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    Merrytooth reacted to Boiler in Drug charge   
    Technically you do have a criminal record.
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from Smsm in Beneficiary has an old selad criminal record.   
    Your other post said it is the US citizen (petitioner) who has the criminal record. 
     
    Can you please clarify your confusing post?
     
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    Merrytooth reacted to -Trinity- in Shoelace mistaken for noose causes racial uproar at Michigan State University   
    Awhile ago I saw woman's panties hanging in a tree. I'm not kidding. 
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    Merrytooth reacted to MouadsWife in New Spinoff show- Before 90 Day Fiancee   
    I don't know why Danielle doesn't just give it up and move on.  Love to see her next move.  "Danielle moves to Texas...." 
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from Miss M in New Spinoff show- Before 90 Day Fiancee   
    Not sure why you need to feel defensive here when you knew your circumstances did not fit the scenario that is discussed in this thread.
     
    - creepy/weird USC, hardly can make ends meet themselves, flying overseas to meet their so-called 'true love' (e.g. Danielle and Mohamed. seriously who will find USC Danielle attractive? And I am not even talking about physical attractiveness here)
     
    - bring the foreign half over to US, yet has no money file AOS (for years!)
     
    - expect the foreign half to slave for them, hold their immigration status constantly over their head.
     
    Have you seen this thread 2 weeks ago?
    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/648200-conditional-resident-wife-is-using-restraining-order-to-qualify-for-vawa/
    Classic example of USC who should not petition for foreign spouse.
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from PRC Rabbit in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from SandiB in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from TBoneTX in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from Diane and Chris in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth reacted to geowrian in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    What still needs to be answered with it (trying to get back on topic)? You took all the steps necessary to withdraw it.
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from AnaUmo in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from ndifonman in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth reacted to geowrian in Relationship proof for mother   
    Yes. How is it ridiculous that she needs to apply for an immigrant visa abroad like everybody else? She has a legal path forward, which is much more than others.
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from -Trinity- in At least 50 dead, 400 injured in shooting near Mandalay Bay casino, 1 suspect 'down'   
    Just googled Swiss mass shooting -> "Zug massacre" came out
     
    There are also plenty of rampage killings in Asia (very restrictive gun ownership), so the choice of weapons are not guns.
    Hence, body counts are a lots lesser compared to mass shootings in USA.
     
     
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    Merrytooth reacted to EandH0904 in Planning to visit my family back home but scared of my husband   
    First, if you are scared of your husband and having fights and problems - do you WANT to come back to be with him?
     
    How long are you going to be out of the country? 
    I guess he could file for divorce while you were gone and if you can prove you came here under the right conditions you can file removal of conditions without him. If you are that worried I would keep your proof at a friends house or some of your valued possessions, just in case. If you dont have someone you could rent a storage if you need to. However if things are really that bad I guess you have to think about what you want long term as well. 
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from EvolvingOutLoud in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth reacted to CaliCat in Trump rolls back Obamacare birth control mandate   
    There are no pedophiles involved in religion. The last time I even hinted at that, I was reprimanded by a moderator, in no uncertain and stern ways. PVT me if you want details. 
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from NikLR in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth reacted to -Trinity- in At least 50 dead, 400 injured in shooting near Mandalay Bay casino, 1 suspect 'down'   
    I understand where you coming from...but a person who is willing to take dozens of people's lives will do that, one way or another. 
    The shooting reminds me of the German co-pilot a couple years ago: 
    https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/1699468/suicidal-germanwings-pilot-who-killed-144-people-was-promoted-after-failing-key-flight-test/
     
    I wonder if the people who are extremely opposed to weapons would think the same when the lives of their loved ones are in danger.
     
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    Merrytooth reacted to geowrian in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    An annulment won't be treated any differently than a divorce for USICS. If/how it impacts the separation can be another issue, but it won't impact her ability to ROC or if USCIS will pursue an investigation.
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from caliliving in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Yep,  Do not ever be alone with her anymore, in case of any false domestic violence claim.
    As you should know by now, she is probably staging a VAWA case against you by calling the cops on you (Oh she is so scared of you, might served you with restraining order as well).
     
    Not sure if you can prevent her from coming back to your house since it is considered marital home. You should consult your divorce attorney for further advice.
     
    Another thing, once she figures out she can't get her green card without you (K1 holder has to AOS with the original USC petitioner), she might have a 'change of heart' trying to reconcile with you.
    Choose your steps wisely.
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
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    Merrytooth reacted to MaleAlpha in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    Adding my 2 cents.
     
    Everything you indicated seems to show she screwed you. Good thing is, she hasn't received her green card yet so you can pull the i-864 which you have done. That should kill the petition.
     
    Regarding next steps, I will just reiterate what everyone has been saying and sum it up here :
    1. File an annulment instead of a divorce as that will help you best as she could get nasty with a divorce and you will be in the hole if you have property etc. that she wants (Divorce court doesn't really care about your immigration issues). Annulment on the basis of fraud and non-consummation will serve your best interest BUT keep in mind that an annulment may not be smooth as there is no way for you to prove the marriage wasn't consummated - she could lie. She could also argue it wasn't fraudulent.
     
    2. Do not let her trick you back into a relationship nor get close to you without a trusted third party present. If you have to stay in a hotel or with a friend until this episode ends, go for it. Trust me, that will save you a lot of headache later regarding VAWA and having trumped up abuse and assault criminal charges pinned on you.
     
    3. Once this episode is over and you are no longer married to her and have successfully withdrawn your i-864, MOVE ON. Whether she chooses to stick around in the US, go back, get's deported, get's married to a new person etc.should no longer be your concern. Karma will take care of it.
     
    I wish you a happy life and sorry about everything you're going through.
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    Merrytooth reacted to Sandra G. in VAWA   
    The abuse inflicted by your mother in-law is not a ground for VAWA. Your husband not standing up for you is not  considered abuse either. It seems you got married to a loser, and you had what USCIS calls "an unpleasant marriage".
     
    Abandonment, by itself,  is not enough to get a VAWA I-360  approved, it happens if the person leaves the spouse without water,food and without communication with the outside world, directly exposing the another person to danger.
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    Merrytooth reacted to Crazy Cat in GC holder stayed overseas more than 2 years and bring my wife with me on b1/b2 visa   
    1.  Determine if you can re-enter the US.
    2. Decide where your wife will live while you re-establish residency in US (if you can enter)
    3.  Return to US (if allowed)
    4. Establish residency
    5.  Petition for wife to enter US
    6.  Wait 2 years for wife
    7.  Live happily in US
     
    or
     
    1.  Live happily with wife in Turkey
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    Merrytooth got a reaction from C-ma'am in I got scammed but can't prove it   
    If she gets her 2 year conditional green card, she has to file for ROC I-751 with divorce waiver either immediately after divorce or 90 days before the green card expiration date.
    1) She has to submit her divorce decree, evidence of bona fide marriages (e.g. financial co-mingled documents, joint ownerships.. etc)
    2) If she can't provide any evidence, her ROC will most likely be denied and she will be placed in removal proceedings. 
     
    ** Note One can still file for ROC I-751 even if the marriage is annulled.
    (As far as immigration is concerned, it's treated like a divorce; the foreign spouse just has to show good faith marriage).
     
    Some people said to get divorce or annulment based on fraud, it will make it harder for to prove she married in good faith
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