Used me for green card

[blackrose 0]

Hi to all,

long story short,My husband came here from Turkey April 2010,commited spousal abuse on me in june and july,was beating me everyday since he stepped foot in america..He was arrested 2 times, hes been to mental hospital too.

I withdrew his petition 2 months after he arrived because I had a feeling he was just using me.He put me in jail 3 times by telling the courts it was me who was beating him up,and he had taken all my proof so I was the one going to jail for false spousal abuse.I am now getting a divorce.Hwe is now trying to get half my home after he forced me to sighn deed sept 2010 jointly,I have the proof and will show in court,but it will take 1 year for the divorce,so I hope I can still reverse it after I tell my story in divorce court.I want to write to immigration to try to deport him after all the abuse and lies and all he did to me since he got to america.Who do I sent the proof too? Do I sent it to the office that will give him an interview for his permannent green card,hes on a conditional till august 2012?Or do I sent the proof to the people that gave him the visa?Uscis? I need help please anything information is really appreciated,this man does not belong here!!He scammmed me almost killed me and got away with it all in court and I never got to show proof..

Thankyou so much....

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

You can contact ICE (Immigration and Customs Enforcement) via email at Immigration.Reply@dhs.gov or you can telephone ICE at 1-866-347-2423.

[milimelo 4,500]

Hi to all,

long story short,My husband came here from Turkey April 2010,commited spousal abuse on me in june and july,was beating me everyday since he stepped foot in america..He was arrested 2 times, hes been to mental hospital too.

I withdrew his petition 2 months after he arrived because I had a feeling he was just using me.He put me in jail 3 times by telling the courts it was me who was beating him up,and he had taken all my proof so I was the one going to jail for false spousal abuse.I am now getting a divorce.Hwe is now trying to get half my home after he forced me to sighn deed sept 2010 jointly,I have the proof and will show in court,but it will take 1 year for the divorce,so I hope I can still reverse it after I tell my story in divorce court.I want to write to immigration to try to deport him after all the abuse and lies and all he did to me since he got to america.Who do I sent the proof too? Do I sent it to the office that will give him an interview for his permannent green card,hes on a conditional till august 2012?Or do I sent the proof to the people that gave him the visa?Uscis? I need help please anything information is really appreciated,this man does not belong here!!He scammmed me almost killed me and got away with it all in court and I never got to show proof..

Thankyou so much....

At the bottom of every page is the contact for ICE - please use it. Also, make an Infopass and provide detailed account of what happened to you with any evidence you have and submit it at infopass. You can also mail a copy of it to the Embassy where he interviewed and to the service center that processed your petition (CSC or VSC).

Sorry you're going through this.

I'll also move this topic to Effect of Major Family Changes forum so you get more replies.

[blackrose 0]

Hi,

Thankyou I didnt know where to post this,I need all the help I can get.I called ICE and nothing happened ,they never contacted me.Thankyou again,have a great day...

[blackrose 0]

Hi to all,

long story short,My husband came here from Turkey April 2010,commited spousal abuse on me in june and july,was beating me everyday since he stepped foot in america..He was arrested 2 times, hes been to mental hospital too.

I withdrew his petition 2 months after he arrived because I had a feeling he was just using me.He put me in jail 3 times by telling the courts it was me who was beating him up,and he had taken all my proof so I was the one going to jail for false spousal abuse.I am now getting a divorce.He is now trying to get half my home after he forced me to sighn deed sept 2010 jointly,I have the proof and will show in court,but it will take 1 year for the divorce,so I hope I can still reverse it after I tell my story in divorce court.I want to write to immigration to try to deport him after all the abuse and lies and all he did to me since he got to america.Who do I sent the proof too? Do I sent it to the office that will give him an interview for his permannent green card,hes on a conditional till august 2012?Or do I sent the proof to the people that gave him the visa?Uscis? I need help please anything information is really appreciated,this man does not belong here!!He scammmed me almost killed me and got away with it all in court and I never got to show proof..Im 53 years of age 5"4 and he was 6"3 27 years of age.How can the courts beleve his story! I just dont know.

Thankyou so much....

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

Did you try calling again? Did you make infopass? Did you contact the embassy as suggested above? You need to make your voice heard. Good luck.

[LoveNigarmostyle 164]

As a petitioner you have to report his ill intent of obtaining the visa to the USA through an immigration fraud. If you don't then you are in trouble with the law for not being truthful about your relationship with him. So yes you have to report him to USCIS office in writing. Include all the police reports and arrests and summarize your story from start to end and send it in with even pictures if you have any of bruises you maintained due to the beatings you encountered.

Have you consulted an immigration attorney? if not I would just to get a better idea how to proceed before doing anything. But you definitely are obligated by the law to report this as a fraud.

Good luck!

[no more 16]

Hi to all,

long story short,My husband came here from Turkey April 2010,commited spousal abuse on me in june and july,was beating me everyday since he stepped foot in america..He was arrested 2 times, hes been to mental hospital too.

I withdrew his petition 2 months after he arrived because I had a feeling he was just using me.He put me in jail 3 times by telling the courts it was me who was beating him up,and he had taken all my proof so I was the one going to jail for false spousal abuse.I am now getting a divorce.He is now trying to get half my home after he forced me to sighn deed sept 2010 jointly,I have the proof and will show in court,but it will take 1 year for the divorce,so I hope I can still reverse it after I tell my story in divorce court.I want to write to immigration to try to deport him after all the abuse and lies and all he did to me since he got to america.Who do I sent the proof too? Do I sent it to the office that will give him an interview for his permannent green card,hes on a conditional till august 2012?Or do I sent the proof to the people that gave him the visa?Uscis? I need help please anything information is really appreciated,this man does not belong here!!He scammmed me almost killed me and got away with it all in court and I never got to show proof..Im 53 years of age 5"4 and he was 6"3 27 years of age.How can the courts beleve his story! I just dont know.

Thankyou so much....

SO sorry to hear this! Another Vj'er recently went through a situation similiar but he was a perfect gentlemen then when he got the greencard he left that day!It makes me so sad that you are going through this. Document everything with USCIS for sure. He will bury himself....

[Ban Hammer 13,403]

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[bigdog 376]

Hi to all,

long story short,My husband came here from Turkey April 2010,commited spousal abuse on me in june and july,was beating me everyday since he stepped foot in america..He was arrested 2 times, hes been to mental hospital too.

I withdrew his petition 2 months after he arrived because I had a feeling he was just using me.He put me in jail 3 times by telling the courts it was me who was beating him up,and he had taken all my proof so I was the one going to jail for false spousal abuse.I am now getting a divorce.Hwe is now trying to get half my home after he forced me to sighn deed sept 2010 jointly,I have the proof and will show in court,but it will take 1 year for the divorce,so I hope I can still reverse it after I tell my story in divorce court.I want to write to immigration to try to deport him after all the abuse and lies and all he did to me since he got to america.Who do I sent the proof too? Do I sent it to the office that will give him an interview for his permannent green card,hes on a conditional till august 2012?Or do I sent the proof to the people that gave him the visa?Uscis? I need help please anything information is really appreciated,this man does not belong here!!He scammmed me almost killed me and got away with it all in court and I never got to show proof..

Thankyou so much....

Contact ICE, info-pass, get a good attorney. Contact the embassy get all your documents ready. Sorry.

[Anh map 2,098]

You need an attorney or two. Or a better attorney if you have been using one leading up to this point.

A family law attorney to help you with the divorce and property issues. An immigration attorney would be a good step to learn what your options are regarding his status in the US.

[JohnandWendyB 21]

It would not hurt you to contact your local domestic violence agency for assistance. I work for one and we have legal services to assist with this sort of thing. Your state may as well. Good luck.

[stronger 43]

Did he show any signs of aggressive behaviour before you married or before he came here to America? Putting your hands on a woman is NEVER acceptable regardless of the circumstances? If he does it once it will surely happen again. I've spoken to my fiance (also Turkish) of the temperature in Turkey regarding family abuse, and unfortunately, it is common in some families. My stepmother from Indonesia says the same. What sucks is that these jerks give a bad name to ALL men from this part of the world, when not all are this way. I am sorry you had to get one of the bad apples. Thankfully you're alive and able to tell your story. I hope you get resolution and peace sooner rather than later. God bless you!

[Soju 5]

1) Domestic abuse - you did the right thing by reporting to the police. Now he has arrest records. I am sure this will be coming up during interview for green card.

So you let the law and court take care of itself. I am sure that someone with criminal records, it won't be easy to get green card.

2) Divorce - I really thing that you should seek a legal help. Divorce is not simply saying good bye. IF there are assets, like house and etc such things can get complicated.

When you do contact USCIC , try to provide all court documents and police reports.

Also I am not quiet sure if this is a fraud. Did he tell you that he is going to leave you after green card? A reasonable person who is really seeking a green card would not go thru all these troubles (beat you, get arrested) to make it harder to get it down the road.

A reasonable way to get a green card is to live with you with a hidden life until gets green card and ask for divorce.

I really feel like ur husband has issues and even more so considering he has been sicked into hospital. He has anger issues.. maybe drinking issues? He needs help too.

But I think best way for you is to remove from in that unsafe environment and stay in safer area. Also consider putting a retraining order against him.

[Aschenbecher 16]

I think he might be trying to prove that he was abused by her, so when it comes to removal of conditions he can argue that hes a battred spouse hence he dont have to have her file a petition with him to remove his conditions. there is a provision where it states requirment to have both the spouses file for removal of conditions can be wavied if the immigrant is battred by the us citizen.