Ending of a relationship, now what?

[Sarah.Simard26 0]

Hi Guys,

So, like all of us, I was preparing to bring my fiancé to the US to marry and settle. To make a very long story short I was cheated on and when I confronted my ex he just ended it all with no explanation. I have been torn in two but life must go on. My question is, what now? How do I go about cancelling the immigration process?

[amuna0526 11]

Hi,

Sorry you had to go through that. I believe you need to write a letter to USCIS telling them you would like to withdraw your petition.

[Gboree 56]

Sorry to here that. For us to give you our opinions you will need to know where you got in the immigration process.

Having said that, the best thing to do right now is to write to the USCIS and also to the State Department's NVC, and the consulate your fiance is from letting them know of your intentions.

[Lenny&Sanna 114]

Wow I'm so sorry this happened to you. That is very upsetting

[Carla V 43]

Write asap to USCIS and the Embassy of your ex fiance country... In what stage of the process you were??? Just make sure they know in his Embassy so they wont issue any visa for him

[TBoneTX 43,251]

The OP's timeline indicates that she's between NOA1 & NOA2, so only USCIS is involved at this point. Send a certified letter with return receipt requested, enclosing a copy of the NOA1 letter, stating that you're withdrawing the petition.

[Karam and Jamie 44]

Hi Guys,

So, like all of us, I was preparing to bring my fiancé to the US to marry and settle. To make a very long story short I was cheated on and when I confronted my ex he just ended it all with no explanation. I have been torn in two but life must go on. My question is, what now? How do I go about cancelling the immigration process?

I'm always curious to know how someone finds out their fiance has cheated when they are in another country?

[TBoneTX 43,251]

They learn in various ways. The important thing is that they learn, and in time to prevent a big mistake from happening or continuing.

[KayDeeCee 4,892]

The OP's timeline indicates that she's between NOA1 & NOA2, so only USCIS is involved at this point. Send a certified letter with return receipt requested, enclosing a copy of the NOA1 letter, stating that you're withdrawing the petition.

This.

If your I-129F petition has not yet been approved, then send a notarized letter to the service center that is processing your case. No explanation needed. You just need to state you are withdrawing your petition.

[Al422 221]

Been there, done that. No NOA2 yet? Send the letter to the USCIS office you have been assigned to. You have an absolute right to withdraw your petition any time before the visa is issued, so your letter is to politely explain to them that you are exercising that right.

Get your signature notarized. They need to see it is you and not somebody else.

It will take a couple of months for this to be finalized so be patient.

[baron555 934]

Hi,

Sorry you had to go through that. I believe you need to write a letter to USCIS telling them you would like to withdraw your petition.

Notarized letter.

[Marco&Bettina 502]

Sorry to be reading this OP. I see in your Timeline that you lived with him 2 years. i would be beside myself right now. I wish you nothing but the best in the future & I hope you find true happiness.

[Jawaree 717]

Sorry sis best U know up front about it and really who he is

I would send uscis the info/request to stop petition via certified

mail with signature confirmation, then call his embassy and tell

them U withdrew petition...don't let him call U to change your mind

hey!...Mr Right will come along ...best wishes

[Boiler 43,597]

I'm always curious to know how someone finds out their fiance has cheated when they are in another country?

Social Media?

Amazing what people will disclose.

There was an article I think in the Guardian about the etiquette where people break up, who deletes who from Facebook etc etc.

Not sure what Consulate is involved but non unheard of for people to trawl the web for people to sponsor them despite having a significant other. Once they are legal they can divorce and bring over their true love.

[sweet cakes 326]

This is very sad. I am sorry to read of this bad news, but great to hear that you found out sooner than later.

Agreed as others have advised in sending out a notarized letter to uscis of your decision in withdrawing the I-129f. Include the full names (petitioner and beneficiary) and the receipt number (which you can find from your NOA1).

If just in case you have received a NOA 2 (since your timeline is not updated recently), you also need to inform NVC and the consulate (with a notarized letter), depending on where the current location of your I-129f case file is.

You are still very young at 24, and have a lot to learn, my dear. I wish you all the best for your future and you definitely deserve someone better.