My CR-1 visa interview is next week I NEED HELP!!!

[Olomi_811 130]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/351050-divorce-during-cr-1-visa-processing/page__p__5145718#entry5145718

Trying to wrap my head around the last line. On 2/07/2012@ 10:59 pm you were still in love with your wife, but in this post you met someone in Feb that you love and she knows all about what's happening with you. I refuse to believe anyone would knowingly walk into a live mine field without thinking there would be a serious pay off. You say you are certain you will be given a visa. You have known for a few months now about YOUR marital issues yet remain diligent in YOUR pursuit of a visa. You clearly don't want to abandon YOUR agenda.

The blessing of this site is it helps those of us who have pure love, but it also gives assistance to those whose intentions are selfish.

Edited April 7, 2012 by Olomi_811

[jaycali 415]

I understand that your situation is difficult. i'd be devastated if one week before my interview, my wife wanted a divorce. Absolutely devastated. But that's life unfortunately.

1: Is there a possibilty I get the visa in absence of the phone record/bill? Generally speaking, yes, one can get a visa in the absence of a phone bill. If the other evidence is enough.

2: What happens to me after I get the divorce upon my arrival? Even if you were to get a visa by fraud, you would still need to remove conditions 2 years later. To remove conditions after a divorce is possible, but would be very difficult in your case. You'll have to prove that the marriage was entered into in good faith, and that you had no intention of divorcing when you entered the US.

3: Do I still get to stay in US after the divorce is over? Strictly speaking, Yes. As long as no one reports you. And until it's time for removing of conditions. In your situation, it seems unlikely that you'd get the 10-year green card, and you would most likely be removed when trying to remove conditions.

4. My new girlfriend who is 26 and more matured in reasoning really wants me so much that she wants us to get married after the divorce,can this happen?Because I do love her. Don't chance it. Get the divorce done now, cancel your interview and explain why you cancelled. That's the legal and responsible thing to do. If you enter the US based on fraud, you'll get a lifetime ban, even if your new wife/fiance were to petition for you.

5.I basically just need general advice regards this whole situation..I have done so much for this girl to have me come over there and get deported after everything I have done for her knowing the divorce isnt my decision but hers for no justified reason(s). please help... As I stated earlier. Knowing you'll get a divorce once you enter the US, you'd be attempting to obtain a visa next week by fraudulently claiming that a valid, bona fide relationship exists. If caught, you'll face a lifetime bar. If your visa is granted, you'll still face a potential lifetime bar in two years when trying to remove conditions. You're not in the "safe zone" once you get into the US.

Here are my three pieces of honest advise for you:

1. Don't lie to the embassy. It's highly illegal, and will bite you in the A$$ later.

1. Either talk to your wife. It seems as though you've been together for quite a while, and it may just be the distance that is getting to her. Talk to her, make it known that you will be in the US in a week or two. Try to work things out from there. If she's willing to work things out, and you'll still be trying to work on your marriage, your marriage is bona fide, and therefore, you wouldn't be committing fraud by obtaining the visa.

2. Or, cancel your interview, and explain to the embassy what has happened. If you love this new girl, work on your relationship with her. If you get engaged or married at a later time, she can petition again for you.

Edited April 7, 2012 by jaejayC

[cdneh 3,112]

I don't know if the OP is actually still reading the responses here or not . The last thread he is shown to have been reading here is one with the charming title:

Required Documents at Visa Interview - CR-1 Visa.

Seems to me the plan is to soldier on regardless. To lie at the interview, and attempt to get what he wants regardless of whether it is legal, or even possible, or not.

I take a little comfort really, in the knowledge that he is going to be interviewed at a very tough embassy in a known high fraud country. With even a modest amount of luck on behalf of those of you making a genuine effort to successfully obtain a Visa out of this place, it is my profound wish that they catch him outright lying to them. I hope they toss his behind into infinite AP. I hope he gets denied, and revoked.

I understand that your situation is difficult. i'd be devastated if one week before my interview, my wife wanted a divorce. Absolutely devastated. But that's life unfortunately.

It wasn't a week before. He was posting and asking similar question in early February.

[ayomide1 5]

Its situations like this that gives Nigeria a bad name..If she is no more interested then why are you still thinking of move over here... :hehe:

And if you have met another person , why not let the new person petition for you :bonk:

[Olomi_811 130]

Its situations like this that gives Nigeria a bad name..If she is no more interested then why are you still thinking of move over here... :hehe:

And if you have met another person , why not let the new person petition for you :bonk:

Because this is not about the love of any woman; it is about the love of what is believed is in AMERICA. I like to say the quality of life may be different, but the quantity you pay is the same.

[Marlon&Fallon 13]

It is this kind of foolishness that makes certain VJERS say things like "Nigeria is the highest fraud consulate" "Nigerians are scammers and will do anything to get to America" "Nigerians know every trick in the book",etc. If your marriage is over your "wife" does not have to bring you to the states to divorce. She can contact a lawyer and make it happen. You say you never considered the money you were sending to help her, because she was your wife, but somehow you now seem to think your efforts entitles you to attend an interview for the purpose of still getting here. What do you do for employment that can possibly allow you to send any type of substantial funds here when 1 US dollar is presently worth 155 Naira?? As for you now having a girlfriend and in love with her, YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING!! You can't pretend to be devestated about what your wife is doing and then find love the following month. That pseudonym is definitely befitting!

Sounds like you found some young chick to pay off in exchange for a visa and now the plot is unraveling. You're hoping that you can get the visa, come to the US, get the divorce, and quickly marry this new person. Just shameless!

Sorry, but I can't see things any differently from this poster. The OP's story sounds too fishy to me.

[jaycali 415]

He was posting and asking similar question in early February.

My bad, I didn't see those.

I try to assume the best in everyone posting on here. But in that case this seems to be the type of case which makes everyone going through the Lagos consulate suffer.

OP, you'll get caught if you go through with this. If you somehow make it through the interview, your plan will fail in 2 years when removing conditions. Do it the legal and legit way, or face the consequences. Don't say you weren't warned.

Edited April 7, 2012 by jaejayC

[EAbbas 213]

This is one reason that real genuine relationships have a difficult time getting thru the embassy level without long AP ....

to the OP this is nothing more than material misrepresentation at best and it will be a ban for life if you go thru with it because something this big can't stay hidden for long they can and will eventually find out that you lied.

by attending this interview you will be telling the embassy your in love with your current wife (which they may or may not know you already have divorce papers in process) and your saying your committed to this relationship to the embassy of which your telling us that you already have another girl friend who you plan to marry as soon as your divorce to the petitioner is final.

All I can say is you need to call and cancel if you want any chance at all to come and marry your new girl friend. Just pray your current wife also hasn't withdrawn her petition for you... who knows.. she may have already and just hasn't said anything so when you go into the interview pretending to be in love iwth her and coming for her (all the time planning to divorce and marry someone else) they have all the evidence they need and there won't be anymore petitioning from USA for you from anyone again.

Here on VJ when we see issues like this it's like slapping the real couples in the face and there is no offering support for this kind of visa fraud.

We aren't saying you don't have the right to divorce and remarry that's up to you and your decision. What we are saying is to go to a CR1 interview for a woman who already has papers to divorce is fraud... because you will be lying telling the embassy your planning to live your life with her when you obviously aren't.

[Visitor 90]

If it was me I would be more concerned about my spouse wanting to divorce me than what is going on with my paperwork.

Clearly you are more upset about this inconvenience to your status to immigrate rather than the relationship itself.

I wonder how the immigration department will view this. Maybe they will sympathize with you and give you more time to juggle wives.....although I seriously doubt it.

I totally agree with other posters above. Just my 2 cents worth and just sayin'....

Edited April 7, 2012 by Outback Annie

[keysjangle 145]

OP, don't be stupid. Seriously. Immigration to the U.S. isn't a game. Get your sh*t straight and stop trying to weasel your way in. Be an honest, noble man and file a divorce for your wife, and do away with the interview. You're making a mockery of all of us and what we're going through. Sickening.

Edited April 7, 2012 by Gervl

[Julie y Pat 67]

I'm surprised no one has wondered what his wife's cosponsor thinks of the plan of divorce right away. I'm just assuming she needs a cosponsor being that he has to send her money.

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

That alone should be a lesson to be very very careful before being a co sponsor.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

As it has become clear that the OP is really seeking advice on how to commit immigration fraud, and this is a violation of the Terms of Service for participation on Visa Journey, I am closing this thread to further discussion.