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Hi all,

I know this may come as a shock to many of you, considering how far along I am in the process... but I wanted to apologise for not being around lately and let you know I am divorcing my husband.

The past month has shown me a side of him I do not know, and I realised I married way too soon, I also don't really want to leave my family here in Australia... and so I am divorcing.

There is a LOT more which I dont wish to go into on here, but I wanted to wish everyone well on their journeys. I have made some good friends here, and if you want to keep in touch, I am on facebook, or email.

PM me if you want my facebook details.

Thanks again for all the support.

D xxx

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Morning Donna,

Firstly I'm very sorry to hear about the divorce. This process is very strenuous on both parties. I'm really sorry about your situation. I hope you all the best for the future. I'm hoping to get an interview date soon *fingures crossed*, * touch wood*.

No matter which route you take, I'm sure you'll be successful. Always hold your head and don't ever look down on yourself.

All the best

Take care

Best of Luck. Best wishes. Thank you.

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Morning Donna,

Firstly I'm very sorry to hear about the divorce. This process is very strenuous on both parties. I'm really sorry about your situation. I hope you all the best for the future. I'm hoping to get an interview date soon *fingures crossed*, * touch wood*.

No matter which route you take, I'm sure you'll be successful. Always hold your head and don't ever look down on yourself.

All the best

Take care

I am sorry cos of this news, but I wish you everything the best Dona and good luck in future, you were good supported for us on visa journey thanks you for that....

I-130 approved after 62 days

NVC journey

09-18-2009 entered in system NVC

09-22-2009 asigned case number

09-24-2009 mailed and e-mailed my 3032

09-29-2009 AOS shown paid

09-26-2009 recived AOS (AVR)

10-05-2009 accepted DS3032

10-05-2009 invoiced IV bill

10-13-2009 recived by email confirmation DS3032 (STRANGE)

10-16-2009 sent DS230

10-19-2009 AVR said some documents are missing and they are incomplete we got RFE false

10-21-2009 recived email for missing documents-checklist

10-19-2009 delivered DS230 by USPS

10-23-2009 AVR recived checklist

10-29-2009 log in fail - case complete confirmed official by OP

11-10-2009 medical exam passed

11-03-2009 papers forwarded to sarajevo embassy

12-09-2009 INTERVIEW SCHEDULED visa approved

14 December POE

29 December got green card

30 December got driving license

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Sorry to hear that....take care and be strong. You will find the right person when you least expect it!

For our Full timeline

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Removal of conditions Journey

16 March 2012 Sent I-751 package from Aviano AB, Italy.

29 March 2012 Received everything back...wrong fee. thought we didn't have to pay biometrics since we were sending fingerprint cards and passport photos.

30 March 2012 Sent everything out again from Aviano AB, Italy.

10 April 2012 Check cashed

17 April 2012 Received NOA1 dated 6 April.

06 Dec 2012 Received 10 yr green card. Letter said it was approved 28 November 2012.

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sorry to hear and good luck in the future

Removal of Conditions: 12/09/2011

ROC check cashed 12/15/11

NOA1 12/13/11

Biometrics 1/6/12 Complete

RFE 9/13/12

RFE package sent back 10/17/12

Card Production Ordered 12/04/12

10 year card arrived in mail 12/10/12

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dang donna! Sorry to hear :o( I guess as a married couple, you make that promise to be with each other and to work through the tough times so that the grass IS greener on the other side of the dlemma. unfortunately, it sounds like this is a situation that wasn't able to be worked through. can't believe you were about 2 weeks off being together again!!

To make some light of a bad situation, you think you could swing me your dec 1st interview date? :o) haha

USCIS

09-12-09 : I-130 Sent

09-21-09 : NOA1

01-26-10 : NOA2

127 days @ USCIS

NVC

02-01-10 : NVC receives case / Case number assigned / Gave e-mail addresses to operator

02-05-10 : Received DS-3032 & AOS bill / Sent DS-3032 (E-mail) / Paid AOS Bill

02-07-10 : Sent DS-3032 (Snail Mail)

02-09-10 : AOS fee showing PAID

02-11-10 : DS-3032 Delivered to NVC / E-mail confirmation DS-3032 (signed by JESUS)

02-12-10 : IV Bill generated

02-19-10 : IV Bill paid

02-26-10 : AoS package & DS-230 Sent

03-02-10 : AoS package & DS-230 received at 4:11am (Signed by RUDOLPH)

03-05-10 : AVR Updated - Received DS-230

03-16-10 : 3 RFE's received (Incorrect Police Certificate DS230 / I-864 / I-864A

05-20-10 : CASE COMPLETE & SIGN IN FAIL

05-22-10 : New RFE checklist received stating ONLY I-864A needs to be resent.

05-23-10 : Called NVC. AVR claimed our case was 'COMPLETE'

05-26-10 : Interview date set for 07-20-2010

115 days @ NVC

242 DAYS TOTAL SO FAR

US CONSULATE (SYDNEY)

07-12-10 : Medical @ 10am

07-20-10 : Interview @ 9am VISA APPROVED

07-26-10 : VISA IN HAND!!!!!

08-10-10 : P.O.E. Los Angeles

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sorry to hear about your situation...i read some of your post... there were times you got impatient of the waiting process....hope there is still some way you can resolve things with your husband and not the divorce... God bless

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TIMELINE I-130

June 29, 2009 - sent packet I-130

July 9, 2009 - received NOA1 (thanks God)

Sept. 9, 2009 - received approval email from USCIS thru CRIS

Sept. 14, 2009 - NOA2 hardcopy received by husband

Sept. 18, 2009 - case number assigned (NVC process starts)

Nov. 4, 2009 - CASE COMPLETE @NVC!

Nov. 13, 2009 - interview date assigned by NVC

DEC. 10, 2009 AT 6:30AM

re scheduled DECEMBER 1, 2009- INTERVIEW - white slip (passport and medical results from st. luke

Dec 14, 2009 - VISA received

Dec 21, 2009 - USA arrival (POE - San francisco)

Jan. 6, 2010 - SSN received

Jan. 7, 2010 - 2 years GC received

THANKS GOD AND MOTHER MARY FOR ALL THE GUIDANCE.

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canadian_wife   1,791

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I am so sorry for your situation. I hope you find happiness and success

Good luck in the future

USCIS
August 12, 2008 - petition sent
August 16, 2008 - NOA-1
February 10, 2009 - NOA-2
178 DAYS FROM NOA-1

NVC
February 13, 2009 - NVC case number assigned
March 12, 2009 - Case Complete
25 DAY TRIP THROUGH NVC

Medical
May 4, 2009

Interview
May, 26, 2009

POE - June 20, 2009 Toronto - Atlanta, GA

Removal of Conditions
Filed - April 14, 2011
Biometrics - June 2, 2011 (early)
Approval - November 9, 2011
209 DAY TRIP TO REMOVE CONDITIONS

Citizenship

April 29, 2013 - NOA1 for petition received

September 10, 2013 Interview - decision could not be made.

April 15, 2014 APPROVED. Wait for oath ceremony

Waited...

September 29, 2015 - sent letter to senator.

October 16, 2015 - US Citizen

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Hi all,

I know this may come as a shock to many of you, considering how far along I am in the process... but I wanted to apologise for not being around lately and let you know I am divorcing my husband.

The past month has shown me a side of him I do not know, and I realised I married way too soon, I also don't really want to leave my family here in Australia... and so I am divorcing.

There is a LOT more which I dont wish to go into on here, but I wanted to wish everyone well on their journeys. I have made some good friends here, and if you want to keep in touch, I am on facebook, or email.

PM me if you want my facebook details.

Thanks again for all the support.

D xxx

You were never going to be able to change him. I feel so bad for you guys. Maybe he will wake up and realize what he is losing by choosing to remain unemployed,home with mum and dad and leaving the entire immigration process in your hands. He might just decide to grow up and make an effort to save the marriage. But if he is gonna change it will be on him to do it. You did all you could. Now you need to do what is best for you. I'm so sorry for all you are going through. I've been through divorce and no matter the reasons and even when it is exactly what you need to do, it still hurts. It is still a loss of a life you thought you had. Stay strong. It gets better. I know everyone says so and I know it is hard to believe now but it will. I promise. Someday you may even look back and wonder what on earth you ever saw in him or you may work things out and it will become a memory. Whatever the future holds for you it will be better than it is right now. I wish you the best of luck. Take care of yourself.

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Hello Donna,

I'm sorry to hear that.

I wish you all the best

05/14/2009 - submitted I-130 to Chicago Lockbox

05/18/2009 - NOA1

08/21/2009 - NOA2 (95 days from NOA1)

09/01/2009 - NVC assigned case no. (11 days from NOA2 incl. 2 weekends)

09/15/2009 - got DS 3032 form from NVC by email

09/17/2009 - sent DS 3032 to NVC by email and by regular mail

09/17/2009 - received and paid AOS fee bill (paid online)

09/18/2009 - NVC accepted DS 3032

09/22/2009 - received and paid IV fee bill (paid online)

09/22/2009 - AOS fee entered into the NVC system

09/22/2009 - received AOS package

09/24/2009 - IV fee entered into the NVC system

09/24/2009 - received IV package

10/02/2009 - sent DS 230 package from Germany to NVC by UPS

10/05/2009 - NVC received DS 230 package

10/06/2009 - DS 230 entered into NVC system

10/09/2009 - sent AOS forms to NVC by USPS express

10/13/2009 - NVC received AOS forms

10/15/2009 - NVC entered AOS forms into their system

10/19/2009 - case complete (49 days)

10/27/2009 - medical exam

10/29/2009 - got notification regarding my interview date

11/03/2009 - got result of my medical exam (everything is ok)

11/03/2009 - case forwarded to embassy

11/05/2009 - case received by embassy

12/21/2009 - interview date (7:30am - 9:15am - approved) - visa in mail on 12/24/2009

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Hi all,

I know this may come as a shock to many of you, considering how far along I am in the process... but I wanted to apologise for not being around lately and let you know I am divorcing my husband.

The past month has shown me a side of him I do not know, and I realised I married way too soon, I also don't really want to leave my family here in Australia... and so I am divorcing.

There is a LOT more which I dont wish to go into on here, but I wanted to wish everyone well on their journeys. I have made some good friends here, and if you want to keep in touch, I am on facebook, or email.

PM me if you want my facebook details.

Thanks again for all the support.

D xxx

Hey donna,

Sorry to hear that, but things happen for reason. I am not sure if he can save marriage to sh something. But u know reason more then anyone else or gues. Best of luck, in this hard time.

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Hi all,

I know this may come as a shock to many of you, considering how far along I am in the process... but I wanted to apologise for not being around lately and let you know I am divorcing my husband.

The past month has shown me a side of him I do not know, and I realised I married way too soon, I also don't really want to leave my family here in Australia... and so I am divorcing.

There is a LOT more which I dont wish to go into on here, but I wanted to wish everyone well on their journeys. I have made some good friends here, and if you want to keep in touch, I am on facebook, or email.

PM me if you want my facebook details.

Thanks again for all the support.

D xxx

I'm so sorry Donna,hope you are doing as well as you can do during these circumstances.

Take care of yourself!

April 2007 : Met
07/28/07 : Officialy dating
06/07/09 : Engaged
09/04/09 : Married

10/06/09 : I-130 Sent
10/15/09 : NOA1
01/11/10 : Expedite Request Sent Through Congressman
01/14/10 : NOA2

01/22/10 : Got NVC casenumber
03/16/10 : Case Complete

05/04/10 : Medical
05/11/10 : Interview - APPROVED!!
05/14/10 : Passport w/ Visa recieved

05/29/10 : POE JFK
06/25/10 : Apply for SSN
06/29/10 : Received Welcome Letter
07/01/10 : Recieved SSN (33 days after POE)
07/07/10 : Greencard production ordered
07/13/10 : Second Welcome Letter recieved
07/15/10 : Green Card recieved (47 days after POE)

04/02/12 : ROC NOA1
05/24/12 : ROC Biometrics
12/19/12 : ROC Approval
12/24/12 : New GC recieved

3/18/16 : N-400 Application sent
3/25/16 : Text/Email confirmation NOA
4/22/16 : Biometrics Appt

6/24/16 : NOA date for Interview

7/28/2016: Interview

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aww.. I'm sorry to hear about your situation.. I do hope that whatever decisions you both shall make, they wil make you happy.

There have been so many things that this whole process has done to a lot of relationships, some break, some become stronger, so I hope and pray that your decisions will make you both grow and help you understand each other as well your own's characters.

Hope you will have strength in your journey.

God bless

Luke 18:27 Jesus said" what is impossible to men is possible with God."

Philippians 4:13 I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.

03/02/09-k-1 visa starts

09/09/09-K-1 visa approved

10/24/09 - WEDDING

11/09/09 - AOS

02/25/10-GC approved

08/26/10-319B n400 starts

11-09-10 Interview 10 AM >Approved

11-09-10 oath 2 PM Fairfax, VA

All glory, praises, thanksgiving and admiration belong only to God.

Jeremiah 29:11 "for i know the plans i have for you", declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you¬ harm you, plans to give you hope & a future"

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Donna,

I am so sorry you are going through this right now. Divorce is not an easy thing to do so stay strong and focused.

Good luck with all and remember that you have a lot of friends here on VJ if you need to bend an ear! :luv:

~Andrea

"A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. " – Herm Albright

POE: JFK New York: 04/18/2010
Receive Green Card in mail: 06/03/2010
Received SSN: 06/17/2010
Received NEW SS CARD: 07/20/2010 (to match GC!)
Got JOB!!: 09/27/2010
Got a better JOB!!: 11/20/2010
ROC Mailed: 02/16/2012
Check cashed: 02/24/2012
NOA received dated for: 02/22/2012
Biometrics dated: 04/18/2012
RFE: 10/23/2012
RFE Response Confirmed: 11/16/2012
Interview at Orlando office: 02/13/2013

2nd RFE!!: 10/03/13

2nd RFE Response: 10/09/2013

Update Biometrics: 10/13/2013 NEVER GOT 10 yr card!

N-400 mailed: 01/21/2014

Biometrics (N-400): 02/21/2014

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