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[LionessDeon 2,060]

I've read the comments posted here and I must say this:

Older women/younger men is becoming quite common. I've been involved in those types relationships as well as my friends. 2 of my best friends are married/engaged to younger men (6+ years)

I dislike the word cougar immensely because in these afore mentioned situations the women were NOT the aggressor as the term cougar implies. While I agree some women do go after boy toys. These young men are relentless.

Age has nothing to do with it....it depends on ur position in life and personality. As long as ur on the same page in life regarding career, children, wants, desires, goals...it can work very well. Are u young at heart? Do u still like spontaneity and adventure? So it really boils down to that if the relationship works or not....not how big the age gap is.

My personal experience...older men bore me, younger men always tell me that young girls are promiscuous, play games, do not know what they want. Granted I look much younger than my age but it's all about how u feel. JUST my experience!

To each their own but the least of Dani & Mo's problems is their age difference.

[Pennycat 880]

I dislike the word cougar immensely because in these afore mentioned situations the women were NOT the aggressor as the term cougar implies. While I agree some women do go after boy toys. These young men are relentless.

Age has nothing to do with it....it depends on ur position in life and personality. As long as ur on the same page in life regarding career, children, wants, desires, goals...it can work very well. Are u young at heart? Do u still like spontaneity and adventure? So it really boils down to that if the relationship works or not....not how big the age gap is.

My personal experience...older men bore me, younger men always tell me that young girls are promiscuous, play games, do not know what they want. Granted I look much younger than my age but it's all about how u feel. JUST my experience!

To each their own but the least of Dani & Mo's problems is their age difference.

You are my new favorite person on here. Basically yep. I wouldn't qualify as a "cougar" in any sense (not "old enough" apparently, whatever that means) and not really the perusing type ever. This all just kind of...happened. We line up very well on the big life issues (goals, plans, kids etc)...some areas are a perfect click, and some there's some differences to work out (not major and none are deal-breakers for either of us, but it would be nice to get on the same page before taking any big steps....all in time).

And a big plus for any younger person (particularly someone in their early/mid 20s) dating any older person (gender really doesn't matter much here), is that the older person usually has their stuff figured out a LOT better than the younger person's peers. And some younger people are just ready to stop it with the games and drama that can often come with dating in your 20s and go for someone with a plan. I always dated older--always! Not on purpose but that's just who made sense to me. Until now, where I find someone who gives me that same sense of shared purpose and goal, and lack of drama but in a much stronger relationship. Yay!

[LionessDeon 2,060]

You are my new favorite person on here. Basically yep. I wouldn't qualify as a "cougar" in any sense (not "old enough" apparently, whatever that means) and not really the perusing type ever. This all just kind of...happened. We line up very well on the big life issues (goals, plans, kids etc)...some areas are a perfect click, and some there's some differences to work out (not major and none are deal-breakers for either of us, but it would be nice to get on the same page before taking any big steps....all in time).

And a big plus for any younger person (particularly someone in their early/mid 20s) dating any older person (gender really doesn't matter much here), is that the older person usually has their stuff figured out a LOT better than the younger person's peers. And some younger people are just ready to stop it with the games and drama that can often come with dating in your 20s and go for someone with a plan. I always dated older--always! Not on purpose but that's just who made sense to me. Until now, where I find someone who gives me that same sense of shared purpose and goal, and lack of drama but in a much stronger relationship. Yay!

Haha! Well thank you! Totally agree with your comments!

And why is it the name for younger men/ older women is (in my opinion) a derogatory predator term "cougar". I am no predator. I WANTED to find someone close to my age. The term for older men/younger women is "a May/December Romance". Really??!! How sweet. (Eye Roll). Tell me those women aren't "predators" ever.

[marriedimorocco 8]

. . .

What 26 yr old from any country would be attracted to a 41 yr old mother of 4 and grandmother already.

My husband. I'm 21 years older than he is and I have 5 grown kids. We met when he was 27. We've been together for almost 14 years, but, unlike Dani, I have my sh!t together.

Yes, things have changed. Please try to keep up.

Edited December 10, 2014 by marriedimorocco

[LionessDeon 2,060]

My husband. I'm 21 years older than he is and I have 5 grown kids. We met when he was 27. We've been together for almost 14 years, but, unlike Dani, I have my sh!t together.

Yes, things have changed. Please try to keep up.

Love it! Exactly!

[UK_Fan 192]

My husband. I'm 21 years older than he is and I have 5 grown kids. We met when he was 27. We've been together for almost 14 years, but, unlike Dani, I have my sh!t together.

Yes, things have changed. Please try to keep up.

i bet you don't look like DANI either though...

[marriedimorocco 8]

i bet you don't look like DANI either though...

She looks older than she is. I'm just the opposite I never understood women who let themselves go. You would think that if she was going to steal credit cards, she could use one or two to buy some decent clothes, join a gym and get a makeover. I'd also recommend lips.

Edited December 10, 2014 by marriedimorocco

[Boiler 43,438]

Dani is no cougar.

She comes across as sad and desperate.

He seems to be a manipulator.

[marriedimorocco 8]

Dani is no cougar.

She comes across as sad and desperate.

He seems to be a manipulator.

Whatever Mohamed is, he's having a good time in NYC.

[Tina and Johan 206]

To Cassia (who trolls this thread, screen shots posts, and puts them on her FB): I sincerely hope that you are in a legit relationship and are happier than it appears on the show. I also really hope that there will come a time when you are able to talk about the real story, and explain just how on earth your relationship works!!

[Boiler 43,438]

Link?

[User007 93]

To Cassia!

I hope u will stop use the eyeliner like u are a cheap version of cleopatra.

Edited December 10, 2014 by Mrs_Lyds

[Tina and Johan 206]

Link?

https://www.facebook.com/caahtaavaress?fref=ts

[UK_Fan 192]

with.... all this ####### is going straight to their heads... once the season is over, none is gonna care about these WASH UPS! Screen shot that, Cassia!

[Boiler 43,438]

Never screen shot my posts....