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My wife hates it if I bring home something used, she always insist on buying new. And if she she see any holes in my shirt she insist I throw it away even if its a work shirt and makes me cuff my pants if there a bit long. Uses a pic like object to clean her ears.

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By birth is not one an outcast,

By birth is not one a noble,but

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Sweden
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before he turns on or off the light he says "ready? 1, 2, 3."

Haha, that's awesome. :D

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I'm the foreigner in this relationship but i'm not entirely convinced i'm the weird (Sorry, quirky :P ) one!

I insist shoes come off before people come in the house but i don't think that's a British thing, lots of my visitors leave them on only to get sent back to the hall to take them off...

Knife and fork for every meal, my husband only uses a fork! I also put the knife and fork together in the middle of the plate when i'm done. That's kind of normal here. When i was a waitress we would assume people hadn't finished if they didn't do it.

Lock all the doors. Again not sure if that's because of where we live at the moment but it took a while for him to get used to locking it all the time (we both live in England at the moment).

I can't think of much more, even though in every day life there must be loads. I have changed my ways a lot and so has he. Our house is very much made up of mixed traditions but it works for us.

We also speak a mixture of British and American English all the time. We both understand both variations yet others tend not to when they visit etc.

I measure pants by my neck too! what's wrong with that?. I am not crazy.My mother had me tested :rofl:

Haha! Just watched The Big Bang Theory and seen that quote! :rofl:

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Sweden
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I don't think I have ever met anyone in my 36 years in Sweden who does not take the shoes off at the door. I don't get why you would leave them on?

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Marriage : June 30, 2011

I-130 Sent : November 26, 2011

I-130 NOA1 : December 2, 2011

I-130 Approved : May 2, 2012

NVC Received : May 14, 2012

Received DS-3032 / I-864 Bill : June 1, 2012

Pay I-864 Bill : June 5, 2012

Return Completed DS-3032 : June 1, 2012

Pay IV Bill : June 7, 2012

Case Completed at NVC : July 2, 2012

Interview Date : September 28, 2012

Interview Result : Approved

Visa Received : October 3, 2012

US Entry : December 23, 2012

Processing Estimates/Stats : Your I-130 was approved in 152 days from your NOA1 date.

Your interview took 301 days from your I-130 NOA1 date.

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I'm cool with people who want to be shoeless in their home, but it kind of annoys me when they insist guests do it too. My sister and brother in law always ditch the shoes when they get in the door and make their kids do the same, but guests can do what they want.

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10/06/2005 Met in Ireland while I was on a study abroad

03/15/2010 K-1 NOA1

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09/10/2010 K-1 Interview

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10/01/2010 Wedding

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12/22/2010 EAD/AP Approved

04/05/2011 AOS Approved - no interview

04/09/2011 Green Card received

01/24/2013 ROC NOA1

06/28/2013 ROC Approved - no interview

07/05/2013 10-year Green Card received

08/19/2014 N-400 NOA

12/06/2014 N-400 Interview

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Good habit to develop: when you walk in as a guest and see shoes at the door either take yours off or ask. I'm bored and raised in America in a home where it wasn't a rule or habit but after living in an apt with nasty carpet, I insist that everyone remove shoes at the door. It took a good two years and a LOT of cursing and bithcing to get my brother to develop the habit when visiting my home.

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My husband likes to eat spinach with ketchup. But I think he's just weird; probably has nothing to do with being Thai. :D

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Currently.... they have issued Ice the incorrect GC and we have tried 4 times to fix it. First time they had us send it to the incorrect address. Second time they said we used an expired form, which was the form they gave us. Third time was "oh sorry we lost the last page, can you send it again?." Fourth time is the gov is shut down. Will this ever be corrected in time for Ice to get the permanent GC? Stay tuned to find out. T_T

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Denmark
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Good habit to develop: when you walk in as a guest and see shoes at the door either take yours off or ask. I'm bored and raised in America in a home where it wasn't a rule or habit but after living in an apt with nasty carpet, I insist that everyone remove shoes at the door. It took a good two years and a LOT of cursing and bithcing to get my brother to develop the habit when visiting my home.

Precisely! We were out looking at a house today and noticed the home owner didn't wear shoes so I asked if he wanted us to take of our shoes. The others more or less was half way through the house before they heard me and turned around. More accurately, they heard the home owner answer my question with a "yes please".

K1 process, October 2010 > POE, July 2011

I-129F approved in 180 days from NOA1 date. (195 days from filing to NOA2 in hand)

Interview took 224 days from I-129F NOA1 date. (241 days from filing petition until visa in hand)

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AOS process, December 2011 > July 2012

EAD/AP Approval took 51 days from NOA1 date to email update. (77 days from filing until EAD/AP in hand)

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Romania
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I'm cool with people who want to be shoeless in their home, but it kind of annoys me when they insist guests do it too. My sister and brother in law always ditch the shoes when they get in the door and make their kids do the same, but guests can do what they want.

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I don't want street garbage in my house.


USCIS [*] 22 Nov. 2011 - I-129 package sent; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - Package delivered; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - NOA1/petition received and routed to the California Service Center; [*] 30 Nov. 2011 - Touched/confirmation though text message and email; [*] 03 Dec. 2011 - Hard copy received; [*]24 April 2012 - NOA2 (no RFEs)/text message/email/USCIS account updated; [*] 27 April 2012 - NOA2 hard copy received.

NVC [*] 14 May 2012 - Petition received by NVC ; [*] 16 May 2012 - Petition left NVC.

EMBASSY [*] 18 May 2012 - Petition arrived at the US Embassy in Bucharest; [*] 22 May 2012 - Package 3 received; [*] 24 May 2012 - Package sent to the consulate, interview date set; [*] 14 June 2012 - Interview date, approved.

POE [*] 04 July 2012 - Minneapolis/St.Paul. [*] 16 September 2012 - Wedding Day!

AOS/EAD/AP [*] 04 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package sent; [*] 07 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package delivered; [*] 12 February 2013 - NOA1 text messages/emails; [*] 16 February 2013 - NOA1 received in the regular mail; [*] 28 February 2013 - Biometrics letter received (appointment date, March 8th); [*] 04 March 2013 - Biometrics walk-in completed (9 out of 10 fingerprints taken, pinky would not give in); [*] 04 April 2013 - EAD/AP card approved; [*] 11 April 2013 - Combo card sent/tracking number obtained; [*] 15 April 2013 - Card delivered.

[*] 15 May 2013 - Moved from MN to LA; [*] 17 May 2013 - Applied for a new SS card/filed an AR-11 online (unsuccessfully), therefore called and spoke to a Tier 2 and changed the address; [*] 22 May 2013 - Address updated on My Case Status (finally can see the case numbers online); [*] 28 May 2013 - Letter received in the mail confirming the change of address; [*] 31 July 2013 - Went to Romania; [*] 12 September 2013 - returned to the US using the AP, POE Houston, everything went smoothly; [*] 20 September 2013 - Spoke to a Tier2 and put in a service request; [*] 23 September 2013 - Got "Possible Interview Waiver" letter (originally sent on August, 29th to my old address, returned and re-routed to my current address); [*] 1 October 2013 - Started a new job.

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Knife and fork for every meal, my husband only uses a fork! I also put the knife and fork together in the middle of the plate when i'm done. That's kind of normal here. When i was a waitress we would assume people hadn't finished if they didn't do it.

OMG, when we lived in France, I thought it was just my husband being weird for cutting his food with the side of his fork, but I've realized most people here do it too! I still have to understand why people prefer to struggle, rubbing their fork frantically on their meat for 5 min, instead of nicely, easily and quickly cutting it with a knife...

Knife always on the table for me too, even if I'm just eating salad.

And fork and knife on the plate when I'm finished if eating out to signal to the waiter that I'm done. Again, I understand better why my husband had problems with it in France and sometimes waited for ages to have his table cleaned, lol!

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Naturalization

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Romania
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He finds it odd that I eat fries with a fork.

I find it odd that he doesn't eat like Romanians do (we all hold the fork/spoon/knife exactly in the same manner - the proper one should I add).

http://www.wikihow.com/Use-a-Fork-and-Knife-Properly

And I iron everything, socks, underwear, jeans, bed sheets etc.

Edited by Peter_Pan


USCIS [*] 22 Nov. 2011 - I-129 package sent; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - Package delivered; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - NOA1/petition received and routed to the California Service Center; [*] 30 Nov. 2011 - Touched/confirmation though text message and email; [*] 03 Dec. 2011 - Hard copy received; [*]24 April 2012 - NOA2 (no RFEs)/text message/email/USCIS account updated; [*] 27 April 2012 - NOA2 hard copy received.

NVC [*] 14 May 2012 - Petition received by NVC ; [*] 16 May 2012 - Petition left NVC.

EMBASSY [*] 18 May 2012 - Petition arrived at the US Embassy in Bucharest; [*] 22 May 2012 - Package 3 received; [*] 24 May 2012 - Package sent to the consulate, interview date set; [*] 14 June 2012 - Interview date, approved.

POE [*] 04 July 2012 - Minneapolis/St.Paul. [*] 16 September 2012 - Wedding Day!

AOS/EAD/AP [*] 04 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package sent; [*] 07 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package delivered; [*] 12 February 2013 - NOA1 text messages/emails; [*] 16 February 2013 - NOA1 received in the regular mail; [*] 28 February 2013 - Biometrics letter received (appointment date, March 8th); [*] 04 March 2013 - Biometrics walk-in completed (9 out of 10 fingerprints taken, pinky would not give in); [*] 04 April 2013 - EAD/AP card approved; [*] 11 April 2013 - Combo card sent/tracking number obtained; [*] 15 April 2013 - Card delivered.

[*] 15 May 2013 - Moved from MN to LA; [*] 17 May 2013 - Applied for a new SS card/filed an AR-11 online (unsuccessfully), therefore called and spoke to a Tier 2 and changed the address; [*] 22 May 2013 - Address updated on My Case Status (finally can see the case numbers online); [*] 28 May 2013 - Letter received in the mail confirming the change of address; [*] 31 July 2013 - Went to Romania; [*] 12 September 2013 - returned to the US using the AP, POE Houston, everything went smoothly; [*] 20 September 2013 - Spoke to a Tier2 and put in a service request; [*] 23 September 2013 - Got "Possible Interview Waiver" letter (originally sent on August, 29th to my old address, returned and re-routed to my current address); [*] 1 October 2013 - Started a new job.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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I don't think I have ever met anyone in my 36 years in Sweden who does not take the shoes off at the door. I don't get why you would leave them on?

We carry three to seven armloads of wood a day into the cabin eight to nine months a year. The rest of the time we are in and out of the cabin working on stuff all day. So it would be taking your boots off ten or twenty times a day. Steel-toed laced work boots.

We don't know any people who make us take our boots off at the door. Not much point to knowing someone like that here.

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Sweden
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We carry three to seven armloads of wood a day into the cabin eight to nine months a year. The rest of the time we are in and out of the cabin working on stuff all day. So it would be taking your boots off ten or twenty times a day. Steel-toed laced work boots.

We don't know any people who make us take our boots off at the door. Not much point to knowing someone like that here.

Fair enough. But is this cabin your house? Where you live, eat and sleep?

Marriage : June 30, 2011

I-130 Sent : November 26, 2011

I-130 NOA1 : December 2, 2011

I-130 Approved : May 2, 2012

NVC Received : May 14, 2012

Received DS-3032 / I-864 Bill : June 1, 2012

Pay I-864 Bill : June 5, 2012

Return Completed DS-3032 : June 1, 2012

Pay IV Bill : June 7, 2012

Case Completed at NVC : July 2, 2012

Interview Date : September 28, 2012

Interview Result : Approved

Visa Received : October 3, 2012

US Entry : December 23, 2012

Processing Estimates/Stats : Your I-130 was approved in 152 days from your NOA1 date.

Your interview took 301 days from your I-130 NOA1 date.

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My wedding day - the best day of my life

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Australia
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He finds it odd that I eat fries with a fork.

I find it odd that he doesn't eat like Romanians do (we all hold the fork/spoon/knife exactly in the same manner - the proper one should I add).

http://www.wikihow.com/Use-a-Fork-and-Knife-Properly

And I iron everything, socks, underwear, jeans, bed sheets etc.

that vid is wrong.. Knife and fork are around the wrong way... lol joking joking. I'm left handed so I must ALWAYS "do it wrong" :P Everything else I do though...

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