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    Alaska2012 reacted to Lemonslice in Step Kids Not Accepting Step Mom   
    Imagine marrying someone you don't even get along with after spending this minimal time together.  Why?
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    Alaska2012 reacted to Rocio0010 in Step Kids Not Accepting Step Mom   
    Stepmom here to a nine year old boy. 
    Definitely things should/ could have been handled differently from the start, especially with regards to the kids. But on the other hand, she’s an adult and she knew what she was getting into. And she should be acting like the adult she is now.
    I know people are going to tell me she might be in cultural shock and whatnot and again, I do understand that, but she’s the adult and hopefully she knows how to manage big emotions. Kids don’t. You’re the father and should protect and advocate for them. 
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    Alaska2012 reacted to Daphne . in Step Kids Not Accepting Step Mom   
    I think everybody is still trying to get used to the situation, it is a big change for everyone. I can only imagine the tension in the house..
     
    Also, 'tampo' might play a part here as well? Have you seen more behavior like that? You mention that she has threatened to leave before and also did it when you were visiting with the kids, that is not a safe feeling for the kids, why would they feel like they have to build a relationship with somebody who shows this type of behavior? 
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Ramsep in Citizen Marriage to a DACA Visa Holder.   
    So how does he plan on becoming a citizen if he doesn't marry you?
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Ramsep in Got a ref when applying for my sons passport   
    Sweet!!!!! The passport people finally came to their senses and accepted the swedish papers I sent in to prove I have sole custody! It sure took them time but today I got a tracking number and the passport is on its way!
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Carpe Vinum in Divorce after 2 years of marriage to Philippine wife   
    You took the first one that came along and now you want a new one? Dude you are not buying a car! How long did you know your wife before you got married and moved her over? How many times did you meet before sending in the paperwork?
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Unidentified in Refused--Application returned for review   
    When a K1 is returned it's basically dead.
    If they only wanted additional paperwork they wouldn't send the case back they would just let you send in the missing documents.
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Scandi in Scandinavians   
    The tax papers are fine no need to bring anything else.
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from mallafri76 in VISA denied due to drug conviction   
    Op you were informed quite a while back that this would bite him in the butt. He got arrested with a conviction and he lied about all that jazz on his esta. He's done.
    Buy a Rosetta Stone, get that Swedish going and good luck! Sweden is a neat place!
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from winn55 in Is this a shame?   
    She's been working for 2 months? How much money is the family in debt? And where does she stay? Really dude, you know where she works why not head on over? Maybe, just maybe she could use your help??
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from milimelo in VISA denied due to drug conviction   
    Op you were informed quite a while back that this would bite him in the butt. He got arrested with a conviction and he lied about all that jazz on his esta. He's done.
    Buy a Rosetta Stone, get that Swedish going and good luck! Sweden is a neat place!
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Marc_us82 in It's not meant to be rude. Just a general observation.   
    What about all the people that wait 7-8 months on their Noa2 and when they get it have no idea what to do next... Why not use them months and read????? Drives me bonkers!!
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Penguin_ie in Was told today I MUST present naturalization certificate for kids' passports   
    My son got his passport not even a month ago. I never bothered doing the n-600...no need for it.
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from EM_Vandaveer in Second petition, going from K-1 to K-3   
    You sent her back home? Dude you are not returning shoes that doesn't fit! Make sure you really get to know the new one!
    Now with that said, K3 is more or less obsolete. Read up on CR1! The guide here on VJ is awesome!
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from mallafri76 in Scandinavians   
    We technically can too but Americans are very ####### about their documents lol so even though they are very much valid it just saves a lot of time and hassle to always get one with a current address. It's small things like this I wish I had asked before I moved!
    Btw Georgia16 , get your kids shot record in English from your doctor as a back up! And make sure your state doesn't have other requirements for attending school. Some states ask for more shots than immigration does...
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from kyrachos in Can muslims attend non-muslim Funerals/ Viewings?   
    Of course he can go. If he decides not to its not because of religious beliefs it's because he doesn't want to.
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    Alaska2012 reacted to Transborderwife in Tourist visa got cancelled, deported of overstay, have a US citizen baby, what to do next ?   
    Oh goodie it's our lucky day! A second one!OP are you certain about the 5 year ban?
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from rutabaga in Receiving mail in Egypt   
    The 7-10 days is within the US. Expect it to take a while longer to Egypt...
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Hypnos in USCIS messed up my address and set me up in another State for interview   
    Make an infopass at your local office prior to the interview date and have a talk with them. To just show up at a random office on a day and say "hey, we were scheduled in WA but want the interview here today instead" will probably not go down well.
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Harpa Timsah in Is this a shame?   
    She's been working for 2 months? How much money is the family in debt? And where does she stay? Really dude, you know where she works why not head on over? Maybe, just maybe she could use your help??
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Ebunoluwa in Is this a shame?   
    She's been working for 2 months? How much money is the family in debt? And where does she stay? Really dude, you know where she works why not head on over? Maybe, just maybe she could use your help??
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    Alaska2012 reacted to Georgia16 in K1 Case with Sweden Embassy in Stockholm Questions(merged)   
    You already got answers to this one + a link to the Scandinavian forum??
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Ryan H in Proof of child support payments for beneficiarry   
    No I don't have a link on that. The US doesn't care how your husband plans on paying child support in Russia. Now if Russia cares I wouldn't know..
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from texcal in Requirements for DCF   
    I mean I always thought it depended on where the beneficiary lived so my spontaneous thought is that she'd do it all in Canada...but like I said I've never seen th scenario so I'm curious.
    Just remember she might be stuck in Germany for a while after the interview waiting for the visa.
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    Alaska2012 got a reaction from Bamboo33 in Question - Buy plane ticket and DS-160 Fiance VISA   
    No, not a problem
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