PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! IM SOOOOOO SAD!!!!!!!!

[glazierguy 20]

Does anyone know 100% for sure if my fiancee, is alowed back into the Embassy after her interview? I was thinking, hoping, maybe she could go back, explain it was my fault I never mentioned to her my past. Explain she now knows the situation, explain she didnt knowingly lie. Show them all our proof of a bonified relationship. Will this help? will they give her the chance to explain?

[Thane 8]

Does anyone know 100% for sure if my fiancee, is alowed back into the Embassy after her interview? I was thinking, hoping, maybe she could go back, explain it was my fault I never mentioned to her my past. Explain she now knows the situation, explain she didnt knowingly lie. Show them all our proof of a bonified relationship. Will this help? will they give her the chance to explain?

They won't let you in unless you have an appointment. If they need any additional info they'll send you an RFE.

[Ontarkie 13,917]

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[Jawaree 717]

OP sorry what happened but this maybe a pause in the process...AP ?... If she

did not know she didn't....ALL PETITIONERS be aware if U have child-support,

bankruptcy, arrests or convictions in your past, tell your intended..It will not

affect them negatively..however if they know the details about your past it shows

U have been honest with mate, they accept U and all your faults & its bonafide,

it eliminates the further scutinity of your relationship.

[blooms 63]

Hi glazier,

Sorry to hear this. Was she given the 221G letter? They kept her passport?

There is no time frame for administrative processing unfortunately. Could be days could be years.

The best you can do at the moment is to email the embassy and inquire about the interview, result and next step of the process.

Your fiance cannot go back without any appointment. This is so unfortunate because she didn't know what happened though the charges were many many years ago.

Keep us updated hope this resolves soon. Good luck for you both.

Blooms

[Fan_Dancer 171]

Does she really want to marry you now? I know it would be a deal breaker for me.

[Al422 221]

As the USC, you are still good despite your past record. You need 3 DUI or drug convictions or a crime of moral turpitude (e.g. rape) to knock you out of the box. That is not the issue. The issue is her lack of knowledge of your past life. That is causing the CO to question how well she knows you and/or whether she really did not know (forgivable) or is lying (non-forgivable). All you can do now is wait and see what happens.

The better choice would have been to come clean with her so when she is asked "Did you know he did blah blah blah", she can respond with "Yes I know. We talked about it and i am satisfied he is a better person and will not do such things now." But that is water under the bridge for you.

[Fan_Dancer 171]

a theft felony .... a burglary charge ... I also have 3 duis over the last 25 years

I don't think he is ok.

[glazierguy 20]

thanks fan dancer, appreciate your positive input. i was married for 10 years to an immigrant from romania, same criminal back ground, nothing new since then 14 years ago! they saw fit to allow it then. and proved it was a bonified relationship as is this. my fiance loves me and i love her, she would not give up on us due to this, anyone that would give up that easily, i would question their love to begin with. i appreciate all the positive input, the rest of you that want to pass judgement that is fine, your entitled to your opinion, just try and keep in mind we are all human and make mistakes, i have learned from mine and am a good man, and loving father.

[Fan_Dancer 171]

I think that keeping from your future spouse important facts such as these is a sign of lack of love an respect. It isn't the past that is the main issue, but the breach of trust.

[glazierguy 20]

in your opinion, youve made your point, now keep it to yourself, we dont need your negativity

[defweezard 15]

in your opinion, youve made your point, now keep it to yourself, we dont need your negativity

AMEN!!

[Gosia & Tito 199]

Does anyone know 100% for sure if my fiancee, is alowed back into the Embassy after her interview? I was thinking, hoping, maybe she could go back, explain it was my fault I never mentioned to her my past. Explain she now knows the situation, explain she didnt knowingly lie. Show them all our proof of a bonified relationship. Will this help? will they give her the chance to explain?

I only see two routes:

You wait and depending on what the decision from the Consulate is, take the next steps, a wait and see approach, that frankly seems very "convenient" for you.

You do not wait and get there tomorrow and look for avenues to fix the issue. As a USC, they have to let you in the Embassy, and you can specifically ask to talk about this case. You do state you can't because of children, Is there no relative, ex, etc that can take care of children for a week? You are talking about your future spouse here, the one you left hanging the bag by not disclosing your past offenses.

Reverse the situation and you will see how bad it looks for her, let alone the fact she's learning all these no so good things about someone she believed to be the best man in the world (yes, you have been for 14 years; but that does not magically erase the past).

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[glazierguy 20]

Ok if everyone is able to read!!!!!! they can see by the posts....that iam a liar and a horrible human being.....and my fiancée should run as fast as she can......that being said...if there are no positive comments to help a fellow visa journey member then keep it to your self......ive never seen so many self righteous people.....to all the caring people that try and help thank you......im sure ill just keep getting negative posts from the same people (inappropriate content removed- VJ Moderation)...oh well have at it....if you feel better bashing me, I hope it makes you feel better as a human being.....

Edited June 23, 2014 by Kathryn41

[Maritah 77]

I'll be blunt about the topic, in my personal opinion, It's obvious that the questions from the OC its about test the bonafide relationship, so If she didnt know about your past in the interview, then its a high level of doubt about the relationship because in eyes of the CO its not truthful.

The raw truth its that omissions and lies for the authority it's the same and yes its possible that she get denied about it, but thats because your omission and the intention to hide your past, not because her fault or her personal background.

Hope you can find the best solution about this huge mistake.

Best regards.