John&Juvy

No, you do not need to have Philippine passports for the children, their U.S. passports will be fine.
As for reporting the birth while in the Philippines, you would do better to complete that now. You should be able to complete this while waiting for your naturalization to process.
http://www.philippineembassy-usa.org/philippines-dc/consular-services-dc/faq-dc/#birth
Report of Birth of Child Born Abroad of Filipino ParentsThe birth of a Filipino should be reported to and registered with the Philippine National Statistics Office through the Embassy/Consulate General having jurisdiction over the locality where the event took place. Please check the Consulate Finder or the Consulates Link for the states covered by the Embassy/Consulates General in the U.S.

It was a fair call. You're not putting any effort into the relationship and that's what the CO saw. You're not taking pictures and gathering evidence to prove you have a bona fide relationship. You're not putting effort into getting to know her child. It doesn't matter who the father is. You are about to marry his mother, you're about to be his step-father. Act like it. If you really love her then fight for her and her son, step it up.

Here is some info related to 2 of your questions: http://www.uscis.gov/i-90

YW
BTW, you have a cute daughter with those shades on.

I do not think speaking English (let alone good English) is a requirement to immigrate to the United States. I have dealt with lots of people in the USA who don't speak English!

What else can you offer to potential partner (since you do not work and have no income, still living with parents), other than green card opportunity?

Sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen.
She will not need to stay married to you for 2 yrs. If she left she can naturalize in 5 yrs instead of 3.
All of you living in one hose is a disaster waiting to happen. I would listen to your parents seem they are thinking with their heads and not their heart.
Read the forums here many many couples started living with the USC family and almost all of them had issues.
Your fiance will be going through a major adjustment, add the extra ppl always around she may feel like she cannot be herself.
You could very well be the couple who has no issues, but what if you do? Are you willing to move out for you wife? Are you going to expect her to support you and your family on top of hers? Money is the root of all evil.
Why does mom thinks she would not be interested in you if the GC wasn't in the mix? You don't have to answer just look deep inside yourself to see if you're setting yourself up for failure.
If you want to see how much can go wrong look through posts in here http://www.visajourney.com/forums/forum/127-effects-of-major-family-changes-on-immigration-benefits/

Hi Sis ! I am so sorry while reading your story. I can relate with your experiences. It can't stop me from sharing my story. It brought back to my mind what I also experienced when I was there in the US thru K-1 visa. The difference with me was I didn't marry my ex-Fiance, instead, I went home before my 90 days. And I think that was the best ever decision I made in my life. It was a very tough decision to make, as it was a matter of my heart. It really broke my heart and shed me so many tears during my flight back home as I leave my Fiance. I know we both love each other that was why we decided to work on the immigration papers, but it was just not right for me to continue staying with them and live a miserable life. I live a happy and comfortable life in my home country.
Exactly, that was also my experiences while living together with the mother of my ex-Fiance. I couldn't spend quality time with my ex-Fiance as his mom was always watching / tracking us. And, I think they are unseparable as they always do things together. There were times that they even eat together and not even inviting me. I couldn't forget it was my 1st bday to celebrate together with my Fiance, but his mom just spoiled my day, by asking his son to drive her out. So many times I tried to talk to my ex-Fiance about my feelings, and he acknowledged it, and promised that he will do the right thing for us, but in the end it was frustrating as when his mom says something, everything changes. I respect my Fiance for being a very good son to his mom, and in fact that was one of the reasons why I thought we could make it. I was wrong, as he always considers his mom's decision. I think, his mom will never accept me. I tried to do everything to please her mom, but she was just good in front of me. At my back, I hear a lot of negative thoughts, which I knew wasn't worth of my sacrifices to start life in a strange country. I could not force her to like me.
Sis, I was lucky because before I went to the US, I got a chance to read much about VJ stories and some insights and advices in the site. Knowing and seeing my actual situation in the US, I just thought not to pursue our marriage despite we already have applied our marriage license. I was so scared-- what will happen if after marriage, they will not file on my adjustment of status so I could work and become legally stable in the US. I am a hard working woman, independent, and I want to contribute to the household. I felt so helpless as I used to earn good money in my home country. I just got the feeling that it couldn't happen, as his mom was making things difficult for me, and my fiance is a very obedient son.
IMHO, Sis, you have to talk heart to heart to your husband, since you two are now married. It was bit easy for for me as we didn't marry. If things still didnt work out, the only option you have is going back home. I understand that you have given up your job, everything in the PI. But never lose hope, God will provide..... just call upon His name. Your family and friends will understand you. This was also my earlier fear, I might have a lot of explanations to do, but in the end, if we have good friends and family, they will understand and support. Ultimately, we need to make and stand for our own decision. Without AOS, you couldn't get your GC, so you cannot stay and work legally. Just be strong..... and face realities of life. I too was so down before, but now I could say, life is very good. I have peace of mind which is priceless. I recovered and now back to my very good and enjoyable work. My Fiance still communicates and even plans to make another visit, but I just think the only thing we could be together if he relocates here for good. If I was able to move there, then he should, if he really wants us forever. He wants to petition for me again, but I told him straight that I couldn't live with another roller coaster life again. That was enough for me.
Sis, I hope, in a little way, I was able to make you think rationale. I know it is not easy when it matters our hearts. But pray to God for strength and wisdom so He could direct you to do the best thing. Love yourself..... and never lose hope. I hope your situation changes soon and become better.
God bless and take care always.

Looks to me you're better off going back home. Divorce him and move on with your life. You deserve to be happy.

That's a matter of opinion. I don't believe a slap on the ####### of a misbehaving child is bad, if it becomes more than that, then that's a different story. Calling him a scumbag and questioning his parenting skills for spanking a toddler is a bit much.

Maybe it is time for her to go home. If she does not like in Hawaii, then she will never be happy. Hawaii is like being in PI and America at the same time.

Someone is being a fed a line of BS. Most likely YOU. Possibly US.
If the visa was denied she cannot interview again. The petition will be sent back to USCIS and you will be notified of the official reason for denial. It will NOT be because you are ugly.
some possibilities...
1. You are making this up for fun
2. She is making it up because she does no twant to marry you, did not go to the interview and is feeding you BS
If you are not making this up, then you may want to check with the consulate and see if she even showed up for her interview

Personally I have to go with: WHEN IN DOUBT DON'T!!!
Buy her a ticket back to the Phils and go "Whew!!! I dodged a bullet!! "
Writing wasn't only on the wall, it was on the floors and ceilings too!

TallCoolOne ! Welcome Back ! I wish you success on this next attempt at USEM.

The U.S. has a very good relationship with phils law enforcement....consider very carefully what you are thinking about, because it is a very SERIOUS crime! You will go to prison if caught and not for a short stay. Aside from being seriously illegal this action is immoral and a great disservice to your child. Will you really deny your daughter, her father?? Please think carefully! Actually please reconsider and don't do it. For sure you should seek legal advice.

No one here knows what the heck is going on. NO ONE KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR THE CHILD.
OP is in a bind and she came here for help. She is not in a good place. Focus on getting her help to protect herself.
Stop with the useless love of a father, mother, better in US, etc. None of this is our business.
The only thing that is certain is that the mother is entitled to get legal help to resolve her situation.

So, it's okay to deny a mother's love?
Why should you want to deny this child the love and care of a mother?
How is life with a US father who doesn't know how to care for the child when there is a loving mother?
Why do you assume that life for the child would be better in the US?

Are you buying real diamonds? If so, then you usually get a lifetime service for free with it so it's better to buy it where you'll be living...

I'm not so sure about this, coz the claim that I filed is little bit different than what you want to aplly. You used to work before and paying taxes, try to call them and ask about it. Me my self, is a 10 yrs. GC holder, worked in a hotel fulltime for 2 and half years. I wasn't also sure before when I filed a claim for a temporary disability due to my pregnancy at 9 months when I can't work anymore. I did gave them a call and I got approved. Then another 6 weeks of continued claim after the delivery coz I can't go back to work right away. Then they have this thing family bonding for another 6 weeks for the new mother and the baby. Was eligible in all of it even I'm not a citizen yet. It was a big help. Give them a call. Good luck and congrats to your pregnancy ! Remember the baby inside you is much muccch more important more than anything now in the world, so enjoy and just relax .

Your responsibility is to your wife and baby. If you need to apply for medicaid to care for them, then that's what you do period.

Most prenups, at least in California, require that a separate Lawyer inspects the prenup for the disadvantaged Spouse.
You should have your close friend contact a Divorce Attorney to gauge the validity of the prenup agreement.
Prenups are not meant to harm but to protect, IMHO.

Kids with watermelon- Costa Rica

Oxcart- Costa Rica

Volcan Poas- Costa Rica

Flamenco dancers- Spain (just to mix it up a little!)

Camiguin Island

Ok, one more...also Haiti