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I went to jamica and married woman after three months of knowing her however I felt we had an instant connection. None of my family came to the wedding because they did not approve of my marriage. She's 30 and I'm 51. Two months after marriage I when I came back to the U.S. I met someone else and started a relationship and conceived child with her (5 months after my marriage) my new partner and had a serious relationship and was ok with me still petitioning for my wife because I felt bad and wanted to help her still get visa. Currently me and my partner in the states is no longer together and I decided to have a more serious relationship with my wife visiting her more often. Will counslate know about child if I don't volunteely mention it ? What are chances for my wife?

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I went to jamica and married woman after three months of knowing her however I felt we had an instant connection. None of my family came to the wedding because they did not approve of my marriage. She's 30 and I'm 51. Two months after marriage I when I came back to the U.S. I met someone else and started a relationship and conceived child with her (5 months after my marriage) my new partner and had a serious relationship and was ok with me still petitioning for my wife because I felt bad and wanted to help her still get visa. Currently me and my partner in the states is no longer together and I decided to have a more serious relationship with my wife visiting her more often. Will counslate know about child if I don't volunteely mention it ? What are chances for my wife?

Well, I won't judge what you did since I have nothing to do with it but let me tell you what I think in regards to your application:

1) You should NEVER lie in your petition. If you have a kid you will have to mention it since he is your dependant (Partial or Wholly). It is not about they knowing, it is about being fully honest. When you bring somebody to your country it is a big responsibility and when you apply for her financial support you need to mention your kid because it affects the number of people depending on you.

2) Chances for your wife: All the relationships MUST BE bona fide and from what I got from your post you had real intentions at first but somehow later it turned to be just a better of helping her with her visa and now you changed your mind again. I have no idea how they could take this whole thing. I don't know if you should somehow explain the whole thing the way it is and being honest about your intentions. I would be very careful and I guess you need to think if you really want it because it is such a long process and your wife will be depending on you for a certain period of time and additionally make sure about her intentions: Or she really loves you to accept such a thing or she just need the docs and again, this process is for bonafide relationships.

To be honest you have some serious red flags (The age difference COULD be one, probably you haven't seen her since you got married and then a baby when you were married)... I don't want to be pessimist about your case but I guess your chances are not good. Let's see what other people think.

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I have a question (a similar situation)

I have a friend that went abroad and marry a woman and petition for her and her son, however after coming back to the U.S. five months later her got into and affair with another woman (did not tell her he was married) and then had a child with her. The other woman found out about the marriage later on in there relationship but decided to stay with him because of the baby. My friend and the other woman both agreed that still petitioning for beneficiary because they feel bad and want to at least help her out. Long story short, my friend and other woman broke up de to money problems and he's now paying child support and has joint custody. He's still married to lady abroad and is still trying to make it work with her. How might counsel look at their situation and the likelihood for beneficiary to get visa approved?

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I already filled out aos form, and since the baby wasn't born then I did not put child as dependent. My ex is threatening me that she will report my situation to the counsel office because she thinks I should stop petitioing for my wife, she also said she was going to send them pictures of us and the baby bump (when we were happy together) and proof dna and child support, will that lower her chances of getting visa still ?

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~~Thread split from 6 yr old topic. ~~


Spoiler

Met Playing Everquest in 2005
Engaged 9-15-2006
K-1 & 4 K-2'S
Filed 05-09-07
Interview 03-12-08
Visa received 04-21-08
Entry 05-06-08
Married 06-21-08
AOS X5
Filed 07-08-08
Cards Received01-22-09
Roc X5
Filed 10-17-10
Cards Received02-22-11
Citizenship
Filed 10-17-11
Interview 01-12-12
Oath 06-29-12

Citizenship for older 2 boys

Filed 03/08/2014

NOA/fee waiver 03/19/2014

Biometrics 04/15/14

Interview 05/29/14

In line for Oath 06/20/14

Oath 09/19/2014 We are all done! All USC no more USCIS

 

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Strongly suggest you ask your friend to join and post.

The devil is often in the detail which you will not be aware of.


“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Strongly suggest you ask your friend to join and post.

The devil is often in the detail which you will not be aware of.

The 'Friend' is himself

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/524893-how-likely-will-visa-get-denied/


Done with K1, AOS and ROC

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~~Related topic merged. And a third duplicate removed. Do not post multiple threads for the same or similar topic.~~

Edited by Ontarkie

Spoiler

Met Playing Everquest in 2005
Engaged 9-15-2006
K-1 & 4 K-2'S
Filed 05-09-07
Interview 03-12-08
Visa received 04-21-08
Entry 05-06-08
Married 06-21-08
AOS X5
Filed 07-08-08
Cards Received01-22-09
Roc X5
Filed 10-17-10
Cards Received02-22-11
Citizenship
Filed 10-17-11
Interview 01-12-12
Oath 06-29-12

Citizenship for older 2 boys

Filed 03/08/2014

NOA/fee waiver 03/19/2014

Biometrics 04/15/14

Interview 05/29/14

In line for Oath 06/20/14

Oath 09/19/2014 We are all done! All USC no more USCIS

 

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Or add imaginary friends.


“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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It is definitely a huge red flag, but that doesn't mean she won;t get the visa. You would need to prove you truly made up, and are now in a genuine and bonafide relationship with the wife. Many visits will help.


Bye: Penguin

Me: Irish/ Swiss citizen, and now naturalised US citizen. Husband: USC; twin babies born Feb 08 in Ireland and a daughter in Feb 2010 in Arkansas who are all joint Irish/ USC. Did DCF (IR1) in 6 weeks via the Dublin, Ireland embassy and now living in Arkansas.

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You HAVE to mention the child on the I-864 once you get to that point, but you're only marking down you have a child. Your wife may be asked questions about this, especially if you have had anything on facebook or other social media about it. You will need a lot of evidence that you've had a genuine relationship since the affair. This wasn't a short affair after all, it takes 10 months for a baby to be born.

Keep in mind that if the embassy really is in the DR, you will need to attend the interview. Get some face time in with your wife if you truly want her here with you. I also suggest buying condoms.

(I clicked submit once... ARGH!)

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You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose.  - Dr. Seuss

 

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So you want people to say "hey I cheated on my wife of 5 months, had a child in the affair, decided to get back together because my affair didn't work out, and it worked out XX way (good or bad.)"??? Not sure you're going to get a lot of responses on that one, but just maybe.


You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose.  - Dr. Seuss

 

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