Ewok, is this the low standard you accept from a mod?

[Fandango 1,439]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/304158-best-way-to-meet-a-ukrainianrussian-and-cheapest/page__st__240__gopid__4612860#entry4612860

Is it so shocking that men, who are visual creatures, prefer women who keep in good shape, dress nicely, can walk in heels, and know how accentuate their features to maximize their prettiness quotient? It's a no-brainer to me. I'm a feminist, but I'm also a realist. In Russia, I'm practically chubby. When I go home, everyone asks me what my secret is for staying so thin and I'm nearly always the thinnest woman in a store/restaurant/whatever. Young American women do tend to be very lax with their appearance, and I say that as a young American women.

Careful eekee, you are going to lose your union card by saying things like that

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

You need to be a little more specific there, Lisa.

http://www.visajourney.com/content/terms

[Fandango 1,439]

Mocking American women like that should be unacceptable from any member here, let alone a mod. It's disgusting.

[payxibka 10,044]

Mocking American women like that should be unacceptable from any member here, let alone a mod. It's disgusting.

I see nothing done unacceptably by Brad

[Fandango 1,439]

Nope. 'lose her union card' to whom? The legion of fat, ill dressed, slobs that are American women?

Not from a mod, that is wrong.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Ewok is no longer lurking. I guess, no comment will be forthcoming.

[AmyWrites 593]

IMO, moderatos should be completely neutral. No comments like that, no political/religious anything.

Obviously it's not like that in this site.

Ignore it. They're not worth it.

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

By the same token, do American men lose their union card when they become physically fit and lose the beer gut and moobs? Something I will need to ponder........

[웃 910]

Stop trolling the RUB forum. You have no business there!

[luckytxn 2,263]

http://www.visajourn...60#entry4612860

Brad said nothing or did anything wrong. You on the other hand seem too touchy to be getting into any discussions and maybe should be banned from any discussions. You also a few times asked someone what they meant so maybe the problem is you.

[RaspberrySwirl 20]

From the TOS:

Post Content intended to degrade, intimidate, or incite violence or prejudicial action against a broad demographic or group of people identified by a unifying trait or characteristic (discrimination). For instance, racist or sexist content may be considered hate speech.

Restrict or inhibit any other user from using and enjoying the Forums.

Make comments in a Post either direct or implied toward another member that are purposely designed to upset, antagonize, make fun of, belittle, or otherwise instigate an argument that takes away from the personal enjoyment of the Service by other users.

You pick who's violating which rule here

[^_^ 5,021]

Mocking American women like that should be unacceptable from any member here, let alone a mod. It's disgusting.

I don't see that as Brad mocking American women. I see that as Brad mocking certain female members of VJ who tend to be vigilant about misogyny in the RUB forum.

[Anh map 2,098]

Nope. 'lose her union card' to whom? The legion of fat, ill dressed, slobs that are American women?

Not from a mod, that is wrong.

He's joking about her losing her feminist union card. And the poster was putting that out there as well (I'm a feminist, but also a realist). Where is there anything offensive or even close to a TOS violation?

[Fandango 1,439]

I don't see that as Brad mocking American women. I see that as Brad mocking certain female members of VJ who tend to be vigilant about misogyny in the RUB forum.

ok, we'll split the difference. Still unacceptable from a mod.

He's joking about her losing her feminist union card. And the poster was putting that out there as well (I'm a feminist, but also a realist). Where is there anything offensive or even close to a TOS violation?

so feminists aren't realists then. Ok.

Mods should be neutral. I've given Kathryn a lot of ####### over the years, but now I appreciate what a good job she does. Kathryn, consider this my official apology to you. You do a wonderful job, and it's a shame others aren't more like you.

[Anh map 2,098]

ok, we'll split the difference. Still unacceptable from a mod.

so feminists aren't realists then. Ok.

Mods should be neutral. I've given Kathryn a lot of ####### over the years, but now I appreciate what a good job she does. Kathryn, consider this my official apology to you. You do a wonderful job, and it's a shame others aren't more like you.

Again, the poster made the point re: feminist v. realist. Would you like that member banned from VJ as well?

It reads to me that both the poster and Brad were speaking with tongue in cheek.