neighboor seen my ssn card

[noche 1]

Hello vj,i got on usa with my k 1 visa, everything went really good until the ssn card arrived home at me. Me and my fiancee went to file for my ssn after the 3 day i was here, everything went good at the office there and i was said i m gonna get it within 2 weeks.

Like 2 days after that, the neighboor came to our door and said, this card is yours but my husband checked our mail and it was on our mail and without seein it he opened it.I was like why would he open someone s elses mail tho?

She said he thought it was our mail since it was on our mail , and without seein it whose was it he opened it she said, and she had on her hand just my ssn card, and asked me if i need even the envelope , i said of course i need everything that was in it too , even the envelope, she said there was nothing else except the card of ssn,

Please anyone give me some adivice what should i do about it,we r plannin on getting married soon and file my aos,but this came up now.

I don t know if they opened it on purpose or just it was a mistake,i met even her husband and said to him why did u open my mail dude.he said man i thought it was mine and i would not mess with ur stuff, everything is cool man don t worry he said,honestly i don t like those people not good people but i don t know what to do.thank u'

[Boiler 45,661]

Nice of them to bring it over.

[HoussemAnna 20]

They probably genuinely made a mistake, it happens, they brought you the card and apologised. This happens sometimes and if they meant something bad they would have destroyed the card and not told you anything

[Ontarkie 14,275]

Don't worry about it it's an honest mistake. I get mail for my neighbours all the time. If I don't pay attention I will open it. Heck I get mail that is for ppl several houses down.

Edited August 4, 2014 by Ontarkie

[Avery Cates 1,141]

Don't freak out at the guy, they were good enough to bring it over.

A lot of people grab the mail from the box and start opening. I highly doubt he was like "hey, someone else's stuff, let's open it!"

[christeen 966]

Mistakes happen... I would not stress it too much... Credit reports are free, order one from a different agency every 4 months to be sure nothing funny is going on. Or pay for credit monitoring...

[JIJourney 96]

good thing he did right there

[kzielu 1,149]

Beside what other above said, there nothing you can do. Stop worrying.

[Ontarkie 14,275]

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[Ning 619]

Hello vj,i got on usa with my k 1 visa, everything went really good until the ssn card arrived home at me. Me and my fiancee went to file for my ssn after the 3 day i was here, everything went good at the office there and i was said i m gonna get it within 2 weeks.

Like 2 days after that, the neighboor came to our door and said, this card is yours but my husband checked our mail and it was on our mail and without seein it he opened it.I was like why would he open someone s elses mail tho?

She said he thought it was our mail since it was on our mail , and without seein it whose was it he opened it she said, and she had on her hand just my ssn card, and asked me if i need even the envelope , i said of course i need everything that was in it too , even the envelope, she said there was nothing else except the card of ssn,

Please anyone give me some adivice what should i do about it,we r plannin on getting married soon and file my aos,but this came up now.

I don t know if they opened it on purpose or just it was a mistake,i met even her husband and said to him why did u open my mail dude.he said man i thought it was mine and i would not mess with ur stuff, everything is cool man don t worry he said,honestly i don t like those people not good people but i don t know what to do.thank u'

I agree that you are lucky they brought it to you. I sent an important document to another member that I helped them obtain but the neighbor got it by mistake and later admitted they simply threw it away.

[Dave&Roza 748]

Please anyone give me some adivice what should i do about it,we r plannin on getting married soon and file my aos,but this came up now.

I don t know if they opened it on purpose or just it was a mistake,i met even her husband and said to him why did u open my mail dude.he said man i thought it was mine and i would not mess with ur stuff, everything is cool man don t worry he said,honestly i don t like those people not good people but i don t know what to do.thank u'

Be thankful they brought it to you as some people would just throw it out rather than admit they made a mistake. My wife tends to get the mail and starts opening it. She even did that to a UPS package that was for the neighbors. I gave it to them and apologized that we thought it was for us until we saw the address. Yes, the neighbor was not too happy, but it happens. Do not dwell on this. You have your SSC so you are one step farther along than most people in this journey and it sounds like your experience at the SSA office was painless. For that be grateful.

Good luck,

Dave

[Karam and Jamie 44]

Hello vj,i got on usa with my k 1 visa, everything went really good until the ssn card arrived home at me. Me and my fiancee went to file for my ssn after the 3 day i was here, everything went good at the office there and i was said i m gonna get it within 2 weeks.

Like 2 days after that, the neighboor came to our door and said, this card is yours but my husband checked our mail and it was on our mail and without seein it he opened it.I was like why would he open someone s elses mail tho?

She said he thought it was our mail since it was on our mail , and without seein it whose was it he opened it she said, and she had on her hand just my ssn card, and asked me if i need even the envelope , i said of course i need everything that was in it too , even the envelope, she said there was nothing else except the card of ssn,

Please anyone give me some adivice what should i do about it,we r plannin on getting married soon and file my aos,but this came up now.

I don t know if they opened it on purpose or just it was a mistake,i met even her husband and said to him why did u open my mail dude.he said man i thought it was mine and i would not mess with ur stuff, everything is cool man don t worry he said,honestly i don t like those people not good people but i don t know what to do.thank u'

Yeah, I don't think they sound like the type who will try to steal your identity or anything. Sometimes people just grab their stack of mail and start opening. They would so be caught if your identity was stolen because you could easily say, well, my neighbor opened my mail. I wouldn't worry

[raven52 233]

Just do not see a problem with it..,.,..,all is ok!

[KASH2011 382]

It's all good no need to worry about it! You got your SSN card and an apology!

[sweet cakes 326]

Hello vj,i got on usa with my k 1 visa, everything went really good until the ssn card arrived home at me. Me and my fiancee went to file for my ssn after the 3 day i was here, everything went good at the office there and i was said i m gonna get it within 2 weeks.

Like 2 days after that, the neighboor came to our door and said, this card is yours but my husband checked our mail and it was on our mail and without seein it he opened it.I was like why would he open someone s elses mail tho?

She said he thought it was our mail since it was on our mail , and without seein it whose was it he opened it she said, and she had on her hand just my ssn card, and asked me if i need even the envelope , i said of course i need everything that was in it too , even the envelope, she said there was nothing else except the card of ssn,

Please anyone give me some adivice what should i do about it,we r plannin on getting married soon and file my aos,but this came up now.

I don t know if they opened it on purpose or just it was a mistake,i met even her husband and said to him why did u open my mail dude.he said man i thought it was mine and i would not mess with ur stuff, everything is cool man don t worry he said,honestly i don t like those people not good people but i don t know what to do.thank u'

Like everyone said, it's simply common for people here who get tens of mails regularly to not bother checking if its really theirs, so don't think too much about it now. Also, I would suggest staying friendly with them, because there will be more important mails for you in the future that might end up again in their mailbox.