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He sounds like the kind of immigrant we want in this country. Works hard, is financially prudent, and seems to care about his family and friends.

You think money drops from the sky, or pluck from your trees in your backyard?
Your spouse is being financially prudent to save money for rainy days.
It is very tough to survive on 1 salary alone for a family in US.
Any sane person will change given the stress level to work so many hours weekly to stay afloat.
He is not a piece of good that you can just return and ship back if you don't like it anymore.
Put on your big girl panties, seek help for your illness and work on your marriage.

Or maybe he's being logical and planning ahead. If you suffer from anxiety and depression you need to get help not just abandon your family life because the two clearly don't mix. Have you thought your husband might also be working so much because he also doesn't know how to cope with or manage your anxiety and depression either?
EDIT: Why should he 'go back'? He's built a life here the past three years. Sounds like you're the one who's changed.

Oh wow how entitled are you?! The man works his fingers to the bone and because you don't like how he's supporting his family you not only threw divorce in his face you want him shipped away from where he's clearly worked hard to build a life.
You can't have him deported and hopefully he moves on without you.

Are a you a troll?
Your spouse is working his ### off to pay the bills yet you are complaining.
So why can't you work as well since you like to have money always to buy new things for yourself and your daughter?
He is not your slave at your beck and call.

actually polygamy is illegal in Tunisia. It is the only arab country where this is illegal.

Dude I would honestly get the hell out of that right now. If you are caught doing that, you could face time in prison.
Just tell her its off and cut your losses. Or go to prison and start a business with a guy named Brick,+

On another ANGRIER note. Its because of people like you doing like this that honest, real couples who are in love (aka me and my husband) have had to live in near poverty because the government makes such tight guidelines.
so eff you.

Okay you want a real answer. Here it is:
There is a government agency that can help you! Since you are very tired, here is their email address Immigration.Reply@dhs.gov Just email them your name, your co-sponsors name, SSN, and tell them about the problem and I'm sure they will be happy to assist you.
Good luck to you.

lazy to apply? are you serious? even though im 100% sure that you're a troll, how dare you sit here and act so entitled to something that you haven't even contributed to?
nobody made you get knocked up and nobody made you move here either. when it said that US is the land of the "free', it didn't mean "free stuff".
shame on you, you're disgusting.

people are giving you real answers, you are just choosing to ignore them because they're not the answer you want to hear. The answer is that if you are on welfare you should not be. The point of having a sponsor is to assure you will not go on welfare upon arrival to the US. Apparently your visa should never have been granted in the first place.
The united states is a hard working country and it's ridiculous that you feel that the fact that you live here now means you can live off of government assistance and never work again.

I hope you are having fun spending my money
I will work 60+ hours a week so you won't get tired

Who is on welfare? Your family or you. You are not supposed to be on welfare or receive beneftis because whomever sponsored you with I-864 is responsibile for any means tested government programs. If your family receives the benefits, you are to be excluded. The federal government will sue whomever your sponsor is for repayment of benefits that you received.
Also, you are able bodied and can get out and go to work. Just because you live in America now, does not mean you cannot work. I think that it is sad that you feel that this is the way of life. How can you live on welfare and in section 8 housing, and think that it is OK, cause you are tired. Everyone gets tired from work daily.
If you lied on your paperwork to obtain these benefits, then it is fraud and you will be under the prosecution under that law.
Also, you are not eligible for a fee waiver on means tested benefits, you are not entitled to. Are you still married?

I guess I find this to be insensitive. We all miss our significant others, and I don't think there's a single one of us who wouldn't snap our fingers in a second to bring them over if we could. I didn't get that the O.P. thought he was deserving of different, more prioritized service than anyone else. He's clearly someone who doesn't fully understand the system yet, and is here to get education and answers from a supportive community. Let's try to be that community.

Well said Billious. People are too harsh in these forums. Kudos to those who have the answers but if you can't share them without being judgy, than don't.

She doesn't have a VAWA case, there is no abuse. I wish people would stop suggesting VAWA when it clearly doesn't apply.

My Fiance is from Tunisia and it took 11 days from them to receive it and then I emailed them and a week later they emailed me the packet 3

FINALLY AFTER ALMOST 9 MONTHS AND 1 RFE WE RECEIVED AN EMAIL AT 11:15PM STATING THAT OUR APPLICATION IS APPROVED IM SO HAPPY I WANNA CRY ....

One post violating the Terms of Service for Visa Journey has been removed and one post quoting the removed post has been edited. Regardless of how frustrating you find something, you do not have the right to attack or insult another member of Visa Journey. If you cannot post in a courteous and constructive manner, then do not participate in the thread at all..

Hold on, first off the hearing officer only asked how things were going. I said fine. So shoot me! I didn't profess a list of wonderful events or claim she was an angel. I was asked how things were and I said fine. The rest of the hearing was about standard questions like criminal history, nothing was asked about the relationship. I thought we might be discussing our counseling but that was never discussed. So I didn't go in and say anything about the marriage being good. I just showed we got married, shared a bank account and lived together. All true at the time. What did I say wrong?
As far as my daughter goes, we talked about the problems since it first began. My daughter wanted to try to make this work. I offered her the ability to go to a friends house any time she wanted too. She chose to stay with her step mom hoping things would get better. They just never did. I do care for my daughter. She and I have a very close relationship and she knows if she has a problem I will fix it. She had a list of friends ready to take her in while I was away. it was her choice to stay and try to make it work.
Some of you talk as if I saved a rapist or child molester. All I did was go to a hearing I was asked to attend by the government. No, I didn't go out of my way and say..."she is a ######!" Is this what some of you believe I should have done? If I was going to do that, then why bother going at all. I should have just kept working. I was told by a USCIS phone rep that in order to qualify for the exemption to staying married, my wife will have to show evidence of abuse. How true that is I don't know.
I really had just hoped for some insight from others who had something similar. I don't need a lecture about how to interact with women or hear what a bad father I am. I know I'm a good father. I'm sure if I was to see each one of you in your relationships I could point out some serious illogical behavior. We don't need to insult each other about how we react with women (or men for the ladies). It's a well known fact that some of the stupidest decisions are made when it involves love. Why else would we spend thousands on a ring, spend countless hours in the mall and watch movies about love instead of a good football game. Seriously, we all have probably done it. If you say you haven't, I think you are a liar!
I gladly welcome anyone's response if it is to offer advice or experience. Please keep your lectures to yourself. I do take care of my daughter and she was never in danger.
Thank you for your replies.

he was trying to correct someone who used the expression " train of thought" by saying saying the correct word should have been trend . A"train of thought" is the more commonly used phrase and very correct too.

How does the post quoted show success in art/science? What does this have to do with legally becoming a resident in the US? Do you think ICE only deports average Joes?
Asylum from France due to fear from a few Semitic killings?
Sir put down the kush and step away from the computer for a while. Then come again with a bit more rational thinking.

If you don't like how the OP posted, just don't say anything and move on. Criticizing them won't make them less upset (if that was your goal). Show tact and move along or look past the bad words and give some support. No one is forcing you to read this thread.

I don't usually get involved in others disputes or posts in this site. I come to get information to help me get my spouse into the country doing things the right way and without stupid errors that could make this transition longer. There is a new poster in this site, who has started a few very skeptical and obvious issues that would point towards someone who is asking far out questions to get answers to beat the immigration system. Working on using situations to pull heart strings to make people feel bad to help with ways to get around immigration and while you are using your best intentions, you are unintentionally helping that person to be fraudulent with immigration. I was banned from one of the posts for stating the obvious, I was called a troll and stupid, when I stated it was indeed the opposite I was the one removed ???
I could sit back and just let that person repeating turn out "hot" posts without responding but while I'm in this process I can't overlook the fact that this process takes this long because of people like this who ruin it for the rest of us. Just please , please , please don't get sucked into this person like I myself did!!
Let's pull together and if you go into the posts recently added by this vjer you will see that every advice is turned down in order to gather more information so that they can do things fraudulently. STOP helping!!!

That has to be the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Without AOSing you cannot get a job, drive, open a bank account, you cannot travel out of the US. Your husband is holding your future hostage. Every marriage on Earth runs the risk of divorce.

Hang in there my NOA1 is July 9 at Vermont and Im still waiting our time will come... I thought about calling but they will only tell us we are still in normal processing time seeing the website says June 4.... Patience is the key i guess...good luck