Must know answer...

[aussiewench 10]

3 gals and a guy makes for a great night..... been there done that, old hat. Hubby not interested....which I like....so the closest we will ever get to girl on girl is on a screen. Turns us both on me thinks Ive never been into the guys together, but each to their own.

i sure one of them got a spanking..

i wonder if she kept any photographic evidence?!!!

I did for a while but its all gone now.....just a memory

[Ban Hammer 15,149]

I think to really achieve mature love, it takes a concentrated effort of two people's total monogomous love and devotion. I just don't see how anyone can have sex outside of love (I mean I know it happens, but once you've tasted real love making - pure physical sex leaves the mouth dry). We're emotional beings and our pursuit of connecting with other humans is emotionally driven. Having sex for sex sake is contrary to that. I suppose some people just never reach mature love so perhaps that kind of open relationship works for them. I think there's something noble in choosing to make love to only one person for a lifetime.

oh I dont know.....I have pure physical sex, sex for sex sake all the time with my buzz friend.

Some couples are able to look at a third person in the mix as an extension, just as one uses vibes etc within their relationship. There is IMO nothing wrong with pure raw sex.....its not always about making love, even between the couple themselves.

sounds like an idea for a poll......

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I think to really achieve mature love, it takes a concentrated effort of two people's total monogomous love and devotion. I just don't see how anyone can have sex outside of love (I mean I know it happens, but once you've tasted real love making - pure physical sex leaves the mouth dry). We're emotional beings and our pursuit of connecting with other humans is emotionally driven. Having sex for sex sake is contrary to that. I suppose some people just never reach mature love so perhaps that kind of open relationship works for them. I think there's something noble in choosing to make love to only one person for a lifetime.

oh I dont know.....I have pure physical sex, sex for sex sake all the time with my buzz friend.

Some couples are able to look at a third person in the mix as an extension, just as one uses vibes etc within their relationship. There is IMO nothing wrong with pure raw sex.....its not always about making love, even between the couple themselves.

...but the likelihood of you becoming emotionally attached to your vibrator is slim to none.

[Yodrak 8]

LJ,

A lot of people like to play that game on VJ. Somone will make a post with a few superficial facts and the next thing you know there are many pages of advice and debate based on all sorts of assumptions as to what the full story must be.

Yodrak

... I have a game that I like to play when I am out and about and have actually got Ian doing it with me now...I like to observe ppl and make up my own story about them and their life.......

LJ

[diadromous mermaid 36]

If you occasionally see Yodrak's name at the base of this page, be rest assured, he's reading for interpretational angles, only

[aussiewench 10]

I think to really achieve mature love, it takes a concentrated effort of two people's total monogomous love and devotion. I just don't see how anyone can have sex outside of love (I mean I know it happens, but once you've tasted real love making - pure physical sex leaves the mouth dry). We're emotional beings and our pursuit of connecting with other humans is emotionally driven. Having sex for sex sake is contrary to that. I suppose some people just never reach mature love so perhaps that kind of open relationship works for them. I think there's something noble in choosing to make love to only one person for a lifetime.

oh I dont know.....I have pure physical sex, sex for sex sake all the time with my buzz friend.

Some couples are able to look at a third person in the mix as an extension, just as one uses vibes etc within their relationship. There is IMO nothing wrong with pure raw sex.....its not always about making love, even between the couple themselves.

...but the likelihood of you becoming emotionally attached to your vibrator is slim to none.

hahahaha I think many gals would disagree there

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Back to regular programming:

Top Ten Male Sexual Fantasies

Sex therapist Sandra Alexander claims:

1. Double helpings: A classic position - sandwiched between two women intent on his pleasure.

2. On location: Sex anywhere but the bedroom. Swimming pools figure highly, as do supermarkets.

3. Coitus interruptus: Getting down to it on his desk after office hours, knowing that the cleaner could walk in any moment.

4. Turkish delight: He's the only fella in a happy harem.

5. Fancy dress: You guessed it - French maids' outfits/nurses uniforms. The short skirt and suspenders combo is deeply embedded in the male psyche.

6. Peeping Tom: The old favourite of watching two women make love.

7. Forbidden fruit: Á la Alan Clark, sex with two daughters of his mistress. Variations on the theme include bonking his bosses wife while on the phone to him.

8. Mrs Robinson: A mature sexual tutor teaching him a thing or two.

9. Brief encounters: Being ravished by a total stranger. Planes and trains feature highly in this fantasy.

10. Over to her: It's often the more successful man who dreams of passivity - relinquishing all sexual power to a female warrior/becoming a sex slave/being dished up as dessert, naked on a silver platter.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I think to really achieve mature love, it takes a concentrated effort of two people's total monogomous love and devotion. I just don't see how anyone can have sex outside of love (I mean I know it happens, but once you've tasted real love making - pure physical sex leaves the mouth dry). We're emotional beings and our pursuit of connecting with other humans is emotionally driven. Having sex for sex sake is contrary to that. I suppose some people just never reach mature love so perhaps that kind of open relationship works for them. I think there's something noble in choosing to make love to only one person for a lifetime.

oh I dont know.....I have pure physical sex, sex for sex sake all the time with my buzz friend.

Some couples are able to look at a third person in the mix as an extension, just as one uses vibes etc within their relationship. There is IMO nothing wrong with pure raw sex.....its not always about making love, even between the couple themselves.

...but the likelihood of you becoming emotionally attached to your vibrator is slim to none.

hahahaha I think many gals would disagree there

Have you ever kicked your hubby out of the bed because you wanted to spend time with your friend, Buzz instead?

[aussiewench 10]

1. Double helpings: A classic position - sandwiched between two women intent on his pleasure.

I find that interesting as there is a big difference between having 2 girls pleasuring the male that is sandwiched between .......then the fantasy of girl on girl.

[Laura_and_IanM 0]

I think to really achieve mature love, it takes a concentrated effort of two people's total monogomous love and devotion. I just don't see how anyone can have sex outside of love (I mean I know it happens, but once you've tasted real love making - pure physical sex leaves the mouth dry). We're emotional beings and our pursuit of connecting with other humans is emotionally driven. Having sex for sex sake is contrary to that. I suppose some people just never reach mature love so perhaps that kind of open relationship works for them. I think there's something noble in choosing to make love to only one person for a lifetime.

oh I dont know.....I have pure physical sex, sex for sex sake all the time with my buzz friend.

Some couples are able to look at a third person in the mix as an extension, just as one uses vibes etc within their relationship. There is IMO nothing wrong with pure raw sex.....its not always about making love, even between the couple themselves.

...but the likelihood of you becoming emotionally attached to your vibrator is slim to none.

hahahaha I think many gals would disagree there

I AGREE AUSSIE LOL...

Maturity is the ability to stick with a project or a situation until it is finished. It means doing whatever it takes to make the relationship be one you are proud to be in. The adult who is constantly changing jobs, relationships, and friends, is in a word. . . immature. They cannot stick it out because they have not grown up. Everything seems to turn sour after a while.

I am not one to constantly change jobs, relationshios, or friends...but I do believe that bringing a third person in the mix for some who can handle it is ok...so where does that leave me? Steady now with your answer because you are treading on thin ice now...lol.. You have to reread what you have said, because you are coming across to me as being very judgemental...I am very proud of my relationship with Ian..That doesn't mean to say that I am immature for possibly CONSIDERING bringing another woman to our bedroom..nor does it meam our marriage or our love is immature..please becareful how you state things lol...you don't want us women turning on you here lol...~

LJ

[aussiewench 10]

I think to really achieve mature love, it takes a concentrated effort of two people's total monogomous love and devotion. I just don't see how anyone can have sex outside of love (I mean I know it happens, but once you've tasted real love making - pure physical sex leaves the mouth dry). We're emotional beings and our pursuit of connecting with other humans is emotionally driven. Having sex for sex sake is contrary to that. I suppose some people just never reach mature love so perhaps that kind of open relationship works for them. I think there's something noble in choosing to make love to only one person for a lifetime.

oh I dont know.....I have pure physical sex, sex for sex sake all the time with my buzz friend.

Some couples are able to look at a third person in the mix as an extension, just as one uses vibes etc within their relationship. There is IMO nothing wrong with pure raw sex.....its not always about making love, even between the couple themselves.

...but the likelihood of you becoming emotionally attached to your vibrator is slim to none.

hahahaha I think many gals would disagree there

Have you ever kicked your hubby out of the bed because you wanted to spend time with your friend, Buzz instead?

Buzz could finish the job off if I was left lacking yes I wouldnt kick him outa bed to do it though

[Laura_and_IanM 0]

LJ,

A lot of people like to play that game on VJ. Somone will make a post with a few superficial facts and the next thing you know there are many pages of advice and debate based on all sorts of assumptions as to what the full story must be.

Yodrak

LMAO...yodrak I think you and I could have some pretty interesting conversations buddy lol... I know what you mean...totally!!!

LJ

... I have a game that I like to play when I am out and about and have actually got Ian doing it with me now...I like to observe ppl and make up my own story about them and their life.......

LJ

hey now how come my response to yodrak didnt show up?? LOL...i basically agree with you Yodrak ...and I think you and I could have some pretty interesting convos buddy lol...sorry..dont know why it didnt show up what I said on my last comment

LJ

[*Robert* 2]

Steven, where did you get the prescription for those rose colored glasses you wear?! (Or is it a Prozac prescription?!) From reading your posts on various threads, I see you are an idealist, which is admirable, but also come across as almost a little naive. Not a bad thing... just making an observation.

As for two women... hot , hot, and more hot!!! As a lesbian, trapped in a man's body, the more women I see, the better!!! Two hot looking girls going at each other is just great!!!

Would I ever try to do it with my wife?! NO F'ing way!!! But I certainly like watching it, and she doesn't mind either, so we're good to go!!!

[Sharon 1]

Some couples are able to look at a third person in the mix as an extension, just as one uses vibes etc within their relationship. There is IMO nothing wrong with pure raw sex.....its not always about making love, even between the couple themselves.

A agree whole-heartedly. Sometimes I just wanna #### and sometimes I wanna make love.

Depends how I feel at the time and how MUCH time we got! hahaha

[sarah and hicham 3]

All I can say is that each time I click "view new posts" this one is allllways on top.