Alaska2012

So sorry to hear about your situation!
I don't have any answers for you but I'm sure someone will chime in!
This is a great place to ask all sorts of questions!

After getting engaged and coming home in 2012 we have been talking on the phone at least twice a day everyday. From that day on we just stayed committed to each other. When I first met her in person it only took me a few days to realize that she's a good girl to make my wife. She was kind smart funny and knew how to cook. Didn't take me long to make up my mind. From that day on I stayed true to my word. We are battling through this.

It's the green card issue date that matters. She can file 90 days prior to her green card expires.

No. Your husband can not start working illegally under the counter.

If they file taxes jointly and she counts as a household member I do belive she has to sign something. Double check by asking in a new post, you will get more views on your question...
EDIT!! I just looked, she needs to fill out a I-864A
Your sponsor fills out the I-846

They don't need to attend

Does have disaster written all over it.

Put your foot down and tell her to put her big girl panties on?
Or file for custody and move out?
Gather evidence that she isn't capable of caring for your kiddo. Also gather evidence of the families abuse towards you. Evidence is always good.

No mod will move it. In that thread we talk about all stages and since all Scandinavians go through Stockholm there are a lot of talk about the embassy. That thread is a gold mine

You do want to show some kind of evidence of a bonafide marriage. Affidavits are nice and all but anyone can write a letter. Pictures are always better and boarding passes and such. But with that said, it might not be an issue at all! Sometimes I think it's all down to the person working the case. If that person have a good day you are in luck! Some peeps front load like crazy an still get get ref. You just never know!

Completely hatless
Marry and adjust in country.

I wish I had a relative like the OP.

you still are not understanding. Your finances have ZERO, ZIP, ZILCH to do with your sister in law,NOTHING. She must apply and be approved on her merits and her merits ALONE. Nothing you do, say or send will have any bearing on her visa. Period, end of story!!

Show them reasons for her to return not reasons that could make her stay!

And for how long would this go on for? Maybe you answered that already and I missed it?
This sounds like a big clusterf! How about waiting until your gf sorts her issues out? Why move over and live hidden away in an apartment away from your wife?? Sounds pretty desperate...

Dude move on! Find a woman that makes you her priority!

Dude move on! Find a woman that makes you her priority!

Dude move on! Find a woman that makes you her priority!

Dude move on! Find a woman that makes you her priority!

It's perfectly fine to do what you did.

Block the stalker?

It's perfectly fine to do what you did.

Maybe ask in the regional forum, not all embassies will let you bring your significant other with you...

Isn't it better to leave now and then return when you are permitted? Then to never be able to come visit again? Never is a very long time....

Tell your husband to do you more often. Not much VJ can do for ya