i need help fast my wife want to divorce me only because i dont want be Christians

[Ihavequestions 419]

I'm not buying this story.

It has fake writen all over it.

I'm not buying it, either.

Sometimes people don't understand a ten year green card is permanent residency, or they don't understand nobody is forced to stay married in the US, so they maybe ... just maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaybe ... believe they need to find a reason.

[omer1 9]

yes

Me too... It is usually muslims who want to convert people, rarely the contrary... Don't marry or get engaged to someone you have never lived with...

yes so true...!

he is finding answer....!

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

OP, please Man up. You know what you need to do, don't prance around on VJ looking for sympathy. Your Wife has thrown down the gauntlet, now act accordingly and go file for divorce already.

[Peter_Pan 661]

How much older than you is she?

[Sven Nancy 3]

i just got here in usa like 3 month ago and my wife want me to go to church with her and i did but now she want me to be Christians but im Muslim and i can’t be Christians and she know that from the first time she meet me

so she want to divorce me i know that crazy

i have green card IR1 10 years do i will have a problem if she divorce me about getting other green card after 10 years or they will revoked or denied this green card i have

my wife getting crazy about to be Christians but im Muslim and i will die Muslim please i need some help here i don’t want divorce i love her but she want to scare me by divorcing me but i can’t be Christians so what i can do now I’m lost

I'm surprised you guys got married and didn't even discuss any of this.

[USA-ALG 63]

Brother,

I'm sorry for your struggles.

A true Christian would not force you to change religion. It's your wife's short-comings and not the Christianity within her that is forcing you.

"and We made her and her son a sign for all peoples." (Quran 21:91)

[Quran 3:46] When the angels said, 'O Mary, God gives thee glad tidings of a son through a Word from Him; his name shall be the Messiah, Jesus, son of Mary, honoured in this world and in the next, and of those who are granted nearness to God;

A true Muslim man would man up and stand his ground - like my husband.

Remember Allah (God) is watching you and knows your true intentions. If you are doing this to hurt or give Christians a bad name, even on your own wife, then Allah's wrath will bear hard on you after this life.

Be patient with her. Stand strong with her and know that she probably meant well.

Sister in Islam -and in the name of Christ, E

Edited October 29, 2012 by USA-ALG

[teg 6]

i just got here in usa like 3 month ago and my wife want me to go to church with her and i did but now she want me to be Christians but im Muslim and i can't be Christians and she know that from the first time she meet me

so she want to divorce me i know that crazy

i have green card IR1 10 years do i will have a problem if she divorce me about getting other green card after 10 years or they will revoked or denied this green card i have

my wife getting crazy about to be Christians but im Muslim and i will die Muslim please i need some help here i don't want divorce i love her but she want to scare me by divorcing me but i can't be Christians so what i can do now I'm lost

I am so sorry to hear this. As a Christian myself let me express that it isn't our job to enforce our religion onto people. It has to be from the heart to become a Christian not out of force. We are suppose to live by example not by force. This example is Christian love. I hope there are ways to remedy your relationship because I truly believe marriage is a sacred thing and not one to throw away no matter what the differences are. Maybe some marriage counseling would help. I would try this first. Take care and God bless

[memlaura 60]

i don’t have cell phone she don’t want me have one i cant even go to store by myself i cant even run and walk outsid she is crazy and she is jealous even if we watch a movie and if she see a naked women or preety women she turn the tv off and get mad at me and she say oh yeah u love looking at that woman and im getting crazy i dont know what to do

so i will not have a problem with me staying here in usa and i will not have problem with my green card if i accept divorce from her because i start my life here now i have a job and i cant leave

You said you have been here for 3 months. Did you discuss religion at all prior to your marriage? What kind of wedding did you have? If she had that strong of Christian beliefs and you that strong of Muslem I can't see how that never came up in conversation. You will probably be okay with your GC but the fact you were here 3 months and now you want to claim religious differences are an issue might not look good. The CO never questioned you on that at your interview that issue is a big red flag I am amazed that it is coming up as a big surprise to you know. There are 3 sides to every story. Talk to your wife if you really loved each other to start with then you should be able to work this out... Good luck to both of you....

[rade2rising 205]

let her follow through with her threats.

[bigdog 376]

What is the real or underlying issue?

[shekooo 4]

i don buy this story too ,u have nothing to worry about , u got u visa plus if it is a true story it is considered abuse,,why u care for her that much if she doesnt love u or control u like this

[Sandesh&Sveta 1]

i don’t have cell phone she don’t want me have one i cant even go to store by myself i cant even run and walk outsid she is crazy and she is jealous even if we watch a movie and if she see a naked women or preety women she turn the tv off and get mad at me and she say oh yeah u love looking at that woman and im getting crazy i dont know what to do

so i will not have a problem with me staying here in usa and i will not have problem with my green card if i accept divorce from her because i start my life here now i have a job and i cant leave

Didn't you know she was crazy before you guys decide to get married?

Seems like she is fat and ugly and insecure about herself.

[reese1 68]

I'm surprised you guys got married and didn't even discuss any of this.

Stuff like this is not discussed when there is something else that is trying to be obtained and that is a visa. This may or may not be the OP's case but it sure sounds like it.

[JE06 54]

My fiancé and I discussed everything about religion even though neither of us are religious. He was raised to be muslim and I was raised to be catholic.. we both believe in "a god" but we practice nothing. If you are having this much trouble now- I would accept her divorce and move on. What will happen when children come into the picture?? Something to think about NOW instead of when it's too late....

People come on here for help, they don't need everyone dissecting their story. I don't know why everyone takes it upon themselves to question the OP's true intentions.. he laid his situation out as stated and asked for advice. You aren't in immigration and won't be personally working with his case... it isn't your task to figure out the reality of whats going on. Get sick of seeing the same scenario repeated on so many posts.

Edited October 29, 2012 by JE06

[omer1 9]

My fiancé and I discussed everything about religion even though neither of us are religious. He was raised to be muslim and I was raised to be catholic.. we both believe in "a god" but we practice nothing. If you are having this much trouble now- I would accept her divorce and move on. What will happen when children come into the picture?? Something to think about NOW instead of when it's too late....

People come on here for help, they don't need everyone dissecting their story. I don't know why everyone takes it upon themselves to question the OP's true intentions.. he laid his situation out as stated and asked for advice. You aren't in immigration and won't be personally working with his case... it isn't your task to figure out the reality of whats going on. Get sick of seeing the same scenario repeated on so many posts.

nice answers.....! nw where is that guy who put this type of topic??? find him???