USC has affair while petitioning his wife (split topic)and (merged)

[Ashley 22 0]

I went to jamica and married woman after three months of knowing her however I felt we had an instant connection. None of my family came to the wedding because they did not approve of my marriage. She's 30 and I'm 51. Two months after marriage I when I came back to the U.S. I met someone else and started a relationship and conceived child with her (5 months after my marriage) my new partner and had a serious relationship and was ok with me still petitioning for my wife because I felt bad and wanted to help her still get visa. Currently me and my partner in the states is no longer together and I decided to have a more serious relationship with my wife visiting her more often. Will counslate know about child if I don't volunteely mention it ? What are chances for my wife?

[rtor1 52]

I went to jamica and married woman after three months of knowing her however I felt we had an instant connection. None of my family came to the wedding because they did not approve of my marriage. She's 30 and I'm 51. Two months after marriage I when I came back to the U.S. I met someone else and started a relationship and conceived child with her (5 months after my marriage) my new partner and had a serious relationship and was ok with me still petitioning for my wife because I felt bad and wanted to help her still get visa. Currently me and my partner in the states is no longer together and I decided to have a more serious relationship with my wife visiting her more often. Will counslate know about child if I don't volunteely mention it ? What are chances for my wife?

Well, I won't judge what you did since I have nothing to do with it but let me tell you what I think in regards to your application:

1) You should NEVER lie in your petition. If you have a kid you will have to mention it since he is your dependant (Partial or Wholly). It is not about they knowing, it is about being fully honest. When you bring somebody to your country it is a big responsibility and when you apply for her financial support you need to mention your kid because it affects the number of people depending on you.

2) Chances for your wife: All the relationships MUST BE bona fide and from what I got from your post you had real intentions at first but somehow later it turned to be just a better of helping her with her visa and now you changed your mind again. I have no idea how they could take this whole thing. I don't know if you should somehow explain the whole thing the way it is and being honest about your intentions. I would be very careful and I guess you need to think if you really want it because it is such a long process and your wife will be depending on you for a certain period of time and additionally make sure about her intentions: Or she really loves you to accept such a thing or she just need the docs and again, this process is for bonafide relationships.

To be honest you have some serious red flags (The age difference COULD be one, probably you haven't seen her since you got married and then a baby when you were married)... I don't want to be pessimist about your case but I guess your chances are not good. Let's see what other people think.

[Ashley 22 0]

I have a question (a similar situation)

I have a friend that went abroad and marry a woman and petition for her and her son, however after coming back to the U.S. five months later her got into and affair with another woman (did not tell her he was married) and then had a child with her. The other woman found out about the marriage later on in there relationship but decided to stay with him because of the baby. My friend and the other woman both agreed that still petitioning for beneficiary because they feel bad and want to at least help her out. Long story short, my friend and other woman broke up de to money problems and he's now paying child support and has joint custody. He's still married to lady abroad and is still trying to make it work with her. How might counsel look at their situation and the likelihood for beneficiary to get visa approved?

[Ashley 22 0]

I already filled out aos form, and since the baby wasn't born then I did not put child as dependent. My ex is threatening me that she will report my situation to the counsel office because she thinks I should stop petitioing for my wife, she also said she was going to send them pictures of us and the baby bump (when we were happy together) and proof dna and child support, will that lower her chances of getting visa still ?

[Ontarkie 14,280]

~~Thread split from 6 yr old topic. ~~

[Boiler 45,670]

Strongly suggest you ask your friend to join and post.

The devil is often in the detail which you will not be aware of.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

Strongly suggest you ask your friend to join and post.

The devil is often in the detail which you will not be aware of.

The 'Friend' is himself

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/524893-how-likely-will-visa-get-denied/

[Ontarkie 14,280]

~~Related topic merged. And a third duplicate removed. Do not post multiple threads for the same or similar topic.~~

Edited December 6, 2014 by Ontarkie

[Boiler 45,670]

Or add imaginary friends.

[Penguin_ie 5,994]

It is definitely a huge red flag, but that doesn't mean she won;t get the visa. You would need to prove you truly made up, and are now in a genuine and bonafide relationship with the wife. Many visits will help.

[NikLR 13,227]

You HAVE to mention the child on the I-864 once you get to that point, but you're only marking down you have a child. Your wife may be asked questions about this, especially if you have had anything on facebook or other social media about it. You will need a lot of evidence that you've had a genuine relationship since the affair. This wasn't a short affair after all, it takes 10 months for a baby to be born.

Keep in mind that if the embassy really is in the DR, you will need to attend the interview. Get some face time in with your wife if you truly want her here with you. I also suggest buying condoms.

(I clicked submit once... ARGH!)

Edited December 7, 2014 by NLR

[Ashley 22 0]

Has anyone experience situation like this and if so what were the outcomes of visa?

[NikLR 13,227]

So you want people to say "hey I cheated on my wife of 5 months, had a child in the affair, decided to get back together because my affair didn't work out, and it worked out XX way (good or bad.)"??? Not sure you're going to get a lot of responses on that one, but just maybe.

[Ashley 22 0]

Lol that's pretty funny

Just seeing the chances before I continue process only to result in embarassment

[Dave63 0]

What's nlr

I can't keep it quiet if my sons mother threatens to tell counslate

Lol I see who nlr is sorry