Follow up to Cancelling Greencard

[maiflower 0]

I was here a few weeks back about an abusive husband had just received his 2 yr greencard from me and completely changed over night and told me he had married me for the GC and left me and my 2 month old daughter. well well well i went to ins in nyc, and at first i told the lady that my husband left me once he got his GC and she said sorry there is nothing we can do once het gets his ten year. i told her no, it was only the 2 yr. she told me to write down why i want to withdraw and i had allready brought my letter. she made a copy, wrote in big rd letters WITHDRAW and sent it to the dept that handles this. She then gave me a copy to immediately send to the Vermont Center. she then said how this happens everyday here. she said he would not be getting his greencard and would be deported. i was relieved. i am miserable that my marriage was based on fraud. my citizenship was both a blessing and curse. i am depressed like you cant possiblt believe but atleast this jerk will be paying for it. Anyone else has similiar story? even if he nows files for a divorce and this is in his files, right INS can't grant him his 10 yr? if there any possibility this monster can still get his 10 yr?

[michael s 0]

i am so sorry for what u had to go through but like u said he will get what he deserves

[maiflower 0]

where is this moved to?

[amerasianlove 0]

where is this moved to?

YOu have made the right move.I hope you will be okay soon.

I admire you for being such a strong person.God bless you always!!

Keep contacting the INS rgarding the progess of your complaint.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

I am so sorry that you had this happen to you. It is never good to be and feel betrayed, but it is even worse when it is by someone you love. You have done what you can. USCIS has tagged his file and he will not be allowed to receive his 10 year card, divorced or otherwise. I know it is tough for you right now, but you have already shown that you are tougher. You will make it and come out of this stronger - eventually. In the meantime, cry and mourn because it is a loss. you have every right to feel the way you do.

(It was moved to the forum "Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits" which is the more appropriate forum for it.)

[*JG* 2]

I am so sorry. I hope you find a way to heal from this. You deserve so much better!

I really want to thank you for following up on your story and especially for providing details in a very mature manner. That's one thing I never liked on here.....When faced with problems, people need guidance and that is either glossed over or worded in such an immature way that it is not really helpful.

Hopefully, you will have helped others who may follow that same unfortunate path in the future.

I hope you find many blessings in your future.

[walls1010 3]

I know how tough it is right now for you...be strong. You did the right move reporting him in the INS and I believe he will be deported soon coz' his record at the INS had a tagged on it by reporting fraud/withdraw.

[imailin 0]

I was here a few weeks back about an abusive husband had just received his 2 yr greencard from me and completely changed over night and told me he had married me for the GC and left me and my 2 month old daughter. well well well i went to ins in nyc, and at first i told the lady that my husband left me once he got his GC and she said sorry there is nothing we can do once het gets his ten year. i told her no, it was only the 2 yr. she told me to write down why i want to withdraw and i had allready brought my letter. she made a copy, wrote in big rd letters WITHDRAW and sent it to the dept that handles this. She then gave me a copy to immediately send to the Vermont Center. she then said how this happens everyday here. she said he would not be getting his greencard and would be deported. i was relieved. i am miserable that my marriage was based on fraud. my citizenship was both a blessing and curse. i am depressed like you cant possiblt believe but atleast this jerk will be paying for it. Anyone else has similiar story? even if he nows files for a divorce and this is in his files, right INS can't grant him his 10 yr? if there any possibility this monster can still get his 10 yr?

He is not only a bad person but he is also stupid.... he did not even do what he planned the right way!!!! what a pity!!! Good for you that you already took him out of your life....

[Nutty 2]

Sorry to hear about your troubles...

However, I am relieved that you are able to have his greencard withdrawn. That BA#@A$D! Can't wait for him to receive the letter that he is going to be deported!!!

[Nutty 2]

Can Iask you, just out of curiosity, what country was he from???

[athena_ny 1]

This story makes no sense...if he's already received his greencard, you need proof of fraud. They don't just pick up and deport someone because you complained...and how is an application WITHDRAWN if it's already approved?

I'm guessing the OP has left a lot out of the story?

[nane1104 146]

This story makes no sense...if he's already received his greencard, you need proof of fraud. They don't just pick up and deport someone because you complained...and how is an application WITHDRAWN if it's already approved?

I'm guessing the OP has left a lot out of the story?

If I read it right, he only got his conditional greencard and she withdrew her affidavit of support. I guess the hope is, that he can't file for lifting of conditions if there is a "marriage fraud red flag" all over the file.

How and if that will lead to deportation is not completley clear to me.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

I was here a few weeks back about an abusive husband had just received his 2 yr greencard from me and completely changed over night and told me he had married me for the GC and left me and my 2 month old daughter. well well well i went to ins in nyc, and at first i told the lady that my husband left me once he got his GC and she said sorry there is nothing we can do once het gets his ten year. i told her no, it was only the 2 yr. she told me to write down why i want to withdraw and i had allready brought my letter. she made a copy, wrote in big rd letters WITHDRAW and sent it to the dept that handles this. She then gave me a copy to immediately send to the Vermont Center. she then said how this happens everyday here. she said he would not be getting his greencard and would be deported. i was relieved. i am miserable that my marriage was based on fraud. my citizenship was both a blessing and curse. i am depressed like you cant possiblt believe but atleast this jerk will be paying for it. Anyone else has similiar story? even if he nows files for a divorce and this is in his files, right INS can't grant him his 10 yr? if there any possibility this monster can still get his 10 yr?

What form were you asked to report the matter on?

[pushbrk 12,127]

I was here a few weeks back about an abusive husband had just received his 2 yr greencard from me and completely changed over night and told me he had married me for the GC and left me and my 2 month old daughter. well well well i went to ins in nyc, and at first i told the lady that my husband left me once he got his GC and she said sorry there is nothing we can do once het gets his ten year. i told her no, it was only the 2 yr. she told me to write down why i want to withdraw and i had allready brought my letter. she made a copy, wrote in big rd letters WITHDRAW and sent it to the dept that handles this. She then gave me a copy to immediately send to the Vermont Center. she then said how this happens everyday here. she said he would not be getting his greencard and would be deported. i was relieved. i am miserable that my marriage was based on fraud. my citizenship was both a blessing and curse. i am depressed like you cant possiblt believe but atleast this jerk will be paying for it. Anyone else has similiar story? even if he nows files for a divorce and this is in his files, right INS can't grant him his 10 yr? if there any possibility this monster can still get his 10 yr?

I would believe the result predicted in the bolded section above when an actual deportation or green card cancelation occurs. You don't know how the department that handles this is going to handle it yet.

[athena_ny 1]

This story makes no sense...if he's already received his greencard, you need proof of fraud. They don't just pick up and deport someone because you complained...and how is an application WITHDRAWN if it's already approved?

I'm guessing the OP has left a lot out of the story?

If I read it right, he only got his conditional greencard and she withdrew her affidavit of support. I guess the hope is, that he can't file for lifting of conditions if there is a "marriage fraud red flag" all over the file.

How and if that will lead to deportation is not completley clear to me.

That's the thing...she can't withdraw the affidavit if he has his green card; if USCIS does a fraud investigation and deports him, that would relieve her of the duties detailed in the affidavit, but until they do that, she's still responsible.

Unless pushbrk's assessment is right. Which is may be.