For those of you who doubted

[Trishy_N_J 23]

Well I definitely agree with you that people can keep their negativity to themselves. Silence is better than misinformation IMO.

From what I read in the papers/forms to fill out, you just have to list if you've been convicted of something. You haven't been convicted so it shouldn't be a problem at all. In fact I don't even think you need to mention it. Unless it asks 'Have you ever been accused or have you ever been to court'.

Imagine if all people who were falsely accused should have to carry the burden of the accusation for life once considered 'Not guilty'. It wouldn't really be a not guilty verdict if it resulted in problems over it.

Upon quick observation, it seems to me like people who say otherwise are just judging you for whatever personal reason drives them. I however shall not. It was the judge's job to judge you, and what he said is the verdict. The day you walked out of there with the verdict is the day you should have left it behind. Don't let it trouble you any longer.

Wish you the best in your quest to be with your loved one.

Just heed the advice above of not going on a visitors visa with the intention to marry. I would recommend the path through which no assumptions of illegality can be made.

[amykathleen2005 441]

Well I definitely agree with you that people can keep their negativity to themselves. Silence is better than misinformation IMO.

From what I read in the papers/forms to fill out, you just have to list if you've been convicted of something. You haven't been convicted so it shouldn't be a problem at all. In fact I don't even think you need to mention it. Unless it asks 'Have you ever been accused or have you ever been to court'.

Imagine if all people who were falsely accused should have to carry the burden of the accusation for life once considered 'Not guilty'. It wouldn't really be a not guilty verdict if it resulted in problems over it.

Upon quick observation, it seems to me like people who say otherwise are just judging you for whatever personal reason drives them. I however shall not. It was the judge's job to judge you, and what he said is the verdict. The day you walked out of there with the verdict is the day you should have left it behind. Don't let it trouble you any longer.

Wish you the best in your quest to be with your loved one.

Just heed the advice above of not going on a visitors visa with the intention to marry. I would recommend the path through which no assumptions of illegality can be made.

I don't really think anyone is judging the OP based on the conviction. They are basing it off of things the OP has said in previous and this thread regarding his immigration intentions.

[Supergirlfriend 1]

I think his lawyer does not know what his talking about, they just want to take money from you, I heard a lots of weird stories from attorney here on VJ.

Well Good Luck!

[Kelly C 16]

it really doesnt bother me how you see it i know what ive asked and all legit. sorry you cant accept that. not my problem.

good day to you. shame you cannot accept or handle the truth for how it truly is rather than stirring up things and completely lying about things.

Who Lied I am curious? Please give specific examples if you are going to publically post accusations. That way fellow VJers can disregard the false statements.

Thanks,

Kelly

[L+T 71]

[rade2rising 205]

[Sirdaniel42 86]

:rofl:

[cdneh 3,112]

Coming on a tourist visa with the intent to stay and adjust status is immigration fraud. I do not see your criminal stuff as an issue but this one is a big "NONO".

Also just looking at your previous posts I would question your relationships validity, but maybe I am just cynical?

Good luck with whatever you choose.

He's just looking for a way into the USA. Anyone would do. Seems more about him and the business. The girlfriend is only a means to an end.

[Peace.... 281]

I vote INLUVNWAITING the new Consular at United Kingdom to interview all potential immigrants coming to the USA.

Edited July 18, 2012 by foreverwaiting

[Stu4Lee 66]

Who Lied I am curious? Please give specific examples if you are going to publically post accusations. That way fellow VJers can disregard the false statements.

Thanks,

Kelly

Just wondering are these the same VJers that can disregard the incorrect posts about legality and fraud and/or the sheep that +1'd also ?

How do these folk get through any immigration process if that is their knowledge level?

I vote INLUVNWAITING the new Consular at United Kingdom to interview all potential immigrants coming to the USA.

If the only skill-set required is copy-n-paste

I'm only getting a small

[M_&_R 77]

Well done Columbo, you proved nothing but the fact that the OP admits wanting to move to the US "at some point"

I disagree. Reading this thread without having seen the others, I assumed OP was a typical fiancee anxious about his petition, and had actually encountered "doomsaying" from VJ members based on his conviction. Poor OP, I sympathize. However, after reading the compilation posted by "Columbo" my opinion changed - OP wants to get to the US by any means he can find and feels he has found a way to use the girlfriend to do so. Now I don't feel bad for the OP. I just feel bad for the girlfriend.

OP didn't say "I'm in love and want to be with her at some point no matter what it takes" (like most of us). Rather, OP said he wanted to get to the US for his job, and because he was unhappy with his life in the UK. Now he sees a way to use his girlfriend to make it happen. It was "Columbo's" post that made this clear. So yeah, he did prove something.

M

[Windza 9]

To the OP:

Firstly, for your own benefit, I suggest that you re-evaluate your perceptions of the responses given here. I can absolutely assure you that the overwhelming majority of members here are posting with the intent to either; help or seek help... that deserves respect in its own right and posts should be taken at face value; if you don't agree or take issue with something said, ignore or respond civilly - I don't think a retaliation or 'in-your-face' type thread like this one is very intelligent (particularly considering how premature your case is).

Secondly, it would also pay to re-evaluate your mannerism and approach, not only in this forum, but in relation to seeking a US visa... FACT: the tone/attitude you convey in your posts is producing negative sentiment. It doesn't matter if this sentiment is just or unjust, the fact remains your approach isn't very constructive on these forums and is a pretty good indicator that you'll have bigger issues in working through a US visa application.

My final suggestion? Tread softly mate... and before you develop some sentiment about what I've posted, just take a deep breath, clear the mind and take my opinions objectively... humble pie sucks but it can be very nourishing when eaten appropriately.

[QueenE 173]

OP

since recently joining the friendly site of VJ (4 weeks ago)u have publicly searched by asking "legitimate questions" to obtain a visa to immigrate to the U.S. and this is why it seems like you might not have a Bona Fide Relationship with your SO. I post nothing negative and intend nothing with accusation

These are all your words from your posts in snippets.....

Posted 13 May 2012 ~

I want to move to the US but realise that it is not a matter of "get up and go".

I understand that the couple of ways to get a visa is either to get married to someone in the US and move there (obviously a proper devoted marriage) or to work for a US company who will sponser you and move you over.

however for me, both options are not possible.

I have no criminal record of any kind and are self employed in IT. I also have a US B1/B2 Visa (a business and visitor visa).

I am wanting to change my life and move away from where I am and would rather move to the US.

What things are possible for me to do this? Any suggestions or advice are welcome!

Posted 07 June 2012~

Hi.

if one wants to give up their UK citizenship (they were born and bred in the UK), then is it possible to gain for a US citizenship or would the same principals apply where you can only get a visa if a company employs you or you get married etc... ?

Posted 04 July 2012 ~

I currently live in the UK. I am wanting to move to the US for many reasons. The main being my line of work (in IT)I am wondering, is it possible for me to get a visa and migrate over taking my business with me? if so - what is the process? Anyone know where I stand on this? Like I said, I want to move myself and my company over to the US and continue doing what I do with the business but in US.

And when that post did not get the answers....

Posted 13 July 2012 ~

So,

for a K1 - how does it work? I mean from what I understand the person in the US would file for this. So what do they file? What sort of details are on the form they need to fill in?

what if the DOB is entered differently than the actual DOB? just the years having a mistake?

does age difference matter? she is older than me - around 10 years.

lets just say that she thinks im 2 years older than my DOB. but i think we all do that when you are dating.... ( you bad boy )

Four days ago...

well we arent engaged or anything yet. and it is still new, the relationship. but like i said... i have my reasons. she has her reasons for doing the same too!

Today ~

So I have a US girlfriend. we plan to marry at some point. Obviously means I would move over/immigrate to the US.

The bonus is, I dont need to apply for a K1 visa. I can get married on my curent B1/B2 visa then the girlfriend can file for the immigration thing/sponser. I can still continue to travel back and fourth which is ideal for me.

You seemed to have it all figured out now

BTW

IF this was for me....

what? give me a break.

I dont get why I cannot ask legitimate questions here. after all this is an open forum and it is meant to be a helpful community, not this kind of negitive and false accusation community.

You were helped in all your previous posts.

no wonder the world is in a state today because of such people.

Me being a member of VJ and pointing out that your story comes off questionable does not rock the state of the world.

I wonder why i bother anymore. I have nothing to hide so really, it is not my fault if you have issues. go sort them out

Thanks for the advice....No real hard issue on my side of the big pond

I do wish you both good luck with your future

Great work! Im going to say it but OP is using his "girlfriend." i dont know why these women so easily marry after hearing all the horror stories

[Stu4Lee 66]

I disagree. Reading this thread without having seen the others, I assumed OP was a typical fiancee anxious about his petition, and had actually encountered "doomsaying" from VJ members based on his conviction. Poor OP, I sympathize. However, after reading the compilation posted by "Columbo" my opinion changed - OP wants to get to the US by any means he can find and feels he has found a way to use the girlfriend to do so. Now I don't feel bad for the OP. I just feel bad for the girlfriend.

OP didn't say "I'm in love and want to be with her at some point no matter what it takes" (like most of us). Rather, OP said he wanted to get to the US for his job, and because he was unhappy with his life in the UK. Now he sees a way to use his girlfriend to make it happen. It was "Columbo's" post that made this clear. So yeah, he did prove something.

M

I said Columbo proved something, nothing but the fact that the OP admits wanting to move to the US "at some point".

The OP hasn't even filed for anything yet, he hasn't used anyone yet, he doesn't have to prove anything is bonafide yet and certainly not to any wannabees here. I have read his other posts, which Columbo was quite selective with btw, he made it clear from the off he was "asking questions" and "investigating options", whether that be work-related or any other.

I'm pretty sure that's allowed, even here.

Still, why should that stop the VJ vultures circling right??

Columbo, you're on parking patrol, may as well take the know-nothings from this thread with ya!

Edited July 18, 2012 by Stu4Lee

[isa30 4]

:rofl:

love it....