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I TOLD HER TO GO TO WORK THAT IS NOT IT, i will flat out say this she Hates sex does not want intimacy

4 hours ago, Luckycuds said:

I picked up on that as well. Just wow. Although based on previous posts I’m not too surprised. Poor girl doesn’t realize what she is getting into.
There are plenty of lazy Americans who would love to stay at your home and not work if that’s what you wanted- you didn’t need to find a young pretty girl abroad. Sheesh. I can’t believe someone would actually complain about a spouse wanting to work.

Intimacy is the deal nothing at all flat disgust her

4 hours ago, brightfuture78 said:

This isn't the first time I've seen you create a thread declaring you want to send your fiance back to the province like a defective product. Last time it was over a misunderstanding beyond her control and when you learned the truth, you didn't seem the least bit remorseful about your initial reaction. If you're so quick to call things off every time things aren't playing out like you think they should, you're probably making her feel insecure, which is making her anxious to find some stability that doesn't directly depend on you - hence the job search. 

This is not about job stuff this one is about intimacy has flat said no nothing at all, do you put out for your SO

5 hours ago, PaulaCJohnny said:

Just remember that she is from a different background.

Maybe couples therapy can help if a normal communication is not working.

 

And your “things do change once THEY get here to the States” assumption is really negative about immigrates in general. She is not everybody and I can’t see anything bad in her decision. She is a hard worker and maybe she, like me, never had too much free time and associates with being lazy. I can’t be 3 weeks not working. I totally understand her.

 

She is doing a great thing showing you that she wants to work and not be depending  on you but the only thing you can see is that she don’t want to “enjoy” more free time… there is a really problem in understanding the other people side. 

 

And if you regret just because of that WOW to you. 

She has never worked a day in her life, but there are other personal factors involved also. The bedroom style ones

Things sure do changed once they get here to the states starting to regret doing this journey the true one is now showing itself, after not seeing each other for 2.5 yrs you would seem to think you would be happy to finally be in the arms of your SO but wow.  Not even 3 weeks yet and already wants to find a job instead of being together for awhile and enjoy a new land. No huggy no kissy nothing. Does even have SS card yet and things are changing drastically.

9 hours ago, John & Rose said:

Filipinas are very good at it!!!  LOL  She may even stay her entire life without ever letting on!

 

I got that feeling going on now

9 hours ago, CesarCassineli said:

What do u mean by plan? I was thinking about buying a large amount of my pills for 3 months and then looking for a job. Will they ask me about my plan to handle diabetes in the interview? I don't have any kind of health insurance that can cover in the us but in my country I have the national healthcare that can provide me some pills.

Nothing will be asked about your diabetes what so ever, they are only concerned about your vaccinations and also about highly contagious diseases that could spread to people in the USA like this bug they say the world has going around

30 minutes ago, Ericka Womack said:

Hello! I was sent an RFE and have to upload a doc on the USCIS website. I have tried all the browsers and the doc is the right size, format etc but keep getting an error message that it can’t be uploaded at this time. Is anyone else having the same problem today?! If so has anyone found their way around it? I don’t want to waste anymore time as we have already been sitting on our NOA1 for about a year. Any help would be appreciated

Just keep trying, so many world wide are uploading stuff their servers are not capable of handling so much coming in. Maybe try in the early morning hrs of USA time,  good luck

3 hours ago, Jorgedig said:

“The guys that played the lottery”?   Huh?

 

What does that even mean?

 

You are 100% responsible for the content of your application.   You need to correct it immediately if you came over using a falsified birth certificate.

He is responsible for his own action and application, it smells like a little bit of fraud to me so he could get what he wanted

29 minutes ago, LIBrty4all said:

Oh, man, @Crtcl Rice Theory gonna come along soon and tell you this cannot be happening.  The virus has difficulty getting past a mask, and even if it does, it can only live for a short time without spittle from our bodies.

These mask do not stop a particle size of 0.0125 microns, even the N-95 mask has a problem stopping it, you need to a little more research on the micron size of this scanddemic bug and what size of particle these mask can only stop.  It clearly says on the back of the mask it does not stop it but may slow it

1 minute ago, Dashinka said:

Maybe he (Old Joe) will forcibly relocate them to Afghanistan.

But ( Old Joe) is bringing up to 30k plus to the states to be housed on military bases here in the states

This is nasty i have decided to go get this safe vaccine now so i can be just like everyone else ( NOT). https://www.dailyveracity.com/2021/08/19/covid-vaccine-causes-womans-skin-to-rot-according-to-doctors/

3 hours ago, RO_AH said:

Since my wife's second medical didn't require sputum, I guess we were lucky. This line "class A or B  (TB)  req. Attn. of usphs at poe" is not in her visa.

Yup lucky you but i am happy for you, finally getting done with your journey

This admin i do not believe anymore what they do

https://thepostmillennial.com/breaking-biden-threatens-action-against-governors-who-refuse-to-force-masks-on-school-children

3 hours ago, top_secret said:

Apparently they did do something  They notified the state health department.

 

I for one think someone ought to be double checking Saint Luke's x-rays.  I'd be curious if American doctors come up with similarly vast numbers of false positives from viewing the same x-rays.

I would be curious also, or is it the SLEC needs to upgrade to the newest technologies for x-ray equipment and get out of the golden ages

16 minutes ago, Cassis1978 said:

Too late to ask, of course, but wasn’t she given the copy of her medical records and the copy of the x-rays after her medical in her country? 
We were told (in my country) that the original papers and one copy of the chest x-rays were going to the embassy and the second set, the copy, we were told to bring with us here, just in case. 
Is there a chance to contact the medical facility in her country, may be they have records? 
Sorry for another “hoop” you have to jump:((( 
  

No she did not receive anything for records since it is all electronic now, and to request from St Lukes in manila would be a pain in the rear end from the states now.

5 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

How is it messed up?  Was her visa annotated that she has a possible health issue?  Class B or something?

It does show annotation of 212g (2) (b)

class A or B  (TB)  req. Attn. of usphs at poe

iv docs in ccd

we was not told anything for that and POE did not do anything

The state government is messed up just like the official government.  
 

The wife received snail mail from the new mexico health department already due to her abnormal chest xrays she had in march that triggered the sputum test which all come back negative. They are requesting her to bring in her medical records and chest x-rays from overseas to be checked out for possible TB infection.  Lol 

How do they think we can get access to that info when it is in the Government already?

Billions of dollars spent in 20 years just to let the idiots take the country again, i sure love how the Democrat party think ( NOT )

19 hours ago, Dashinka said:

I also prefer the DCT, but beyond that, give me an old fashioned manual transmission.

 

Move to MI, we have roundabouts/rotaries all over the place along with diverging diamond interstate exits.

The roundabouts play heck with a semi truck

35 minutes ago, jg121783 said:

The hospitals are not full. Just like last year when they told us the hospitals were full but they were mostly empty with the nurses making tik tok videos all day.

I know to me it is fear mongering control of the people to get them to take a experimental drug like they did to african americans back in the 60’s and did not tell them the truth.

We all have our own thoughts on this, it will always be a topic of discussion, To me it is getting out of hand on fear mongering and control of the people in the world, if everyone falls for or does as the world governments says that shows them we are able to be controlled even more. This needs to come to a end it is getting ridiculous.

“Soot and wildfire smoke could be playing a role in the number of people who contract severe COVID-19 and die, according to a new study. The research, published in Science Advances, found that higher levels of particulate matter derived from wildfire smoke in 2020 led to a spike in coronavirus deaths in California, Oregon and Washington, according to CNN. "Fine particulate matter air pollution can be an additional vehicle for spreading the virus even faster,”

i want to see the hospitals they say are full around the world and in the USA from this virus.  Where did the FLU and the COMMON COLD disappear to.

I for one believe there is a bug but it is a severe flu or cold bug that was man made, i lost my taste and smell for one day after the start of this stuff once it was released, i have underlying conditions and survived and the job i do i should be dead already cause i am around people all the time across all parts of the USA and i am still kicking.

2 hours ago, RO_AH said:

They called me today. They said the visa will be good for 90 days and recommended that I wait to get it since I am not leaving until October. According to her I must leave the Philippines before it expires. I said, no I would like to have it now. I will be leaving the Philippines before November so I would rather have it now. They sent it out and I should receive it tomorrow..

Congratz finally

7 hours ago, Wonderfullymade said:

My wife was having her swab test two weeks ago and she was false positive. The LGU isolated her at the isolation unit and she don’t even have any symptoms! I was furios and wanted her to reswab but she insisted not to ‘cause she needed the certificate. It might gonna help for travel. Would that help??
I don’t know she’s gonna take antigen, she’s already exposed at the isolation unit.

I would demand a antigen test