Alenx

You are advising her to stay with him to collect more evidence and backstab him afterwards to get alimony and child support?  I'm sorry it is your personal experience that most men cheat (why is that?), but hearing stories like this, I think cheating to end the relationship might be the better way out, comparably LOL

Nice, trying to basically cancel someone's entire life for retaliatory reasons. I'm kind of glad his GC is for 10 years and you won't succeed. My advice is you get a grip. Generally speaking, cheating on a partner doesn't mean the relationship is not bona fide. and that's all the Immigration services care about. Withholding his GC from him would be way too much in my opinion (and it's also not for you to decide on the outcome of his interactions with the USCIS). It would also be ineffectual, because his status is independent from a piece of plastic.
 
If the relationship is broken, is it possible it is not only his fault?

Nice, trying to basically cancel someone's entire life for retaliatory reasons. I'm kind of glad his GC is for 10 years and you won't succeed. My advice is you get a grip. Generally speaking, cheating on a partner doesn't mean the relationship is not bona fide. and that's all the Immigration services care about. Withholding his GC from him would be way too much in my opinion (and it's also not for you to decide on the outcome of his interactions with the USCIS). It would also be ineffectual, because his status is independent from a piece of plastic.
 
If the relationship is broken, is it possible it is not only his fault?

I am so sorry you're having trouble delivering the punishment you want him to endure. You have my deepest sympathy. Visajourney will certainly point out proper ways for you to take revenge, if they exist legally.

It's also very possible that he just doesn't love you. And never has. But aside from such speculation, you won't get anywhere without proper evidence of immigration fraud. I think that could jeopardize him. Having sex with other women outside the US is not such evidence however, I think. Or, if you think he is prone to felony, he might get himself in trouble and you can then report him to authorities if you want. Felony convictions can mess up a Green Card holder. 
 
Anyways, good luck with your relationship! 

I am so sorry you're having trouble delivering the punishment you want him to endure. You have my deepest sympathy. Visajourney will certainly point out proper ways for you to take revenge, if they exist legally.

Did you also have such a firm surveillance on him when he was still outside the US?

I am so sorry you're having trouble delivering the punishment you want him to endure. You have my deepest sympathy. Visajourney will certainly point out proper ways for you to take revenge, if they exist legally.

She is asking for advice to have his immigration benefits cancelled and wants to physically keep him from getting his GC (criminal act). OP doesn't ask for constructive advice relating to her or husband's immigration but for destructive advice. That's not even what this message board is for. Cheating in marriage is not immigration fraud and the law won't bend to her whims.
 
VisaJourney is not your personal army to get info on how to make someone else's immigration harder. OP can file for divorce. Duh.

Nice, trying to basically cancel someone's entire life for retaliatory reasons. I'm kind of glad his GC is for 10 years and you won't succeed. My advice is you get a grip. Generally speaking, cheating on a partner doesn't mean the relationship is not bona fide. and that's all the Immigration services care about. Withholding his GC from him would be way too much in my opinion (and it's also not for you to decide on the outcome of his interactions with the USCIS). It would also be ineffectual, because his status is independent from a piece of plastic.
 
If the relationship is broken, is it possible it is not only his fault?

That is pretty common,  and usually pointless.

All we know for certain is that he holds an unrestricted Green Card, anything else is speculation.

I am so sorry you're having trouble delivering the punishment you want him to endure. You have my deepest sympathy. Visajourney will certainly point out proper ways for you to take revenge, if they exist legally.

So beating a woman is ok? I think not. Getting into the usa is a privilege that should be honored and respected. The laws should be changed.

Hostile nature????  By saying " I hope you can find happiness for yourself.  Life is too short to be miserable.  Good luck."   Really???  OK.   By the way, some lawyers are just ignorant to immigration matters....
 

I don’t know who you are, or why you were asking me these bizarre questions. If you want to know the steps on how to remove yourself as a financial sponsor, I suggest you contact an attorney like I did. No, he did not tell me to create a situation, nor do I believe that a lawyer who gave me free advice is lying to me to get money. I received your private message and do not want to talk with you because of your hostile nature. Please leave me alone.I received your private message and do not want to talk with you because of your hostile nature. Please leave me alone.

I have read all of the responses that people have written, and I think you all for each and everyone.
 
I know that financial sponsorship is a legally binding a contract with the federal government, and I disagree with every single one of you who said that I cannot remove myself as his financial sponsor.
 
while I appreciate all of your opinions, I have contacted an attorney. And he has given me the correct steps to follow to protect myself financially.
 
It is very heartbreaking to have to do this with someone who I fought so hard to come be with me in America, but without him here with me, I don’t know what his intentions are and have to protect myself.

Sorry op, he's getting a 10 year green card and nothing you can do about it. Plus the green card is his personal property so you can't hold on to it. To add insult to injury, even if you divorce him you are still responsible for his affidavit of support sponsorship and any financial woes in incurs with the government. Unless at some point he is no longer a greencard holder. 
As others have said, just divorce and move on. Though you'll still be responsible for his financial sponsorship. All the best.

She is asking for advice to have his immigration benefits cancelled and wants to physically keep him from getting his GC (criminal act). OP doesn't ask for constructive advice relating to her or husband's immigration but for destructive advice. That's not even what this message board is for. Cheating in marriage is not immigration fraud and the law won't bend to her whims.
 
VisaJourney is not your personal army to get info on how to make someone else's immigration harder. OP can file for divorce. Duh.

Maybe you should give the guy a break.  Its not easy being separated from your wife.  I'm not saying thats an excuse, and personally I wouldn't .. but men DO.  Its just a fact of life.
The damage is done.  He can get a job and pay his fair share of the expenses, the real damage has possibly already been done and you have little more to lose than you potentially 
already have if you give it a little more time.  If I were absolutely convinced it was marriage fraud, I would crucify someone over it.  Legal action, report to USCIS with all the evidence,
try to get deported, etc. But this isn't necessarily that.  He just married a stalker and she caught him.  My wife was a stalker too, and I appreciated it.  Meant she cared.  We were 100%
open with each other.  Unhid friends etc, theres a way to do that.

Hello,
 
This is a sensitive topic, and one I’m glad to see on VJ.
 
I do NOT believe that the OP is trying to cancel his whole entire life for retaliatory reasons. She is trying to find out her rights and get advice from other people going through the immigration system. Also, he has only been in the US for 2 months, so his entire life is really in his home country.
 
Maybe his entire life PLAN is going to be canceled. If so, it is not because of her, it’s  because he is trying to use her for US immigration benefits. However, if he did not earn immigration legally, he is who possibly ruined (canceled) his own plans.
 
OP is a woman who has been cheated on and violated because someone possibly used her to break US federal immigration law, and it would be devastating, especially after all the time apart, to know that he was not waiting for her, he was waiting to enter the US. It’s not only devastating for that reason, but also because he was pretending to love her enough to get married while having a secret second life. Marriage is typically a lifetime decision, not an “until I enter the US” decision.
 
In my opinion, US immigration is a more difficult and lengthy process for legitimate people because of illegitimate people who think that they are entitled to come to the US any way possible, even through marriage fraud and scams.

Nice, trying to basically cancel someone's entire life for retaliatory reasons. I'm kind of glad his GC is for 10 years and you won't succeed. My advice is you get a grip. Generally speaking, cheating on a partner doesn't mean the relationship is not bona fide. and that's all the Immigration services care about. Withholding his GC from him would be way too much in my opinion (and it's also not for you to decide on the outcome of his interactions with the USCIS). It would also be ineffectual, because his status is independent from a piece of plastic.
 
If the relationship is broken, is it possible it is not only his fault?

Nice, trying to basically cancel someone's entire life for retaliatory reasons. I'm kind of glad his GC is for 10 years and you won't succeed. My advice is you get a grip. Generally speaking, cheating on a partner doesn't mean the relationship is not bona fide. and that's all the Immigration services care about. Withholding his GC from him would be way too much in my opinion (and it's also not for you to decide on the outcome of his interactions with the USCIS). It would also be ineffectual, because his status is independent from a piece of plastic.
 
If the relationship is broken, is it possible it is not only his fault?

You guys married October 2018. He ENTERED the USA with his immigrant visa on April 2021. So at the time of his entry, your marriage to him was more than 2 years old and that makes a LPR, not a conditional resident. His GC will be valid for 10 years and there is nothing you can really do about his immigration status anymore. The dating site stuff is evidence of infidelity and that is not the same as immigration fraud. USCIS generally investigates on their own terms, not ours. They get lots of phone calls from angry ex-spouses all the time about "fraud" but fraud in the legal sense requires specific kinds of evidence to be accepted in court. For immigration fraud, the accepted evidence and definitions are even more specific and narrow. Withholding his GC is also a bad idea as that is a crime. It's not your property, first off. Second, it's official federal-government-issued documentation so the punishment for withholding something like that is even worse than keeping a random belonging that simply isn't yours. My advice is to file for divorce and move on. 

LPR, no conditions.