What's the story with American Women?

[SOlcayto 0]

Difference between Western women and non-Western women.

American women specifically and Western women in general have problems that turn men off:

* Western women want men to serve THEM most of the time but are unwilling to put in the effort or TIME to make it an intelligent partnership.

* Western women are coarse, vulgar, rude, or distinctly lack femininity.

* Western women are argumentative, critical, and demanding (i.e. bitchy).

* Western women are money-hungry and superficial.

* Western women are generally mentally unstable.

* Western women use sex as a weapon and reward to get things.

* Western women are just bitter and show contempt for men.

Most of non-Western women in Latin America, Asia, and Eastern Europe are the exact opposite of Western women.

* Non-Western women do not have anti-male bias and they are not pre-occupied with fairness and trying to prove themselves and to make a point.

* Non-Western women are not self-centered and do not have high-maintenance, superficial, and stuck up attitude.

* Non-Western women are a lot more mentally stable and they do not use sex as a weapon and reward to get things.

Think about this: what good is it having a western woman if she only views the relationship as a power play? Western women are not raised with the values that make the relationship work. Relationships with western women are all about what she can get from a guy and what she feels she is entitled to.

Ignore western women trying to discourage you from meeting non-western women. Western women feel very threatened by foreign women because they know they can not compete with them, so it makes western women feel worthless and obsolete. Western women know a man will always choose a non-western woman over a western woman if given a chance. It is like Chrysler's former boss Lee Iacocca making you feel guilty for you to buy American cars while selling you the worst junk cars.

Some men think their beat up Ford Escort is the best thing in the world. Why??

Because they never have the pleasure of having a Mercedes, Bentley, Ferrari!

http://www.singleabroad.com/

Wow, that is the stupidest thing I have ever read. Thanks, we're all a little more stupid having read that.

[Mirorgate 0]

Can I have the comic section please

I'm after the wench, mkay?

[jjjimmy 0]

this is bullshit i was married before to a WONDERFUL western woman from ohio and she had lots of qualities that make it work.relationships have to do with individuals not geography.

[yogib37 3]

OK to fan the flames, here is a site on this very subject!

http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreign_women_are_better.html

I agree with that.

Just my opinion Dont hate

[homesick_american 1]

I've seen it on here: certain ppl complaining of 'oh how my wife is Americanized now!' when it comes to: getting a job, making friends, being independant & thinking for herself....or if the woman starts lying, she's being 'American' I think that's a load of bs right there

There are couples who neither speak a common language, there's a big age differential, and they've never met? Well yeap, that ain't love, that's a mutually beneficial arrangement

Seems to me that men like that aren't looking for a wife; they're looking for a slave.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

American woman, stay away from me

American woman, mama let me be

Don't come hanging around my door

I don't want to see your face no more

I got more important things to do

Than spend my time growin' old with you

Now woman, stay away

American woman, listen what I say

American woman, get away from me

American woman, mama let me be

Don't come knocking around my door

I don't want to see your shadow no more

Colored lights can hypnotize

Sparkle someone else's eyes

Now woman, get away

American woman, listen what I say

American woman, I said get way

American woman, listen what I say

Don't come hanging around my door

Don't want to see your face no more

I don't need your war machines

I don't need your ghetto scenes

Colored lights can hypnotize

Sparkle someone else's eyes

Now woman, get away

American woman, listen what I say

American woman, stay away from me

American woman, mama let me be

I gotta go

I gotta getta away

Think I gotta go

I wanna fly away

I'm gonna leave you woman

I'm gonna leave you woman

I'm gonna leave you woman

I'm gonna leave you woman

Bye bye, bye bye

Bye bye, bye bye

American woman

And you're no good for me

And I'm no good for you

I look you right straight in the eye

And tell you what I'm gonna do

I'm gonna leave you woman

You know I gotta go

I'm gonna leave you woman

I gotta go

I gotta go

I gotta go

American woman

Yeah

[YuAndDan 153]

American woman, stay away from me

American woman, mama let me be

Don't come hanging around my door

I don't want to see your face no more

I got more important things to do

Than spend my time growin' old with you

Now woman, stay away

American woman, listen what I say.....

Now why did I not think of that song!!

[homesick_american 1]

Ugh, I hate that song so much.

American woman, stay away from me

American woman, mama let me be

[Sheriff Uling 3]

Gupt - You are a riot! Great way to break-out the song "American Woman." Yeah Baby Yeah! Cheers!!! - Sheriff Uling

this is bullshit i was married before to a WONDERFUL western woman from ohio and she had lots of qualities that make it work.relationships have to do with individuals not geography.

You WERE married. That right there sums it up... Thanks!!!

[ILIKEALLCAPS 0]

this is bullshit i was married before to a WONDERFUL western woman from ohio and she had lots of qualities that make it work.relationships have to do with individuals not geography.

You WERE married. That right there sums it up... Thanks!!!

Yep, I WAS married to a wonderful western woman myself. And, based entirely on that statement feel free to go right ahead and make all your assumptions about why I'm not.

go ahead, I'm waiting

yep, that's right, she wasn't subservient enough and didn't have any values whatsoever so I went looking elsewhere she died of cancer.

Funny how it's not so funny to jump to conclusions, eh?

[Caladan 19]

I love that American Woman song, and now it's stuck in my head. Somehow when it's sung, it sounds more like a love/hate relationship.

And that singlesabroad site is hilarious, especially the idea that we Western women all conspire to catch these wonderful men by keeping them from the foreign women because we can't compete. (I love competing for guys that think I'm trash, don't you, girls?)

[YuAndDan 153]

I love that American Woman song, and now it's stuck in my head. Somehow when it's sung, it sounds more like a love/hate relationship.

And that singlesabroad site is hilarious, especially the idea that we Western women all conspire to catch these wonderful men by keeping them from the foreign women because we can't compete. (I love competing for guys that think I'm trash, don't you, girls?)

http://www.singleabroad.com/

http://www.nomarriage.com/

Edited September 30, 2006 by YuAndDan

[Ivanovo 0]

this is bullshit i was married before to a WONDERFUL western woman from ohio and she had lots of qualities that make it work.relationships have to do with individuals not geography.

You WERE married. That right there sums it up... Thanks!!!

Yep, I WAS married to a wonderful western woman myself. And, based entirely on that statement feel free to go right ahead and make all your assumptions about why I'm not.

go ahead, I'm waiting

yep, that's right, she wasn't subservient enough and didn't have any values whatsoever so I went looking elsewhere she died of cancer.

Funny how it's not so funny to jump to conclusions, eh?

Ilikecaps. I was married to a wonderful lady from denver-she was killed in a car accident many years ago. I am sorry for your loss. I hope that previous poster feels like a ####### now.

I met Natasha while I was working in Ivanovo. I was not even looking. love happens. people who set out to find a person deliberatly from another culture are not looking for the qualities that person may have. They do it to try and find qualities in themselves that they are lacking. my opinion, ofcourse.

Good and bad everywhere. machts nichts where they are from ( to a secure person).

[PurrSuede 0]

I totally prefer foreign men. They tend to put their relationship before anything else which in my experience most American men don't. SOL

DING DING DING DING!

you hit the nail on the head right there... and that's what some of us have meant by " she became Americanized "... She's no longer putting the RELATIONSHIP before anything else, but only her own self-serving interests... It's not that the job, the friends, being independent, having money to spend, making her own decisions, or any of the other stuff is the problem. The problem is that those ~things~ have somehow become more important to them than the relationship itself!

Regardless of which side of the gender divide, I would think most of us, male or female would tend to say one of the PROBLEMS in the "American" relationship was the SELFISH-ness of the partner, and putting themselves first before the relationship. And usually we tend to find in the "foreign" partner more of a SELFLESS-ness...

I think that says more about the "ME FIRST" attitude of the American culture, regardless of gender.

And no, frankly I'm not looking for a slave, I'm looking for a PARTNER, who believes in TEAM-work and someone who believes the RELATIONSHIP (and marriage and family) is MORE important than self-serving selfish interests.

It's about two people coming together to make ONE, not two people deciding to be out for themselves and the hell with the other person, anyway... that's the "Americanized" attitude I'm sick of, and I blame a lot of it on our selfish, self-serving culture that we were raised in.

-- Dan

"We now return you to our regularly scheduled flamethrowing..."

[mawilson 2,133]

PurrSuede!

Welcome back -- haven't seen you here since 2003 or so!

Sorry to hear things didn't work out for you.