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We don't really know this woman's situation, and it's not at all uncommon for an individual's FB profile/postings not to match reality. She may well be a scammer, or a user. But I did want to comment that demanding/pressuring someone who is not interested for sex IS abusive, if that is in fact what occurred. Marriage does not equal consent, having consented in the past does not equal consent at any given moment. While there are a lot of strange things about her story, I would be hesitant to assume that means her husband is a saint.

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gregcrs2
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Sounds like a classic case of "green card girl". Sorry, but this story is pegging out my BS meter.

Harpa Timsah
Harpa Timsah

He's a plumber?!? That's so abusive! He fed her some food?!? The monster!

Georgia16
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I mean I'm very sorry for her but her being so young she might not have said what she wanted and not wanted. Like not wanting american food. Seems like more a case of misunderstanding between their

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I remember reading recently a post from a man in the Northeast who applied for a young lady from DR (K1 visa) .. married her here.. and then suddenly she was miserable. The OP said she was a shop-aholic, wouldn't work (although she supposedly worked 80 hrs/week in the DR), complained about the food, and ran off to NY to live with family.

My instincts are strongly saying these are the same women (although Texas wasn't involved in the original post from the guy ... Vermont I think).

My instincts often tell me when someone starts a conversation .. "My friend has a problem..." mm hmm "a friend" or YOU?

So if I listen to what the small voice in the back of my mind is saying... the Vermont guy's DR wife is now using VJ to find out her options.

(hey don't blame me .. everyone loves a good conspiracy story)

U said it right!! I heard it so many times, " my friend...has a problem" and 1001 times its not the friend, its the person him/herself. If her friend can be on fb than how come she cannot register here on vj? even if she speaks little englishor may be native language then google translate does wonders.You can translate anything. I have read vj's trying to help and understand people with such broken english. she is not talking about her friend....She is her!! that's it! People on vj help each other with genuine concern and this person, in name of her friend, getting ideas!

She doesn't have to leave her friend....its her :)

btw, I was born in night :rolleyes: but that was not last night :no: give me a break :content:

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Your friend needs to take this abuse very seriously. Being made to eat American food in America is a Class B felony. Plain and simple. She needs to call the police right away and have this criminal of a husband thrown in jail. I hate scumbags like him! Making women eat American food - the nerve of this guy! :ranting::protest:

 

 

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03/24/11 - Got married in the Boogie-Down Bronx, NYC!
04/21/11 - Mailed I-130,I-765, I-485, I-864 and I-693 - Day 00

04/23/11 - Application delivered - Day 02
04/28/11 - NOA (most forms) - Day 07
05/03/11 - Checks cashed - Day 12
05/31/11 - Biometrics completed in the Bronx, NYC - Day 40
06/24/11 - Received someone else's employment authorization card!!! What the...? - Day 64
07/01/11 - Mailed the poor lady's card back after calling USCIS - Day 71
07/07/11 - Received poor lady's interview notice! What??? - Day 77
07/15/11 - Received my own EAD card - Day 85
08/12/11 - Interview. Approved on the spot! - Day 113
08/18/11 - Received card in the mail - Day 119

ROC
05/28/13 - Mailed I-751 - Day 00

05/30/13 - Application delivered - Day 02

05/31/13 - NOA I-797 - Day 03
06/04/13 - Check cashed - Day 07

06/06/13 - NOA delivered to my home/Biometrics letter generated - Day 09

06/10/13 - Received Biometrics letter in the mail - Day 13

06/27/13 - Biometrics completed in Milwaukee, WI - Day 30

09/10/13 - Application approved! - Day 105

09/14/13 - 10 year Green Card received! - Day 109

Citizenship

05/10/16 - Mailed N-400 - Day 00

05/12/16 - Application delivered - Day 02

05/13/16 - Credit card payment accepted - Day 03

05/17/16 - Received text & email update - Day 07

05/20/16 - Received 1st NOA (dated 05/13/16) & created ELIS acct - Day 10

05/21/16 - Received 2nd NOA (dated 05/16/16) confirming my DOB and address - Day 11

05/22/06 - Biometrics scheduled (online update) and appt letter was mailed on 05/20/16 - Day 12

05/24/06 - Biometrics letter became viewable online (appt scheduled for 06/07/16) - Day 14

05/27/16 - Received Biometrics letter in mail - Day 17

05/31/16 - Was denied walk-in fingerprints with just 1 person left in line. Milwaukee office, boo! - Day 21

06/07/16 - Biometrics completed in Milwaukee, WI - Day 28

12/21/16 - Passed Citizenship test/Interview was successful! - Day 197

01/26/17 - I am a US citizen!!! - Day 233

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I remember reading recently a post from a man in the Northeast who applied for a young lady from DR (K1 visa) .. married her here.. and then suddenly she was miserable. The OP said she was a shop-aholic, wouldn't work (although she supposedly worked 80 hrs/week in the DR), complained about the food, and ran off to NY to live with family.

My instincts are strongly saying these are the same women (although Texas wasn't involved in the original post from the guy ... Vermont I think).

My instincts often tell me when someone starts a conversation .. "My friend has a problem..." mm hmm "a friend" or YOU?

So if I listen to what the small voice in the back of my mind is saying... the Vermont guy's DR wife is now using VJ to find out her options.

(hey don't blame me .. everyone loves a good conspiracy story)

LMAO - best reply ever! Jon&Margz - I was thinking the same thing when I read through pages 1 & 2. I think you might have spooked her and may not return at all.

ROC:

Filed: 2/22/17

VSC Received: 2/26/17

Check Cashed: 3/12/17

NOA1: 3/15/17

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LMAO - best reply ever! Jon&Margz - I was thinking the same thing when I read through pages 1 & 2. I think you might have spooked her and may not return at all.

The OP responded 4 posts after that...

My Convoluted Story (see my profile for more details)
Jun 2009 - Met on Facebook
Mar 2010 - Visited Morocco for the first time, got engaged
Dec 30, 2011 - Wedding in Morocco (5th visit)
I-130/CR-1 (first time around)
31 Aug 2012 - Priority Date (Vermont, transferred to NBC)
31 Dec 2012 - NOA2
27Jul 2013 - Broke up/Separation (while waiting for case complete at NVC)
9 Jan 2014 - Filed for divorce in US (never completed)
4 Apr 2014 - USCIS NOIR
May 2015 - Reconciliation
Nov 2015 - Vacation together in Spain (7th in-person visit with each other)
I-130/IR-1 (second time around)
4 Feb 2016 - Priority Date
19 Apr 2016 - NOA2

17 May 2016 - NVC Case Number Assigned

31 May 2016 - Sent AOS/IV package to NVC

5 Jul 2016 - NVC Case Complete

10 Aug 2016 - Medical Exam

25 Aug 2016 - Interview - APPROVED

1 Sep 2016 - Husband picked up his visa

Husband POE'd @ IAD - 5 November

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Marco&Bettina   502

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The OP responded 4 posts after that...

& directly quoted me in my same accusation. Not that that in and of itself proves anything.

ROC Timeline!

Service Center : California Service Center

NOA : 2017-09-01

Biometrics : 2017-09-28

ROC Approved : 2019-01-17

 

AOS Timeline!

Marriage : 2015-01-10

AOS/EAD/AP NOA : 2015-01-20

Biometrics : 2015-02-17

EAD/AP Approved : 2015-03-17

NPIW : 2015-06-11

AOS Approved : 2015-11-24

 

K-1 Visa Timeline!

Service Center : Texas Service Center

Transferred? No

Consulate : Frankfurt, Germany

I-129F NOA1 : 2014-03-11

I-129F NOA2 : 2014-08-12

Consulate Received : 2014-09-15

Interview Date : 2014-11-13

Interview Result : Approved

Visa Received : 2014-11-15

US Entry : 2014-12-31

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The OP's fear of letting her stay in their home is justified. She will look for every opportunity to destroy someone's life if it means she can benefit from that. Sounds like her husband and she were engaged in a case of "green card prostitution" gone wrong. What she did was criminal and if he pressured her into sex then they are both criminals. If I were OP I'd block her from all social media and protect myself from this toxic criminal.

03/04/2016 AOS (EB2-NIW concurrent with I-485) mailed to Lewisville TX Lockbox
03/07/2016 AOS delivered to USCIS and signed
03/12/2016 Case received by Nebraska Service Center (NSC)
03/14/2016 Text notification received for I-140/I-485/I-765/I-131.
04/08/2016 Biometrics notice received for 04/21
04/13/2016 Biometrics early walk-in completed.
04/15/2016 EAD/AP combo card received in mail.

 

Long wait begins...

 

11/04/2016 I-140/485 cases transferred from Nebraska to TCS
12/01/2016 Prepared package for EAD/AP renewal (expires 04/09/2017)
12/23/2016 USCIS suddenly changes several forms, invalidating my EAD/AP renewal package (not yet sent)
12/27/2016 USCIS suddenly reforms the entire NIW criteria system, replacing a 20 years old one. Uncharted waters. 
01/07/2017 (Saturday!) EAD/AP renewal package with new forms received in Phoenix "reception desk"
01/17/2017 EAD/AP renewal case accepted; text/email with receipt numbers was received
01/30/2017 Law firm finally confirms that USCIS has suspended processing all EB2-NIW cases due to new criteria. 
02/23/2017 USCIS slowly starts adjudicating NIW cases again.
04/21/2017 Extended EAD/AP received in mail. Valid for 2 years. 
05/06/2017 Received a massive RFE on I-140 NIW case.
07/20/2017 RFE response received by USCIS (a very long response with 30 pages of docs)
09/14/2017 I-140 NIW approved!!! 
11/28/2017 RFE for new medical issued (plus another request re Supp J for employment which is clearly issued in error)
12/04/2017 RFE received in mail
12/07/2017 repeated medical exam for I-485
12/08/2017 Attorney receives documents for responding to I-485 RFE
12/21/2017 Response to RFE received by USCIS 
02/09/2018 I-485 approval (text, email) :)
02/08/2018 I-485 approval notice issued (the "welcome letter") - I'm LPR now
02/16/2018 Green card received
 
11/14/2022 Filed N-400 online; receipt and biometrics reuse form received online
03/07/2023 N-400 Interview scheduled 
04/xx/2023 N-400 approved, same-day Oath ceremony completed. I'm a US citizen.
05/xx/2023 US passport in hand

 

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JenniferNangel   137

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U said it right!! I heard it so many times, " my friend...has a problem" and 1001 times its not the friend, its the person him/herself. If her friend can be on fb than how come she cannot register here on vj? even if she speaks little englishor may be native language then google translate does wonders.You can translate anything. I have read vj's trying to help and understand people with such broken english. she is not talking about her friend....She is her!! that's it! People on vj help each other with genuine concern and this person, in name of her friend, getting ideas!

She doesn't have to leave her friend....its her :)

btw, I was born in night :rolleyes: but that was not last night :no: give me a break :content:

I disagree with you. My husband English sucks so I'm the one that talks in vj. My in laws all have fb and speak no English they talk in Spanish on their Fb so her friend can clearly have a fb but only speaks in her language. Why can't this really be her friend?? How many people have asked for advice about a friend and nobody ever questions it

I love my husband ?‍?‍?

Married June 2016

Por siempre y para siempre Mi amor

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The OP has closed her account, so this thread is also now closed.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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