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    Longingfor got a reaction from mushroomspore in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Asia in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    I know you appreciate what everyone has said but waiting until independent may result in you dying.
    If your husband never before showed an ounce of this behavior when you guys were dating and in the marriage then this behavior is an explosive one and one that lead to him killing you.  Also if he has shown you hints of this in the past such as getting aggressive and punching walls or grabbing you when angry, it means he was showing you what he's capable of.  If you were my family member I would be saying the same thing because your life is worth so much more than trying to walk on eggshells to get to independence because you may not live to enjoy the independence. 
     
    Lifetime, ID, Oxygen and True Crime has so many stories like yours and we know they don't end well.  
     
    Sorry for being blunt but I work in healthcare and have seen abuse and women who are scared to say a word. So please take my advice and run for your life.
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Asia in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Redro in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from DrMom in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    I know you appreciate what everyone has said but waiting until independent may result in you dying.
    If your husband never before showed an ounce of this behavior when you guys were dating and in the marriage then this behavior is an explosive one and one that lead to him killing you.  Also if he has shown you hints of this in the past such as getting aggressive and punching walls or grabbing you when angry, it means he was showing you what he's capable of.  If you were my family member I would be saying the same thing because your life is worth so much more than trying to walk on eggshells to get to independence because you may not live to enjoy the independence. 
     
    Lifetime, ID, Oxygen and True Crime has so many stories like yours and we know they don't end well.  
     
    Sorry for being blunt but I work in healthcare and have seen abuse and women who are scared to say a word. So please take my advice and run for your life.
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    Longingfor got a reaction from DrMom in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Ontarkie in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from laylalex in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    I know you appreciate what everyone has said but waiting until independent may result in you dying.
    If your husband never before showed an ounce of this behavior when you guys were dating and in the marriage then this behavior is an explosive one and one that lead to him killing you.  Also if he has shown you hints of this in the past such as getting aggressive and punching walls or grabbing you when angry, it means he was showing you what he's capable of.  If you were my family member I would be saying the same thing because your life is worth so much more than trying to walk on eggshells to get to independence because you may not live to enjoy the independence. 
     
    Lifetime, ID, Oxygen and True Crime has so many stories like yours and we know they don't end well.  
     
    Sorry for being blunt but I work in healthcare and have seen abuse and women who are scared to say a word. So please take my advice and run for your life.
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    Longingfor got a reaction from laylalex in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from erika86 in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Nag & Matt in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    I know you appreciate what everyone has said but waiting until independent may result in you dying.
    If your husband never before showed an ounce of this behavior when you guys were dating and in the marriage then this behavior is an explosive one and one that lead to him killing you.  Also if he has shown you hints of this in the past such as getting aggressive and punching walls or grabbing you when angry, it means he was showing you what he's capable of.  If you were my family member I would be saying the same thing because your life is worth so much more than trying to walk on eggshells to get to independence because you may not live to enjoy the independence. 
     
    Lifetime, ID, Oxygen and True Crime has so many stories like yours and we know they don't end well.  
     
    Sorry for being blunt but I work in healthcare and have seen abuse and women who are scared to say a word. So please take my advice and run for your life.
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Pigletrma in Error found on n400! Interview in 3 weeks   
    Not a big issue, IO will go over the application and make the necessary changes and then ask your wife to review the changes and sign to it.
     
    I forgot to put include my first trip after gaining my Residency; a 4 month trip to home country to wrap up my life there.  It was all good. 
    I also answered no to a question because I wasn't sure but then told IO why I think it's yes and she corrected it with and explanation which the online or physical forms don't allow.  
     
    The interview is the time to clarify any and everything.
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Lemonslice in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    I know you appreciate what everyone has said but waiting until independent may result in you dying.
    If your husband never before showed an ounce of this behavior when you guys were dating and in the marriage then this behavior is an explosive one and one that lead to him killing you.  Also if he has shown you hints of this in the past such as getting aggressive and punching walls or grabbing you when angry, it means he was showing you what he's capable of.  If you were my family member I would be saying the same thing because your life is worth so much more than trying to walk on eggshells to get to independence because you may not live to enjoy the independence. 
     
    Lifetime, ID, Oxygen and True Crime has so many stories like yours and we know they don't end well.  
     
    Sorry for being blunt but I work in healthcare and have seen abuse and women who are scared to say a word. So please take my advice and run for your life.
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    Longingfor reacted to mushroomspore in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    100% agree with everything you said. I know it's hard for abuse vics to fully accept what they're going through so I'm just emphasizing what I can. Denial is a helluva drug. Easier to pretend it's not real than to confront it. But you're right; we all here have said what we can and it's up to OP now, who I hope will keep us updated.
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    Longingfor reacted to mushroomspore in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    https://www.loveisrespect.org/
     
    Look, we all know we care about your husband. That is not the question here and that is not what is at stake. He has already hurt you and will continue to do so the longer you stay near him. This is a fact: you are in an abusive marriage and your husband is abusing you. Abusers kill their victims. That is literally the position you are in now: you are at risk of serious bodily injury and even death. Nobody is going to encourage you to stay in this marriage and this situation. Nobody is going to take back what we said about getting out of the house, filing a police report and talking to lawyers. We are going to keep saying that because if you do not do these things now, you will be left even more stranded than you are now. It is ultimately your choice how to handle it but you are the one who keeps saying you are confused and scared and we're the ones giving you the information that you need to help yourself.
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    Longingfor got a reaction from mushroomspore in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    I know you appreciate what everyone has said but waiting until independent may result in you dying.
    If your husband never before showed an ounce of this behavior when you guys were dating and in the marriage then this behavior is an explosive one and one that lead to him killing you.  Also if he has shown you hints of this in the past such as getting aggressive and punching walls or grabbing you when angry, it means he was showing you what he's capable of.  If you were my family member I would be saying the same thing because your life is worth so much more than trying to walk on eggshells to get to independence because you may not live to enjoy the independence. 
     
    Lifetime, ID, Oxygen and True Crime has so many stories like yours and we know they don't end well.  
     
    Sorry for being blunt but I work in healthcare and have seen abuse and women who are scared to say a word. So please take my advice and run for your life.
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    Longingfor reacted to mushroomspore in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please please please get yourself and your important documents and belongings somewhere safe and report the abuse to the police. By delaying these things, you are increasing the risk that your husband will take your documents from you as a means to control you. If he gets your documents, he can pretend to be you and make up lies to USCIS. At that point, you would be completely (removed). Report him now to the police so you have something to back you up.
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    Longingfor reacted to Joyoussinger in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    You've been advised by several people here to file a police report and get away from him as soon as possible. Please, please take this advice seriously and do it right now! Don't antagonize him with "threats" and don't try to do it yourself. You need help. The police will help you. A woman's shelter will help you, and if you can't find one the police will help you with that, too. Don't wait until you "become completely independent". I was once in an abusive marriage. I know all the feelings involved and I know all too well the danger. You really need to just go. Everything else can be sorted out later with the help of those who are trained to deal with this. Here is the national number for domestic violence support: https://www.thehotline.org/
    Good luck to you and please, check back here to let us know how you're doing.
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Adventine in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from milimelo in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from PaulaCJohnny in My husband is threatening to revoke my permanent residency   
    Please stay safe.  What your husband did is domestic violence.  Please contact the police, take pics of your arm and phone. 
    Your husband is counting on you remaining silent as you are an immigrant and he believes you don't know your rights.
    Nobody has the right to hit you.  No one.  Once someone shows you their true colors believe them.  It will not get better if will only get worst.
    You need to get out and get safe. Please. 
    Your husband is obligated to support you because of the I-184 he signed.  This obligation is until you become a citizen.  You can enforce this during divorce proceedings if you choose.  
    Again please contact the police, take pics and get your documents to together and your clothes and run because your life depends on it.  Don not stay and take the bullsh.. and abuse as it will escalate in the future.  Put you first.
     
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Dashinka in Lost my wallet along with green card. I-751 filed a year ago and still processing. What to do?   
    Call USCIS Contact Center at 1-800-375-5283  
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Chancy in Unclear about AOS or Spousal visa   
    I got married in the US and left and went home and did the CR1 because it made sense for us as a couple.  I didn't want to be in the US doing nothing while I waited for AOS.  I had a good job and was able to travel back and forth to the US until my CR1 was approved.  
     
    I think your decision will come down to what you and your finance wants. Will you both be ok during the AOS process or will you both be ok waiting for CR1 interview.  
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Mike E in Name change and oath ceremony delay   
    Name change does not delay oath ceremony. Not in my case anyway.  It depends on the USCIS office.  
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    Longingfor got a reaction from Adventine in F1 Student Visa Canceled and 5 years re-enter the US ban! HELP ME!   
    You received a 5 year ban which means you have to wait 5 years from the date of the ban before you can reapply.  Stop waisting your money on visa application fee because you will be denied until your ban if up and maybe even after its up they will still deny you.  I would wait 6 years before even reapplying.
     
    Also, I don't think your ban is for bad behavior there is more to the story that you're not sharing you're just looking for an answer as to how to re-enter but again there is no way for you to re-enter until after your ban is up which is in 5 years Exactly January 12, 2027. 
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