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TheGunas

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    TheGunas reacted to almost_umrican in Wife cheating & threatening divorce   
    This is not what i meant. he might have a way to settle down here (by book), i don't know. Hundreds of people does that. Let the USCIS decide who will will go home or not. what you put was not helpful which is the essence of this forum.
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    TheGunas reacted to almost_umrican in Wife cheating & threatening divorce   
    you can put that across in a nice way
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    TheGunas reacted to yuna628 in May not receive K1 in time for wedding - please help!   
    Okay wow..
    You've filed for a K1 but you don't intend to live in the US with your spouse once you have married them for a few years? This is certainly legal to do. You obtain the K1, marry within 90 days and return home. But guess what? You will not be able to return to the US and live with your spouse in the future unless you then obtain a marriage/spousal visa. This process not only will cost additional fees but takes an even more lengthy amount of time then K1 does. If you're okay with that, right?
    Since you have already started the K1 process, and paid the fees, it seems rather silly to not continue on this path.. just bear in mind what you're going to have to do in the future to live together. If you applied in Feb baring no complications, it is foreseeable that your August wedding is viable but not a guarentee, though anything is possible, and this is why the government specially warns you NOT to make wedding plans until visa is in hand or is directly necessary. You're on the government's timeline and not your own here. If you have to cancel a big wedding, you have to cancel it. A lot of persons get married at a courthouse when they have their visa, and hold a big wedding at a later date. An additional thought here is that once the person has the visa, they have 5 months from the date of their medical to enter the US, meaning if needed to make bigger plans a wedding can be delayed.
    The other ideas are kind of dubious at best here and I don't think work to your advantage.. You have some tough choices to think about here.
    Keep in mind you are being processed at California Service Center, which is still moving speedy these days. There's the rest of the process to complete once you get an NOA2, which can be done within a few extra months onto the timeline.
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    TheGunas reacted to Illiria in I am suffering from shock. Please help me   
    Of course not but how were we to know if she hadn't said that she got here at 14. If someone moved over last month and all their support network is in their home country then moving back might be a good option.
    Her lack of a completed timeline and the previous posts being so contradictory make it so hard to give good advice other than that with the small amount of evidence she has it is going to be tough and that if we don't know some factors it may be even tougher to RoC.
    I wish her the best but a diy forum can only help so much.
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    TheGunas reacted to IcezMan_IcezLady in I am suffering from shock. Please help me   
    You better spill out the rest of the story cos this story has been overused on this thread...
    No one can offer you much help when you are holding a torch to just one end of the story.
    Pay a lawyer to to offer you some help.
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    TheGunas reacted to NikLR in I am suffering from shock. Please help me   
    How is anyone supposed to know that with the very little back story you've provided plus a complete lack of timeline?
    Carrying on, you should divorce, and provide proof that you entered the marriage in good faith. Co-mingling of finances is the best. Affidavits from his family and friends would also be helpful if you can, since you have very little evidence. Submit anything from inception of marriage. Even submitting proof from before marriage would be a good idea to show you had a genuine relationship.
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    TheGunas reacted to Expat1 in Trump will be President, Watch!!!   
    Sorry P, we don't want it. Move it somewhere else.
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    TheGunas reacted to Deagle in Trump will be President, Watch!!!   
    From your pointless post I am assuming that you got excited from watching something pointless too. I don't know which one is better: to see Trumps self inflated ego burst from being defeated in the election, or to see his fans and supporters disappointed because they realized what he really is and that he couldn't or didnt do what he said he will. Thats only IF he was elected as a president which I personally do not see it happening.
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    TheGunas reacted to ChristopherQ in BKK U.S. embassy says I have a drug case   
    Jesus man. I didn't know this was that type of forum.... Dr Phil lol.
    She has all of my background checks.
    I had actually purchased 4 of them. KBI shows that the charges were disposed of in 2011, but also says I spent time in jail and was on probation in 2011. Again, not true.
    Thanks for the help. I'll tell Oprah about your fantastic advice
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    TheGunas reacted to Expat1 in BKK U.S. embassy says I have a drug case   
    If this is the first time your fiance has heard about this about the only thing you can do is sign up to see Dr Phil
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    TheGunas reacted to TomEn in Preparing for visa interview for self and parents   
    Yes, no one questioned the "wealth of knowledge". It is the delivery of such knowledge coupled with presumptions that is under question here
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    TheGunas reacted to TomEn in Preparing for visa interview for self and parents   
    That did not answer the question on how a presumption can be made about the OP's intention,let alone the fact that her education status and various other information were simply "presumed" due to the past studies!!! Rude.
    All you had to do was just give the status that was given by your colleague. Not try and state what the OP's education was and presume that she never started her course. Also falling under the category of presumption would be her sister being pregnant and working "legally" or "illegally".
    I accept your validation thanks to your ex-colleague, but that does not warrant presumptions on what the OP is or will be nor to presume details about her family.
    All i am saying is, just give the facts without presuming this or that is what the person is and this or that is what the other person's thought is!!
    Simple, do not make it personal. Look at it objectively and if in doubt, ask for your questions to be clarified!!!
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    TheGunas reacted to TomEn in Preparing for visa interview for self and parents   
    A former CO would know what the visa of a spouse of a H1 visa holder would be and that the H4 holder cant work!!! But thanks for clarifying that.
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    TheGunas reacted to Boiler in Preparing for visa interview for self and parents   
    Ought to know a H4 does not come with work authorisation.
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    TheGunas reacted to TomEn in Preparing for visa interview for self and parents   
    HFM,
    How do you presume quite a bit, even without taking the itme to have your details clarified with the OP???
    How do you know she has not taken a single class? She is in her second semester and master''s degree are a total of 4 semesters. The credit hours are different from the US and would take an eternity to explain it to you.
    What makes you think that at 21, she is husband shopping and not looking at a career to settle into first?
    The OP was looking for simple answers. Just give the simple answers instead of having to throw a whole lot of BS about her intentions and her sister having a child!!! Get a grip dude.
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    TheGunas reacted to NoLongerHappy in HELP! Just lost my job and k1 interview is too close.   
    So it took a total of 3 days of looking for a job and now I have an IT job, they screwed me over with pay but that is okay...as soon as the AOS, I can get another job....my phone was ringing about every other minute after the 2nd day. I could have gotten a job that was high paying but I didn't want to risk her to not come...I can look for a job while I have this job.
    Thanks for all your advice, there is some things I will use because I don't have a paycheck here yet at this new job.
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    TheGunas reacted to Shauneg in Unlawful status. Can I adjust through marriage?   
    Don't talk to that lawyer anymore. File for your adjustment.
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    TheGunas reacted to Hypnos in STILL HAVEN'T RECEIVED OUR NOA1   
    It can take up to 30 days to receive receipt notifications from USCIS.
    1) Locate your jets.
    2) Place them in your freezer to cool them down.
    3) ???
    4) Profit.
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    TheGunas reacted to Ebunoluwa in Can my Facebook be a problem in my process?   
    So....have any of you 'like or leave it people' ever complained of something about this immigration system as well ?

    I thought so ! So when are you packing those suit cases ?
    Ridiculous comments in this thread.
    OP I wish you the best for your interview and yes, this system sucks.
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    TheGunas reacted to bowens44 in Can my Facebook be a problem in my process?   
    Really? For something most of us have done at one point or another you hope he is denied? Wow.
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    TheGunas reacted to Bad_Daddy in Failed Marriage/Marriage Fraud Suspected   
    First off why is Morocco known as a high risk country? There is a reason for that. Secondly there are major differences on how other cultures and religions perceive a woman's role in marriage and life for that matter. Islam along with MENA culture has about zero in common with the secular West. I mean let's call a horse a horse.
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    TheGunas reacted to Cathi in Failed Marriage/Marriage Fraud Suspected   
    I do feel bad for you. When you love someone many people are blind or choose to ignore warning signs. I don't think people here should be so hard on you, we all know he could be from anywhere, the fact remains that Morocco is a high fraud country, and you had the courage to speak out, not caring what anyone thinks of you, just so you could perhaps help just one woman from the pain you are going through. Good luck to you, and I hope your husband gets what he deserves.

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    TheGunas reacted to Harmonia in I think my friend is falling victim to marriage fraud. Advice?   
    Plenty of red flags, but also legal. Think of 2 US Citizens getting drunk and married in Vegas. Is the marriage "real" based on a relationship of mutual trust, goals, and time invested in the relationship? No. Is it "fraud"? No, not really, because its legally a marriage. Consenting adults can do whatever they want. No authorities will investigate what 2 consenting adults decide to do.
    Is it a good idea? Of course not.
    You sound like a good friend. She's lucky to have you! I hope you can encourage her to have her eyes wide open and perhaps read some online forums. You could say you want her to learn about the culture to better understand her soon-to-be husband, and if you slip in some forums with warnings about quickie marriages...all the better.
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    TheGunas reacted to Adil & Jeanne in I think my friend is falling victim to marriage fraud. Advice?   
    What marriage papers could your other friend have seen?
    All this is done after her arrival in Morocco and nothing can be done ahead here
    Many, not only from Morocco, look for marriage to get out of their country
    Some marriages fail, many are legit
    Getting married in Morocco takes several steps / first going to US embassy and getting paper of elibilbity to marry/ then to Rabat to foreign minister office / after which many interviews with police and judge / the process takes about a month
    I have been married to a Moroccan for 6 years; he is here and we are happy
    But one of the things he will be asked at the interview is how soon did he say he loved her/ this is a a warning sign to embassy / fast engagements/ fast marriages are warning signs / they will look to see how much he knows about her and her family / he is likely to be denied for not knowing her well enough
    She should also feel free to ask this man ahead of time to pass a medical exam as TB is prevalient there. He has to pass both medical and criminal investiation to marry but not bad to ask before spending the money of the trip.
    I wouild go about talking to her by letting her know the costs of immigration from the fees to process to buying his health insurance here and know also she has to have at least 125 % above poverty level income to bring him here
    We have many friends now married to Moroccan men and living here in the US. so, hopefully she will be happy if she goes through all this.
    But honestly, sounds fishy to me too
    Good luck to you but you will probably not be able to change her mind
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    TheGunas reacted to Boiler in I think my friend is falling victim to marriage fraud. Advice?   
    Tell her it is a long and complicated process and as they want to be together she should make plans to move? See how fast he runs.
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