How personal is too personal to use as evidence?

[Dianalorena 1,153]

I always joke with my husband that we should send some steamy facetime sessions to see if they believe us. I can imagine an older white, Christian lady at NVC being the one that reviews the file, hah. 

You could curate a small compilation of some conversations, a few pictures from different events/with different people would suffice. You're not from a high fraud country which you have to your advantage. 

I'm also sure they don't have time to read every single thing people send, imagine that. We did include some sexy conversations in our iMessage logs, nothing too crazy, mostly jokes and showing our sense of humor. If it was read, I hope it made someone smile!

 

[Unlockable 7,322]

I'm quite sure in the millions upon millions of relationship evidence sent in to be reviewed every year there have been a case or two of case workers coming across a raunchy picture, message, or email. 

[NikLR 13,234]

6 hours ago, NuestraUnion said:

I remember someone posted a question on on VJ some time ago if it was OK to send pictures of him and his fiance having sex as proof of a bonafide relationship.

 

And I'm not kidding.

I remember!

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

7 hours ago, NuestraUnion said:

I remember someone posted a question on on VJ some time ago if it was OK to send pictures of him and his fiance having sex as proof of a bonafide relationship.

 

And I'm not kidding.

 

"Afterglow" shots used to be common enough to not only post on VJ, but also to provide as evidence.  Nothing says true love like sweaty topless selfies in bed.

[Lemonslice 5,237]

8 minutes ago, N-o-l-a said:

 

"Afterglow" shots used to be common enough to not only post on VJ, but also to provide as evidence.  Nothing says true love like sweaty topless selfies in bed.

 was terrible 

[ms_bobdog 501]

9 hours ago, NuestraUnion said:

I remember someone posted a question on on VJ some time ago if it was OK to send pictures of him and his fiance having sex as proof of a bonafide relationship.

 

And I'm not kidding.

My friend joked that it might be a better idea to send videos! 

[NikLR 13,234]

2 hours ago, ms_bobdog said:

My friend joked that it might be a better idea to send videos! 

That would be looked at even less! Probably to the benefit of the adjudicator.  LOL. 

[pushbrk 13,611]

3 hours ago, NikLR said:

That would be looked at even less! Probably to the benefit of the adjudicator.  LOL. 

Not meaning to throw cold water on anything here but people who are being "played" by foreigners or people playing foreigners have sex.  It is not evidence of a bona fide relationship.  It's just evidence of sex.  Anybody here ever have sex outside a serious bona fide relationship?    I thought so. 

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

1 hour ago, pushbrk said:

Not meaning to throw cold water on anything here but people who are being "played" by foreigners or people playing foreigners have sex.  It is not evidence of a bona fide relationship.  It's just evidence of sex.  Anybody here ever have sex outside a serious bona fide relationship?    I thought so. 

 

Absolutely not, sex and babies are only the result of real loooooooooooooooove.   /s