deportin help

[Fandango 1,439]

If it's possible, you should try to have her charged with filing a false police report. I dunno how it can be proven though, but that is a crime.

I don't think that will get her deported; as it has been said, you have ultimately no power over that.

[unlockingsky 94]

you can ultimately fight back using the legal system. if you can gather evidence of the illegal stuff she has done to you would be great. e.g. you mention about her cashing your check without your signature, prosecute her in court for that so she has a record. if you pile enough criminal charges, the uscis may not let her proceed beyond green card.

i understand the urge for revenge. this isn't the route you would like to proceed because you are a talented person that should be spending time on something more creative. e.g. professional development for your career or finding a hotter wife as leatherneck suggested.

If it's possible, you should try to have her charged with filing a false police report. I dunno how it can be proven though, but that is a crime.

I don't think that will get her deported; as it has been said, you have ultimately no power over that.

he should talk to the court/state prosecutor for advice.

[Rob & Monika 87]

See if you can press charges for forgery for the check and adultery in some states...give her a criminal record.

[Lisamarie 79]

Is there a possibility that she knew the guy before she came here? Because that might prove immigration fraud. You said he bought her airline tickets. Does he not live in the area? How and when did she meet him? And is she physically cheating on you? I would try to find out if she knew him before she got here. I'm sorry for your situation. Best of luck to you.

[Visitor 90]

I'm sorry if I don't understand too much about the actual green card process as mine was done many years ago so I don't know how it all works now but isn't there some way this guy can withdraw his I-864 affidavit of support? He doesn't want to have to be responsible for her anymore if he's getting divorced. She's already taken him for his tax return without his signature and who knows whatever else - not to mention had him reported to the police a number of times to suit her own agenda (I believe him). I've read other forums of people withdrawing the I-864. Why can't he?

Just asking.

[Anh map 2,098]

I'm sorry if I don't understand too much about the actual green card process as mine was done many years ago so I don't know how it all works now but isn't there some way this guy can withdraw his I-864 affidavit of support? He doesn't want to have to be responsible for her anymore if he's getting divorced. She's already taken him for his tax return without his signature and who knows whatever else - not to mention had him reported to the police a number of times to suit her own agenda (I believe him). I've read other forums of people withdrawing the I-864. Why can't he?

Just asking.

The 864 is in place and cannot be voided/withdrawn/etc.

You may be thinking of instances where a petition/application had yet to be filed or finalized. At that point it's possible to withdraw an affidavit of support.

[Visitor 90]

Thanks Anh map, I thought I had read in other threads about I-864 having been withdrawn but I guess not. Must have been different circumstances.

That's too bad for the guy.

Surely he won't still be financially responsible for her after the divorce though in light of what's happened especially if she's with someone else? Should be victim #2 who is responsible for her now.

[Boiler 43,397]

Nope

Non transferable.

[Therealworld 90]

just leave it alone and move on

[Fandango 1,439]

Surely he won't still be financially responsible for her after the divorce though in light of what's happened especially if she's with someone else? Should be victim #2 who is responsible for her now.

Of course he is, he signed on the line. As did every petitioner.

I wish everyone understood that. Maybe the OP does, I'm not talking specifically.

There is no 'in light of what happened' clause, unfortunately.

[Visitor 90]

Of course he is, he signed on the line. As did every petitioner.

I wish everyone understood that. Maybe the OP does, I'm not talking specifically.

There is no 'in light of what happened' clause, unfortunately.

That's kind of tough but how it is I suppose. I didn't know all the "rules" Too bad though cause I believe it's immigration fraud although it can't be proven.

I suppose the moral to stories like this is "Be sure of who you are marrying"

Yes, I hope the OP moves on and learns from this experience.

[charlie471963 3]

do yourself a favor and stay away from her do not have any contact with her file for divorce and report her to ice and do what you can about withdrawing the i864 , but i dont think you can anyway good luck

[mishka1 17]

in 2010 my fiance came to us as k1 . she received her conditional green card on jan 2011.feb 2012 i found out she is cheating on me and told her about it. on march 2012 she filed order protection and divorce and put me in jail 4 times last week we went to court and got dismissed . i gave the judge all pictures and evidence. anyway i won the case . now she is still on conditional green card . i want to deport her what should i do ?

Artmin, as Darnell said, your ex-wife played very well with VAWA rules, and followed who monitored her very well, and she set you up by getting you jailed 4 times, although it is dismissed, but she used it as domestic violence. You cannot do anything about deporting her even if you go to ICE, as others said, get on your life, it will be difficult in the beginning because you have been betrayed, and you are the reason for her being in USA, etc.. but try to get over it.. And Good luck

[mishka1 17]

I'm sorry if I don't understand too much about the actual green card process as mine was done many years ago so I don't know how it all works now but isn't there some way this guy can withdraw his I-864 affidavit of support? He doesn't want to have to be responsible for her anymore if he's getting divorced. She's already taken him for his tax return without his signature and who knows whatever else - not to mention had him reported to the police a number of times to suit her own agenda (I believe him). I've read other forums of people withdrawing the I-864. Why can't he?

Just asking.

For every one, Here is the instruction for I-864

I-864, Affidavit of Support Under Section 213A of the Act

How Long Does My Obligation as a Sponsor Continue

Your obligation to support the immigrant(s) you are sponsoring in this affidavit of support will continue until the sponsored immigrant becomes a U.S. citizen, or can be credited with 40 qualifying quarters of work in the United States. Although 40 qualifying quarters of work (credits) generally equate to ten years of work, in certain cases the work of a spouse or parent adds qualifying quarters. The Social Security Administration can provide information on how to count qualifying quarters (credits) of work. The obligation also ends if you or the sponsored immigrant dies or if the sponsored immigrant ceases to be a lawful permanent resident and departs the United States. Divorce does not end the sponsorship obligation.

[WrightFamily 34]

and my tax return check she cashed with out my signature. all i have

If true, This is the only Deport-able crime Ive read here!

Edited May 10, 2012 by WrightFamily