every thing was a lie

[EegyptA 41]

just had our interview in December after waiting for almost 2 years for this man.....we are waiting in AP......and yesterday I found out my fiancé has been cheating on me with other women (not woman) this whole time for 2 years .....since the beginning......everything was a lie......how cud I have been so stupid?

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[jajaju 33]

That's awful you must be feeling so sad. Please remember that it's better that you found out now than in 6 months, one year or way down the road.

Good luck to you, there's a better man out there for you.

[Blossomman999 0]

I'm so sorry sorry for this !!!!

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[Ilovemyman 147]

If you are I AP , you can e-mail tge consulate and stop his visa.

Write to uscis and stop the patition.

Or call to the consulate and explain that .

They arent going to issue his visa if you say that he isnt real .

Sorry be strong and pray.

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

Also send them the proof he had others they will tag him as a known fraud and he will not get another fiance/spousal visa

[Glyn and Kathy 288]

Wow, I'm so sorry. I know you're hurting right now, but like one of the posters above said, better to find out now.

[Newsha 10]

It's better you know now, if you're sure he's been unfaithful don't give him a second chance that's suicide

Don't regret about the two years you're lucky enough to figure this out now

Just cancel everything and move on

Be strong

[NY_BX 397]

just had our interview in December after waiting for almost 2 years for this man.....we are waiting in AP......and yesterday I found out my fiancé has been cheating on me with other women (not woman) this whole time for 2 years .....since the beginning......everything was a lie......how cud I have been so stupid?

Count your blessings! He's still there. Withdraw the petition and move on. These men are playing the field and will play harder upon arrival. Typical behavior of a scammer and a womanizer.

Sorry you're hurt, but you will survive and thrive!

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[Emily and Nathan 39]

He had the best... now he can have the rest girl..

Make sure you take care of the visa business.. and then look forward to better.. brighter... things.

[Shiobhan 235]

Report it to USCIS, call/email his consulate advising them not to

issue visa, send a certified letter with-drawing your petition and

kick him to the curb, thank your lucky stars the creep did not make

it here to use you, then dump you and go marry one of them

[fedo 2]

just had our interview in December after waiting for almost 2 years for this man.....we are waiting in AP......and yesterday I found out my fiancé has been cheating on me with other women (not woman) this whole time for 2 years .....since the beginning......everything was a lie......how cud I have been so stupid?

how did you know he is with all those women? do you have a proof? and what is the age difference ? religion? all that?

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[Pitaya 2,576]

~Moved from K-1 Process to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits Forum~

~Forum generally deals with similar issues~

[Girl from Celebes 588]

Stop the process and move on. It always hurts when breakup from a relationship but it is much better to find out now than later.

[Jon York 156]

Wow. That must be a crushing blow. I'm so sorry to hear it. I'm just curious - with him there and you here - how did you find out? I'm glad you did though - like everyone else said, much better to find out now than after he would have arrived.

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[iffatnasim 3]

So sorry i know it's very hard time for you ....this guy does not deserve for you....good luck for your future