it would be nice to have insurance on the child. Under the I-864 (I assume you petitioner her) it would be really nice.

Poor child stuck in the middle of this.

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She only wants you for the monetary benefits as a 'step father' for her daughter. Now she wants you to pay for her health insurance. What next? Disney world holiday trip? College funds? She has cho

JR loves JR
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I like to say "poor planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on mine." She planned to leave a long time ago and now she's realized that she made a bad plan. Don't bail her out! You're no

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If you did not adopt the daughter, you should not feel morally obligated.

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What's her and her daughter's legal status? How old is her daughter? She might be eligible for Medicaid & CHIP which don't involve you at all.

She might also use or abuse your affidavit of support so beware and contact your lawyer to get some guidance.

Oh, what a day, what a lovely day!

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On a sidenote, they've been gone almost 6 weeks now...and it STILL feels like someone has kicked me in my chest.

Six weeks is not that much time when you thought you would share a lifetime together.

1. May I ask what is stopping her from providing health insurance for her own child?

2. You mentioned that she abandoned you and her child but she also took the child away. I am assuming the child no longer lives with you (nor with her). Is that right? Does the child no longer reside with you ever?

 

 

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03/24/11 - Got married in the Boogie-Down Bronx, NYC!
04/21/11 - Mailed I-130,I-765, I-485, I-864 and I-693 - Day 00

04/23/11 - Application delivered - Day 02
04/28/11 - NOA (most forms) - Day 07
05/03/11 - Checks cashed - Day 12
05/31/11 - Biometrics completed in the Bronx, NYC - Day 40
06/24/11 - Received someone else's employment authorization card!!! What the...? - Day 64
07/01/11 - Mailed the poor lady's card back after calling USCIS - Day 71
07/07/11 - Received poor lady's interview notice! What??? - Day 77
07/15/11 - Received my own EAD card - Day 85
08/12/11 - Interview. Approved on the spot! - Day 113
08/18/11 - Received card in the mail - Day 119

ROC
05/28/13 - Mailed I-751 - Day 00

05/30/13 - Application delivered - Day 02

05/31/13 - NOA I-797 - Day 03
06/04/13 - Check cashed - Day 07

06/06/13 - NOA delivered to my home/Biometrics letter generated - Day 09

06/10/13 - Received Biometrics letter in the mail - Day 13

06/27/13 - Biometrics completed in Milwaukee, WI - Day 30

09/10/13 - Application approved! - Day 105

09/14/13 - 10 year Green Card received! - Day 109

Citizenship

05/10/16 - Mailed N-400 - Day 00

05/12/16 - Application delivered - Day 02

05/13/16 - Credit card payment accepted - Day 03

05/17/16 - Received text & email update - Day 07

05/20/16 - Received 1st NOA (dated 05/13/16) & created ELIS acct - Day 10

05/21/16 - Received 2nd NOA (dated 05/16/16) confirming my DOB and address - Day 11

05/22/06 - Biometrics scheduled (online update) and appt letter was mailed on 05/20/16 - Day 12

05/24/06 - Biometrics letter became viewable online (appt scheduled for 06/07/16) - Day 14

05/27/16 - Received Biometrics letter in mail - Day 17

05/31/16 - Was denied walk-in fingerprints with just 1 person left in line. Milwaukee office, boo! - Day 21

06/07/16 - Biometrics completed in Milwaukee, WI - Day 28

12/21/16 - Passed Citizenship test/Interview was successful! - Day 197

01/26/17 - I am a US citizen!!! - Day 233

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Six weeks is not that much time when you thought you would share a lifetime together.

1. May I ask what is stopping her from providing health insurance for her own child?

2. You mentioned that she abandoned you and her child but she also took the child away. I am assuming the child no longer lives with you (nor with her). Is that right? Does the child no longer reside with you ever?

I guess I mis-spoke, or mis-typed or whatever. Her and her daughter left me. I call that abandoning. However, as was stated above, she still contacts me for help. Disillusionment has been filed, (about a week and a half ago.) Looks like the end of October we'll be done. She wants to keep me as a 'step-father' for her daughter, (she's 8.) I am having a real problem with that.

Anyway....I'm not sure if this is the forum for marital advice...PM me if you'd like. Any of you. I'd like to think I still have some friends left.

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I guess I mis-spoke, or mis-typed or whatever. Her and her daughter left me. I call that abandoning. However, as was stated above, she still contacts me for help. Disillusionment has been filed, (about a week and a half ago.) Looks like the end of October we'll be done. She wants to keep me as a 'step-father' for her daughter, (she's 8.) I am having a real problem with that.

Anyway....I'm not sure if this is the forum for marital advice...PM me if you'd like. Any of you. I'd like to think I still have some friends left.

She only wants you for the monetary benefits as a 'step father' for her daughter.

Now she wants you to pay for her health insurance. What next? Disney world holiday trip? College funds?

She has chosen her path for her own selfishness.

You should cut ties/contact with her once the divorce is final.

You don't owe her anything after she has hurt you so much.

Done with K1, AOS and ROC

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She only wants you for the monetary benefits as a 'step father' for her daughter.

Now she wants you to pay for her health insurance. What next? Disney world holiday trip? College funds?

She has chosen her path for her own selfishness.

You should cut ties/contact with her once the divorce is final.

You don't owe her anything after she has hurt you so much.

I'd like to so much be a #######, but it's not in my nature. I plan on blocking her number once it's final. I guess that's a step.

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She only wants you for the monetary benefits as a 'step father' for her daughter.

Now she wants you to pay for her health insurance. What next? Disney world holiday trip? College funds?

She has chosen her path for her own selfishness.

You should cut ties/contact with her once the divorce is final.

You don't owe her anything after she has hurt you so much.

she just texted me that she wants me to help find her a cheap apartment and co-sign too.....ARRRRRRGH!!!!!

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she just texted me that she wants me to help find her a cheap apartment and co-sign too.....ARRRRRRGH!!!!!

Nope. :no::no::no:

You are not married to her anymore.

So you don't need to put your name and credit score on the line for her (in case she skips town).

Done with K1, AOS and ROC

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Nope. :no::no::no:

You are not married to her anymore.

So you don't need to put your name and credit score on the line for her (in case she skips town).

Oh, I know. My credit is in the toilet right now because of her anyway.

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she just texted me that she wants me to help find her a cheap apartment and co-sign too.....ARRRRRRGH!!!!!

Is she kidding? :rofl:

 

 

AOS

03/24/11 - Got married in the Boogie-Down Bronx, NYC!
04/21/11 - Mailed I-130,I-765, I-485, I-864 and I-693 - Day 00

04/23/11 - Application delivered - Day 02
04/28/11 - NOA (most forms) - Day 07
05/03/11 - Checks cashed - Day 12
05/31/11 - Biometrics completed in the Bronx, NYC - Day 40
06/24/11 - Received someone else's employment authorization card!!! What the...? - Day 64
07/01/11 - Mailed the poor lady's card back after calling USCIS - Day 71
07/07/11 - Received poor lady's interview notice! What??? - Day 77
07/15/11 - Received my own EAD card - Day 85
08/12/11 - Interview. Approved on the spot! - Day 113
08/18/11 - Received card in the mail - Day 119

ROC
05/28/13 - Mailed I-751 - Day 00

05/30/13 - Application delivered - Day 02

05/31/13 - NOA I-797 - Day 03
06/04/13 - Check cashed - Day 07

06/06/13 - NOA delivered to my home/Biometrics letter generated - Day 09

06/10/13 - Received Biometrics letter in the mail - Day 13

06/27/13 - Biometrics completed in Milwaukee, WI - Day 30

09/10/13 - Application approved! - Day 105

09/14/13 - 10 year Green Card received! - Day 109

Citizenship

05/10/16 - Mailed N-400 - Day 00

05/12/16 - Application delivered - Day 02

05/13/16 - Credit card payment accepted - Day 03

05/17/16 - Received text & email update - Day 07

05/20/16 - Received 1st NOA (dated 05/13/16) & created ELIS acct - Day 10

05/21/16 - Received 2nd NOA (dated 05/16/16) confirming my DOB and address - Day 11

05/22/06 - Biometrics scheduled (online update) and appt letter was mailed on 05/20/16 - Day 12

05/24/06 - Biometrics letter became viewable online (appt scheduled for 06/07/16) - Day 14

05/27/16 - Received Biometrics letter in mail - Day 17

05/31/16 - Was denied walk-in fingerprints with just 1 person left in line. Milwaukee office, boo! - Day 21

06/07/16 - Biometrics completed in Milwaukee, WI - Day 28

12/21/16 - Passed Citizenship test/Interview was successful! - Day 197

01/26/17 - I am a US citizen!!! - Day 233

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I like to say "poor planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on mine." She planned to leave a long time ago and now she's realized that she made a bad plan. Don't bail her out! You're not being mean by letting her reap the consequences of her actions. It's your right to stop allowing her to use you. And you don't need to feel guilty about what happens to her daughter. You did nothing to cause this situation. I know it's hard, but stay away from her and don't commit to any financial obligations for her. You've done plenty already.

K-1 from Haiti - NOA1: 5/27/2014; NOA2: 7/8 USCIS never updated to say that it was sent to the NVC (just in case you're as concerned about your status not updating as I was about mine)
NVC Case Number Received: 7/31; Left NVC: 8/1 - tracked via DHL website; CEAC Status - Ready: 8/7; Packet 3 Received: 9/5 - Beneficiary received packet / Medical Completed: 9/19;
DS-160 Submitted: 9/22 - (CEAC date updated); Packet 3 Submitted: 9/26; Packet 4 Received: 10/24; Interview Date: 11/6 @ 7 am Interview Result: Approved!
CEAC Status Issued: 11/10; USTraveldocs.com finally acknowledged Fiance's passport actually in their system: 11/20; Passport Received: 11/21;

POE: 11/23/2014; Wedding: 2/14/2015

AOS/EAD/AP Filed: 2/21/2015;

USCIS EAD & AP received: 2/25; USCIS AOS received: 2/27; Received NOA1s in mail: 3/5; Biometrics: 3/26; EAD/AP Card in Production: 5/11; EAD/AP Card Mailed: 5/1; EAD/AP Card Received 5/19; NPIW Letter dated: 6/11/15; Green card Approved: 10/1/15;

Green card Received: 10/7/15

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What's her and her daughter's legal status? How old is her daughter? She might be eligible for Medicaid & CHIP which don't involve you at all.

I was going to say this. Medicaid is probably an option, if not, there are obamacare plans. Children have an easy time with finding affordable/free plans, so I wouldnøt worry.

3/2/18  E-filed N-400 under 5 year rule

3/26/18 Biometrics

7/2019-12/2019 (Yes, 16- 21 months) Estimated time to interview MSP office.

 

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