Visa cancelled

[Happykid 6]

Just now, missileman said:

Maybe he could relocate to your country?

We live in nyc and our life and our friends are over there. Plus it’d be hard for him to work in his field here. 

[jakelake 222]

2 minutes ago, missileman said:

In my opinion, the Removal of Conditions should be eliminated.........my wishful thinking...LOL

I think so too.

It's like an extra expense for the I-751 filing, especially if person intends on filing for naturalization immediately after. 

I'm sure that some will time it so that spouse enters US at 2 years inorder to immediately get 10-year green card.

[The_Empyrean 733]

45 minutes ago, jakelake said:

 

CR1 does have removal of conditions if married for less than 2 years when entering the US. That is why I-751 needs to be filed.

 

 

40 minutes ago, missileman said:

As does the K-1 if married for less than 2 years when Green Card is approved.

Right, sorry. Somehow forgot that part. lol

 

I like the idea of the conditions, but with all the waivers available its pretty much waste of our money lol

[SusieQQQ 11,585]

1 hour ago, Happykid said:

Yes we were planning it, just wanted to wait a few more months and then this happened.

we truly love each other and my heart is broken right now. I do not have any special love for the United States. I make more money in my own country and have a better life here. I just fell in love with him that’s all.

 

You just indirectly confessed to the charge you lost the visa for, there. 
anyway, that's water under the bridge. Using a student visa as a means to staying with someone is fine as long as you adhere to the conditions of the visa, you didn’t and now it’s time to move on. If it was just a matter of a few months, then it doesn’t look like this has upset the apple cart too much.

[Happykid 6]

Just now, SusieQQQ said:

You just indirectly confessed to the charge you lost the visa for, there. 
anyway, that's water under the bridge. Using a student visa as a means to staying with someone is fine as long as you adhere to the conditions of the visa, you didn’t and now it’s time to move on. If it was just a matter of a few months, then it doesn’t look like this has upset the apple cart too much.

Damn you could also be kind and empathetic. People do what they can to survive... and as I said I came here because I needed solutions for the FUTURE, what happened in the past doesn’t matter anymore so no need to keep telling me what I’ve done is wrong. I know. 

[AtlToBlr 64]

2 hours ago, The_Empyrean said:

You cannot work on Student visa, regardless of your circumstances

Last I was on a student visa, you could work upto 20 hours per week on campus. Have the rules have changed since then? 

[Happykid 6]

Just now, AtlToBlr said:

Last I was on a student visa, you could work upto 20 hours per week on campus. Have the rules have changed since then? 

Nope you can still do that ! 

[AtlToBlr 64]

Just now, Happykid said:

Nope you can still do that ! 

Yeah I thought so. People should think a little deeper before making sweeping remarks lol

[SusieQQQ 11,585]

19 minutes ago, Happykid said:

Damn you could also be kind and empathetic. People do what they can to survive... and as I said I came here because I needed solutions for the FUTURE, what happened in the past doesn’t matter anymore so no need to keep telling me what I’ve done is wrong. I know. 

You also need to understand that the more people abuse student visas, the harder it is for future genuine applicants to get them. It’s not all about you. 

[Happykid 6]

10 minutes ago, SusieQQQ said:

You also need to understand that the more people abuse student visas, the harder it is for future genuine applicants to get them. It’s not all about you. 

It was never my intention to go there and work on that visa. I was a genuine student too and would have never stayed that long if hadn’t met my bf. 

[Lil bear 3,845]

2 minutes ago, Happykid said:

It was never my intention to go there and work on that visa. I was a genuine student too and would have never stayed that long if hadn’t met my bf. 

unfortunately,  intention is not the measure .. it is actions .. hard lesson to learn but none the less consistent with the rules you accepted. 

[The_Empyrean 733]

1 hour ago, Happykid said:

Damn you could also be kind and empathetic. People do what they can to survive... and as I said I came here because I needed solutions for the FUTURE, what happened in the past doesn’t matter anymore so no need to keep telling me what I’ve done is wrong. I know. 

This is an immigration forum, not broken hearts club, remember this. We're here to help you with immigration side, and explain you stuff that we know.

 

Not always our points come out as nice, actually, most of the time than not, it will sound rude. Cause breaking rules is never nice, regardless of wrong or right.

We're here not to judge you, but to give you advice based on your given information, and offer a possible way out. We look at the cases from the eyes of the officers.

 

Not sure which one would you prefer? Saying that the officer who turned you is bad and give no legit good information with it and just tell what you want to hear, or tell the truth. 

 

No one here is being personal with you. If your past or future has nothing to do with the current situation. Your main focus of being in US shifted from studying to your partner, therefore you're on the wrong visa. You admitted here that you stayed here longer to study, because you love your Boyfriend. They didn't let you in, because you wanted to use Student Visa, to stay with your boyfriend (might not be literally to stay with him), not primarily to study, hence the turnaround. 

[Happykid 6]

5 minutes ago, The_Empyrean said:

This is an immigration forum, not broken hearts club, remember this. We're here to help you with immigration side, and explain you stuff that we know.

 

Not always our points come out as nice, actually, most of the time than not, it will sound rude. Cause breaking rules is never nice, regardless of wrong or right.

We're here not to judge you, but to give you advice based on your given information, and offer a possible way out. We look at the cases from the eyes of the officers.

 

Not sure which one would you prefer? Saying that the officer who turned you is bad and give no legit good information with it and just tell what you want to hear, or tell the truth. 

 

No one here is being personal with you. If your past or future has nothing to do with the current situation. Your main focus of being in US shifted from studying to your partner, therefore you're on the wrong visa. You admitted here that you stayed here longer to study, because you love your Boyfriend. They didn't let you in, because you wanted to use Student Visa, to stay with your boyfriend (might not be literally to stay with him), not primarily to study, hence the turnaround. 

And I appreciate that because I got answers and that’s all I needed. Thank you all. 

[geowrian 22,336]

1 hour ago, Happykid said:

Damn you could also be kind and empathetic. People do what they can to survive... and as I said I came here because I needed solutions for the FUTURE, what happened in the past doesn’t matter anymore so no need to keep telling me what I’ve done is wrong. I know. 

I think the issue is the way you presented it. You originally said (underlining is my emphasis):

"They harassed me with questions, searched my phone, only found out I had a boyfriend. The officer eventually made me say I was doing a little job on the side without finding any evidence just by pushing me to say something like that."

 

This implies you had some level of innocence and they were out to get you for something you didn't do. Now it turns out you were actually working and knowingly doing so without authorization ("People do what they can to survive" and "no need to keep telling me what I’ve done is wrong. I know. "). Had you come into the conversation just admitting to the unauthorized work and getting caught, I believe there would be less focus on that part and more on the next steps.

 

I think you will find that people are more sympathetic and empathetic when you are upfront with them.

[Happykid 6]

2 minutes ago, geowrian said:

I think the issue is the way you presented it. You originally said (underlining is my emphasis):

"They harassed me with questions, searched my phone, only found out I had a boyfriend. The officer eventually made me say I was doing a little job on the side without finding any evidence just by pushing me to say something like that."

 

This implies you had some level of innocence and they were out to get you for something you didn't do. Now it turns out you were actually working and knowingly doing so without authorization ("People do what they can to survive" and "no need to keep telling me what I’ve done is wrong. I know. "). Had you come into the conversation just admitting to the unauthorized work and getting caught, I believe there would be less focus on that part and more on the next steps.

 

I think you will find that people are more sympathetic and empathetic when you are upfront with them.

You are right. I think I’m still in denial and not fully accepting my current situation...