Darnell

I don't think you're being fair here. Although I agree with what you say, it does not apply to my situation. Why? For starters, I did not, out of nowhere, decide to install that software to see what she does because I am somehow sick....
Put yourself in my shoes, you're wife or husband has been in contact with someone that was a client, in her/his days as a stripper, and that client also happened to had proposed to your wife or husband, which I forgot to mention in my first post, so you know they had an intimate relationship in the past and were engaged. After you get married, you find out your spouse is still in contact with this person so you ask your spouse to stop and respect the marriage. You obviously know they are in contact since that person is in your spouse's main Facebook account in their friends list and messenger. Spouse apologizes and supposedly removes the person. You find out, not a second, but third time it is still going on, and spouse plays the victim card and denies it all and keeps lying to you. You can't take it anymore knowing your spouse will just lie, so what do you do?
That guy was engaged with my wife in the past, but he had to leave the country because they offered him a job in another country. He kept coming back to my wife's country only to sleep with her and give her false promises of staying with her, and my wife also had other boyfriends while they were supposedly engaged and had a long distance relation. Weird, huh?.. So how do I know all this? I made my wife tell me because the guy kept calling my wife even while we were dating before getting married. My wife said she told him to stop calling, but I’m sure she lied to me and lead the guy on. My wife said she liked this guy but she got tired of waiting for him to permanently stay with her, so she started dating others and met me.
Everything was good for a year or so, then she started to use facebook and I noticed she had many guys who she knew from the striptease days. That is when I drew the line and told her that she was married and that it was inappropriate and to remove them. She kept lying to me at the same time being a hypocrite and accusing me of cheating and checking out other women. I had a feeling she had other accounts so I installed that in her laptop before our vacation to her country. I find out about the nasty names they call each other and their plan to meet behind my back. So I leave in disgust and she apologizes and promises never to do it again and that she didn’t meet the guy , and being who I am I make myself believe that she is telling the truth and we make up. Just last week I discovered that she made two other secret accounts, without the need of that software. She was stupid enough to use her daughter’s father last name and add the same guys as friends.
The mains reasons I am considering helping her is because of my son and the guilt I know I would feel if something happened to her mother because I left her in that country. She has no money, career, or future, She has already said multiple times that she would return to stripping if we ever got separated. To be honest I also feel lonely after so much time spent with her, but I don’t want to make another mistake.
Trust me I am not the one causing all of this or preventing this from being a healthy family. I have already taken her to therapy because of other issues she has with control, jealousy and issues about her past growing up. She took it as a joke and never attempted to go back after she went for a few weeks.
Right now I still don’t know what to do since I got myself into this mess, but I want what is best for my son, which I don’t know what is at this point. I am all for getting custody but I feel depressed when I imagine my son growing up without her mother, which I will admit she is caring, irresponsible, but caring. And knowing how stubborn and close minded she is I will have issues getting along with her if we separate.
Here are my options:
1. Confront her on what I just discovered and ask for a divorce.
2. Help her out and believe that she has not cheated and give it another shot, knowing the high risk
And by the way I did not use the keylogger in the US, used it in her country and to my knowledge it is legit in divorce cases in that country

It can take up to a year to receive the green card 
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/639974-i-90-form-potomac-service-center/
 
Your friend will need a copy of her green card (front and back) for ROC (I-751) later on.
 
To get a temporary I-551 stamp (served as green card) from local USCIS (infopass appointment), she also needs a unexpired passport.

She can file for new passport and new green card (form I-90). Of course, these will cost her filing fees.
 
Otherwise, she can only hope that police helps her to retrieve them back.

Do you have a green card or are you still in the AOS process?

You'll probably also want to look into CRBA procedures for after the baby is born.

1) Yes, although it's her form, so you cannot withdraw it, only she can. It will eventually be denied if you do nothing, but it's "cleaner" to officially withdraw it before then when you know it cannot be approved.
 
2) No. The visa was already used (it'a single-entry visa, and she entered already).
 
3) You can, but it won't change anything.
 
Pursuing a CR-1 is now your only option.

IMO, it's way overdue for 'no contact'.  Still, it's a great thing yer getting different domicile, regardless of the hassle of moving and sourcing utils, packing and unpacking. 
 
JUST SIMPLY WORTH IT.  Be Busy, yo ! 

wow! i just got my EAD card today! didn't expect so fast! 

OMG!! you won't believe this. i literally just went to my mail box and found i got the I797 saying they approved my EAD and Travel documents and they will send them in a separate mail!!! You are my luck star!!
 

IMO, it's way overdue for 'no contact'.  Still, it's a great thing yer getting different domicile, regardless of the hassle of moving and sourcing utils, packing and unpacking. 
 
JUST SIMPLY WORTH IT.  Be Busy, yo ! 

Maybe beats the alternative?  Every time I stand up I feel like a baby is trying to fall out of my lady bits.

Man if I was hillbilly, I'd want my money back. Misrepresentation!

Next. Speed traps...
 
1- lidar, radar...are not accurate around curves. Police are reluctant to clock on a curve. 
 
2- they won't clock uphill. They can't accelerate to chase you. 
 
3- they can't clock from a plane. It's not accurate or practical. 
 
4- they must have a direct sight of you, eyesight and radar = cannot see if there's other cars blocking. 
 
5- if there's more than 1 car in a row all speeding, they can only clock the front car. 
 
6- don't freak and slam on the brakes!
 
7- don't ask for a break if you get stopped. You already got a break, they don't usually stop you unless you're well over the limit. Your break, was between 65-75. And you got stopped doing 80. 
 
8- use other cars to shield your car. 
 
9- highway cops are less likely to cut you a break. 
 
10- the time to be careful is straight level roadways, and crestng over a hill. Clear and dry weather. 

Offer accepted. We close the second week in December. 

hooray fallopian chat !   @Dianalorena

You ungrateful poutine gobbling canuck...
You will cherish the roof that the hillbilly put over your head!

So, today, I had to interview 2 applicants and had to meet someone...
I went in, cancelled the 2 interviews, and went to have lunch appointment, went home to butcher deer 
I know I know...That's not very nice of me right?
I do feel bad. But it was 60 degrees, and we're expecting rain. The deer can't wait...

http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2017/12/04/supreme-court-permits-full-enforcement-trump-travel-ban.html

It will wait until the visa number is available, always a bit of a guess but  say c 2025.

Here is the up-to-date link - http://www.china-embassy.org/eng/ywzn/lsyw/vpna/t907716.htm
 
You WILL want the certified copy, as it will be required in many situations. A Chinese translation of the marriage certificate will ALSO be useful.
 

In order to get married in China, you would need a "single certificate" - a certified statement that you are NOT married. In your case, you ARE already married. Forget it.
 
the marriage certificate will need to be certified by the Secretary of State in Nevada, and sent to the Chinese consulate for Nevada for certification there.
 
To authenticate your marriage certificate for use in China (the link may be out of date, but the quote from it is not)
 
Notarization/Authentication Guidelines
 
 
 
Note that this MAY NOT BE NECESSARY, if a Chinese-language translation of the document is accepted.
 
One other thing is that the Chinese consulate will expect a "fresh" copy (less than six months old) of the marriage certificate.
 

Hello everyone
My scammer husband posted earlier about me attacking me.. I was defending myself. He was upset because I am not applying for me to stay here. I have found out that he is gay. As well as he had several Facebook accounts. . Once I told him I will not sign papers for him to stay.. he joined several online sites..example a cougar dating site.. looking to scam another older woman. He calls me names everyday.. he threatens me if he doesn't get his way. He laughed about scamming the embassy as well.  This is a sick person. 

Come on man, go with her to the AOS and as soon you get there and sworn then tell the IO that you want to withdraw the I-864 and in front of her tell the truth to the Immigration Officer, not even a  VAWA petition, later on, will be approved!

back @ post #1 - assumptions: 
1.  uscitizen learns of the sham
 
entry points for stoppage (to the best of my knowledge) via letter writing:
1.  before I-130 approval, USCitizen can withdraw the I-130
2.  at NVC during NVC Processing - USCitizen writes a letter asking the approval on the I-130 be revoked, citing sham marriage.  Clearly state the I-864 will never be filled out and signed by the USCitizen. 
3.  At the IV Unit at the Embassy, prior to Interview day - the USCitizen withdraws the I-864  with the IV Unit . 
 
if there are other permutations back at my assumption section, well, too bad.    Anything else but the USCitizen ? Falls under 'third-part-correspondence' and 'hearsay' and is really not evidentiary bits to stop the process.  Well, unless and until it is.  Location matters, aye? If'n it's a high-fraud consulate/embassy location, there may be extra scrutiny anyway and if there are fraud indicators in the casefile, there is more work done at the IV Unit (which I won't write about here). 
 
 

library-science classes has all the geeky-cool womens... just saying.