Did you send your sexual conversations?

[AmyWrites 593]

Jesus no, don't do that. I'd think in a high fraud consulate like Nigeria it might even be a bad thing.

[evelyn1140 18]

Jesus no, don't do that. I'd think in a high fraud consulate like Nigeria it might even be a bad thing.

Well if they are really a couple I think it will support their relationship. We are all humans, the CO would not be surprised. furthermore, if you give them what you want(just regular conversation) it would not be consistent. They might think you don't have a relationship. When my husband went for his interview. He gave them everything without skipping any page.

Give them all

Edited July 10, 2012 by evelyn1140

[bigdog 376]

In the day our attorney advised not to send any XX or real personal stuff like that. You should have lots of other general planning stuff etc to send.

[Bryan and Isabel 29]

Yes I did send mine, especially the dirty ones :rofl:

[Therealworld 90]

it is really a country specific thing

[ddartt1 2]

Ok, I'm trying to go through our on yahoo chats to send for proof of our relationship, but our conversations seem to turn sexual a lot. Im really ashamed to send it, but my Fiance said well they wanted proof so give them what they want... what do you guys think

We didn't print any yahoo chats, we used phone bills and emails.

[RobbyUSA 26]

Ok, I'm trying to go through our on yahoo chats to send for proof of our relationship, but our conversations seem to turn sexual a lot. Im really ashamed to send it, but my Fiance said well they wanted proof so give them what they want... what do you guys think

No because I don't want to get the CO jealous.

I will use any advantage I can find.

better safe than sorry.

if you think it helps, think again.

[Mike B. 231]

Post them all here and we'll tell if if they are too sexual.

[evelyn1140 18]

In the day our attorney advised not to send any XX or real personal stuff like that. You should have lots of other general planning stuff etc to send.

how can you be a couple and not talk about sex? sex it is part of the plan, such as buying a car, home or having kids. Just saying

[rade2rising 205]

how can you be a couple and not talk about sex? sex it is part of the plan, such as buying a car, home or having kids. Just saying

agree with you. wouldnt it seem very unusual that all the time you spoke you never discuss anything sexual? Send all the infos. they say dont sent pornographic stuffs. I dont think sexy chats hugs

and kisses fall into that category.

Post them all here and we'll tell if if they are too sexual.

[MissAAA 9]

They are your conversations between you and your fiance so they are fair game. Just use your discretion and reduce the more sexually in depth ones and you should be alright.

Dont know why folks are getting uber sensitive and self righteous on this forum....

[Brian121957 43]

One of the things they are looking for with chat logs is to see who much you talk not exactly what did you say.

Some of our logs were very big. For most of our logs I summited an abbreviated version. It included the date and time of each message but only the first 20 characters of each message. Basically 1 line per message. It will show how much time is devoted to the relationship which is what they really want to know. Keep the full logs only if they actually ask for them.

[Udella&Wiz 325]

I'm not personally from a country where submitting chat conversations is necessary so my advice probably isn't helpful but I would be inclined to keep my 'personal convos' to myself and send portions of chat logs taht are relevant or prove on going conversations over the months. They cannot seriously be interested in every little thing you've said for months on end, I highly doubt they read every bit of them.

In my opinion chat logs could so easily be falsified (with what you can do with editting on computers today) that a chat log can't really be the best evidence anyway.

Again - just my personal opinion.

[Udella&Wiz 325]

One of the things they are looking for with chat logs is to see who much you talk not exactly what did you say.

Some of our logs were very big. For most of our logs I summited an abbreviated version. It included the date and time of each message but only the first 20 characters of each message. Basically 1 line per message. It will show how much time is devoted to the relationship which is what they really want to know. Keep the full logs only if they actually ask for them.

That's a good approach

[charlie471963 3]

I would like to say that in the laws and rules of the US Ebassy and in the United States Immigration by laws it states that one must be of morral caricature it could be miss understood should you choose to send them , personally I wounldn't and

didn't when I ran into the same dilemma awhile ago . I think its best to do as most have done and that is go through and pick one conversation out of every month make sure its clean and then hit print should it be you can't find any then take a black

marker and up to the point where you can see that the conversation is getting sexual blot it out leaving a clue that it is going to get sexual so that the CO can obviously see that and know that you are not hiding anything except the content of a sexual

conversation. Should you be asked of the content afterwards tell them the truth and I'm sure all will be well . Ok then good luck