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A defiant Palestinian feminist from Gaza reflects on being secular in a religious land.

By Ashley Bates

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Palestinian feminist Asma Al-Ghoul arrived to our meeting at a Gaza coffee shop sporting blue jeans and a T-shirt—in stark contrast to the Islamic headscarves and tent-like dresses worn by the vast majority of Gazan women.

It's not just clothing that sets this 28-year-old secularist apart. She once publicly chastised a senior Hamas military leader—her uncle—who threatened to kill her, and she continues to publish gutsy articles, read banned books, and defy discriminatory policies. "Gaza needs all the liberal, secular people to stay here," she insisted, when I asked why she had declined opportunities to live abroad.

For three years, Israel has enforced a devastating blockade of the Gaza Strip aimed at isolating Hamas, the Islamic militant group that won Palestinian parliamentary elections in 2006 and seized control of this Palestinian territory in a 2007 civil war. (Fatah, a more moderate Palestinian faction, retained control of the West Bank.) Since then, Hamas has introduced restrictive new laws, including prohibitions against women using male hairdressers or smoking hookah in public. Hamas police have shut down musical concerts and interrogated suspected couples. Principals at government schools have reportedly pressured even Christian girls to wear the Islamic headscarf. Through it all, Asma has remained devoted to secularism, and was recently awarded a prestigious Human Rights Watch grant for her "commitment to free expression and courage in the face of political persecution." But will she be able to help build the inclusive civil society she seeks?

The oldest of nine children in a "secular but not bourgeois" family, one of Asma's earliest memories is the sound of Israeli soldiers' boots coming to raid her home in the middle of the night. Rafah, her home city near the Egyptian border, is one of the most conservative and deprived communities in Gaza, and a frequent target of Israeli bomb strikes and incursions.

To the dismay of her relatives, Asma stopped wearing a headscarf. "I didn't want to be two characters—one secular, the other Islamic," she says. After attending university in Gaza, she took a reporting job at a local Arabic newspaper, Al-Ayaam. Her hard-hitting blog posts, tweets, and articles have chronicled what she calls "the corruption of Fatah and the terrorism of Hamas."

In late 2003, Asma married an Egyptian poet—a "love marriage," which challenged the arranged marriage tradition practiced by most Gazans. The couple moved to Abu Dhabi and had a son named Naser, but divorced after a year and a half. Asma and her son moved in with her family in Gaza City, where Asma continued working as a journalist.

To the dismay of some relatives and acquaintances, in 2006 Asma decided to permanently remove her Islamic headscarf. "I didn't want to be two characters—one secular, the other Islamic," she says of the choice. To her relief, Asma's immediate family—including her father, an engineering professor at Gaza's Islamic University—supported her autonomy. "If your father or husband is secular," Asma says, "only then can you be free."

During the 2007 civil war, Asma attended a journalism course in South Korea, where she published a scathing Arabic article titled, "Dear Uncle, Is This the Homeland We Want?" The article recalled fond childhood memories of her father's brother, a Hamas military leader—then assailed him for turning against his own people and using the family home to interrogate and beat Fatah activists. In response, Asma's uncle threatened to kill her. A year later, Asma wrote her way through the trauma of the 2008-2009 war between Israel and Hamas militants, which claimed the lives of 13 Israelis and about 1400 Gazans. Often, she slept at her office for fear of getting killed on the way to her home, a mere five-minute walk away.

"I felt as if Israeli military planes were blind," Asma recalled. "They attacked everything and everybody. I saw dead children...As a woman and as a human being, I don't believe in revenge, because it just brings more blood. But people said to me during the war, 'You see? This is your peace.'"

While Asma has befriended liberal Jewish activists in Gaza, she has never entered Israel. In 2003 and again in 2006, the Israeli government denied her permission to travel through Israel to the West Bank, which is territorially separate from Gaza, to receive awards for her writing.

Recently Asma garnered media attention for two incidents with the Hamas police. In the summer of 2009, she walked on a public Gaza beach with a mixed gender group, and visited a former male colleague and his family at a beachside villa. Asma and her friends were interrogated by Hamas moral police, and the men were forced to sign papers promising not repeat their "inappropriate" interactions with women. Asma later received anonymous death threats and was followed and closely monitored by police.

But there are glints of hope for secularists in Gaza. This August, during the Islamic holy month of Ramadan, Asma and three foreign activist friends biked up the Gaza coastline in defiance of a Hamas ban on female bicycle-riding. To Asma's delighted surprise, local Hamas police officers pursued two motorcyclists who had followed and harassed her. And she found that most civilians "were shocked in a funny way. They said, 'Let's go! Bravo!' They asked, 'Are you fasting [for Ramadan]?' And I said, 'Yes, I'm fasting!'"

Asma's biking adventure led her to conclude that the discriminatory laws against women are "flexible." She now believes that Hamas is "between two fires—how to keep civil society satisfied, and how to satisfy extreme groups."

But Asma has begun to question her own commitment to staying in Gaza.

Her brother Mustafa was arrested and jailed by Hamas police last week for participating in street protests against Hamas's recent shutdown of Sharek Youth Forum. The nonprofit, which organized camps and afterschool programs for more than 60,000 Gazan children, is accused of storing pornography on its computers.

Asma never worked for Sharek, but she admired the organization's work. Sharek was perhaps best known for organizing gender-segregated beachfront activities for the annual children's summer games, sponsored by the United Nations Relief and Works Agency. This past summer, the tents erected for these games were repeatedly torched by masked gunmen who threatened to kill UNRWA staff members. Anonymous fliers spread prior to the torchings derided UNRWA and Sharek for "teaching schoolgirls fitness, dancing, and immorality."

"I used to criticize Sharek for being too conservative because they didn't allow music for office employees," Asma told me with a sad, fatigued sigh during a phone interview last Friday. "Sharek is a small example of what Hamas wants to do with this society. Later there will be big examples."

These days, when Asma is not overcome with worry about her imprisoned brother's fate, she is reading, writing, and following the news, including coverage of the failing peace negotiations between Israel and Fatah. She regards these talks as a "sad fairytale where everyone knows the ending." She's acquired a smuggled Arabic copy of Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie and insists, "We should read it before we judge it." She's also finishing the manuscript to her novel, titled City of Love and Taboo, which explores the Islamization of Gaza. She's hoping to publish it in both Arabic and English.

"Everything is taboo in Gaza now," she says, explaining the book's title. "Yet, at the same time, people still touch and feel and love."

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A defiant Palestinian feminist from Gaza reflects on being secular in a religious land.

By Ashley Bates

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Palestinian feminist Asma Al-Ghoul arrived to our meeting at a Gaza coffee shop sporting blue jeans and a T-shirt—in stark contrast to the Islamic headscarves and tent-like dresses worn by the vast majority of Gazan women.

It's not just clothing that sets this 28-year-old secularist apart. She once publicly chastised a senior Hamas military leader—her uncle—who threatened to kill her, and she continues to publish gutsy articles, read banned books, and defy discriminatory policies. "Gaza needs all the liberal, secular people to stay here," she insisted, when I asked why she had declined opportunities to live abroad.

For three years, Israel has enforced a devastating blockade of the Gaza Strip aimed at isolating Hamas, the Islamic militant group that won Palestinian parliamentary elections in 2006 and seized control of this Palestinian territory in a 2007 civil war. (Fatah, a more moderate Palestinian faction, retained control of the West Bank.) Since then, Hamas has introduced restrictive new laws, including prohibitions against women using male hairdressers or smoking hookah in public. Hamas police have shut down musical concerts and interrogated suspected couples. Principals at government schools have reportedly pressured even Christian girls to wear the Islamic headscarf. Through it all, Asma has remained devoted to secularism, and was recently awarded a prestigious Human Rights Watch grant for her "commitment to free expression and courage in the face of political persecution." But will she be able to help build the inclusive civil society she seeks?

The oldest of nine children in a "secular but not bourgeois" family, one of Asma's earliest memories is the sound of Israeli soldiers' boots coming to raid her home in the middle of the night. Rafah, her home city near the Egyptian border, is one of the most conservative and deprived communities in Gaza, and a frequent target of Israeli bomb strikes and incursions.

To the dismay of her relatives, Asma stopped wearing a headscarf. "I didn't want to be two characters—one secular, the other Islamic," she says. After attending university in Gaza, she took a reporting job at a local Arabic newspaper, Al-Ayaam. Her hard-hitting blog posts, tweets, and articles have chronicled what she calls "the corruption of Fatah and the terrorism of Hamas."

In late 2003, Asma married an Egyptian poet—a "love marriage," which challenged the arranged marriage tradition practiced by most Gazans. The couple moved to Abu Dhabi and had a son named Naser, but divorced after a year and a half. Asma and her son moved in with her family in Gaza City, where Asma continued working as a journalist.

To the dismay of some relatives and acquaintances, in 2006 Asma decided to permanently remove her Islamic headscarf. "I didn't want to be two characters—one secular, the other Islamic," she says of the choice. To her relief, Asma's immediate family—including her father, an engineering professor at Gaza's Islamic University—supported her autonomy. "If your father or husband is secular," Asma says, "only then can you be free."

During the 2007 civil war, Asma attended a journalism course in South Korea, where she published a scathing Arabic article titled, "Dear Uncle, Is This the Homeland We Want?" The article recalled fond childhood memories of her father's brother, a Hamas military leader—then assailed him for turning against his own people and using the family home to interrogate and beat Fatah activists. In response, Asma's uncle threatened to kill her. A year later, Asma wrote her way through the trauma of the 2008-2009 war between Israel and Hamas militants, which claimed the lives of 13 Israelis and about 1400 Gazans. Often, she slept at her office for fear of getting killed on the way to her home, a mere five-minute walk away.

"I felt as if Israeli military planes were blind," Asma recalled. "They attacked everything and everybody. I saw dead children...As a woman and as a human being, I don't believe in revenge, because it just brings more blood. But people said to me during the war, 'You see? This is your peace.'"

While Asma has befriended liberal Jewish activists in Gaza, she has never entered Israel. In 2003 and again in 2006, the Israeli government denied her permission to travel through Israel to the West Bank, which is territorially separate from Gaza, to receive awards for her writing.

Recently Asma garnered media attention for two incidents with the Hamas police. In the summer of 2009, she walked on a public Gaza beach with a mixed gender group, and visited a former male colleague and his family at a beachside villa. Asma and her friends were interrogated by Hamas moral police, and the men were forced to sign papers promising not repeat their "inappropriate" interactions with women. Asma later received anonymous death threats and was followed and closely monitored by police.

But there are glints of hope for secularists in Gaza. This August, during the Islamic holy month of Ramadan, Asma and three foreign activist friends biked up the Gaza coastline in defiance of a Hamas ban on female bicycle-riding. To Asma's delighted surprise, local Hamas police officers pursued two motorcyclists who had followed and harassed her. And she found that most civilians "were shocked in a funny way. They said, 'Let's go! Bravo!' They asked, 'Are you fasting [for Ramadan]?' And I said, 'Yes, I'm fasting!'"

Asma's biking adventure led her to conclude that the discriminatory laws against women are "flexible." She now believes that Hamas is "between two fires—how to keep civil society satisfied, and how to satisfy extreme groups."

But Asma has begun to question her own commitment to staying in Gaza.

Her brother Mustafa was arrested and jailed by Hamas police last week for participating in street protests against Hamas's recent shutdown of Sharek Youth Forum. The nonprofit, which organized camps and afterschool programs for more than 60,000 Gazan children, is accused of storing pornography on its computers.

Asma never worked for Sharek, but she admired the organization's work. Sharek was perhaps best known for organizing gender-segregated beachfront activities for the annual children's summer games, sponsored by the United Nations Relief and Works Agency. This past summer, the tents erected for these games were repeatedly torched by masked gunmen who threatened to kill UNRWA staff members. Anonymous fliers spread prior to the torchings derided UNRWA and Sharek for "teaching schoolgirls fitness, dancing, and immorality."

"I used to criticize Sharek for being too conservative because they didn't allow music for office employees," Asma told me with a sad, fatigued sigh during a phone interview last Friday. "Sharek is a small example of what Hamas wants to do with this society. Later there will be big examples."

These days, when Asma is not overcome with worry about her imprisoned brother's fate, she is reading, writing, and following the news, including coverage of the failing peace negotiations between Israel and Fatah. She regards these talks as a "sad fairytale where everyone knows the ending." She's acquired a smuggled Arabic copy of Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie and insists, "We should read it before we judge it." She's also finishing the manuscript to her novel, titled City of Love and Taboo, which explores the Islamization of Gaza. She's hoping to publish it in both Arabic and English.

"Everything is taboo in Gaza now," she says, explaining the book's title. "Yet, at the same time, people still touch and feel and love."

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Sorry, Steven, this is not newsworthy. I think there's a story about a woman on death row in Pakistan though that we haven't heard about in a few days. Let's talk about that instead.

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Sorry, Steven, this is not newsworthy. I think there's a story about a woman on death row in Pakistan though that we haven't heard about in a few days. Let's talk about that instead.

But telling him isn't either. Itz the only type he chooses to post. :secret:

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Hopefully this woman starts a trend among Muslim women. :)

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Sorry, Steven, this is not newsworthy. I think there's a story about a woman on death row in Pakistan though that we haven't heard about in a few days. Let's talk about that instead.

And there is no theme running through both stories regarding the tolerance some practitioners of Islam show for others either.

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Sorry, Steven, this is not newsworthy. I think there's a story about a woman on death row in Pakistan though that we haven't heard about in a few days. Let's talk about that instead.

This is the pre-whipping story.

her balls are bigger than mine

but thats not newsworthy either

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Hopefully this woman starts a trend among Muslim women. :)

Muslim women wearing jeans is not uncommon nor particularly newsworthy, even in Gaza. I have family in that area.

Good God, people. Silly commentary is what happens when all you know about other countries is what you read on blogs and glean from articles. You would think that folks who married foreigners would know that.

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I believe the jeans were a bit of an aside to the woman's entire blog, but I will defer to you on the fashion angle of the story. Refusing to wear a head scarf as well...

How's about women riding bikes? Visiting non-female college buddies in their homes? Co-Ed swims? Murdering and torturing rivals in the family home? Moral police... Lies, all lies? Hamas is just a misunderstood group of kind, gentle and progressive souls I suppose?

You're pretty hostile yourself.

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You're pretty hostile yourself.

Rest assured I have never tortured and murdered a rival or anyone else for that matter in my home. I really don't mind women riding bikes, visiting male friends in their homes without escort, co-Ed swimming etc.

I get information from a wide variety of sources as well!

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  • April 2004 met online
  • July 16, 2006 Met in person on her birthday in United Arab Emirates
  • August 4, 2006 sent certified mail I-129F packet Neb SC
  • August 9, 2006 NOA1
  • August 21, 2006 received NOA1 in mail
  • October 4, 5, 7, 13 & 17 2006 Touches! 50 day address change... Yes Judith is beautiful, quit staring at her passport photo and approve us!!! Shaming works! LOL
  • October 13, 2006 NOA2! November 2, 2006 NOA2? Huh? NVC already processed and sent us on to Abu Dhabi Consulate!
  • February 12, 2007 Abu Dhabi Interview SUCCESS!!! February 14 Visa in hand!
  • March 6, 2007 she is here!
  • MARCH 14, 2007 WE ARE MARRIED!!!
  • May 5, 2007 Sent AOS/EAD packet
  • May 11, 2007 NOA1 AOS/EAD
  • June 7, 2007 Biometrics appointment
  • June 8, 2007 first post biometrics touch, June 11, next touch...
  • August 1, 2007 AOS Interview! APPROVED!! EAD APPROVED TOO...
  • August 6, 2007 EAD card and Welcome Letter received!
  • August 13, 2007 GREEN CARD received!!! 375 days since mailing the I-129F!

    Remove Conditions:

  • May 1, 2009 first day to file
  • May 9, 2009 mailed I-751 to USCIS CS
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Rest assured I have never tortured and murdered a rival or anyone else for that matter in my home. I really don't mind women riding bikes, visiting male friends in their homes without escort, co-Ed swimming etc.

I get information from a wide variety of sources as well!

Maybe so, yet your idea of a "wide variety of sources" doesn't seem to curb your tendency to negatively stereotype Muslims every chance you get.

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Maybe so, yet your idea of a "wide variety of sources" doesn't seem to curb your tendency to negatively stereotype Muslims every chance you get.

Stereotyping is an interesting defense...

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  • April 2004 met online
  • July 16, 2006 Met in person on her birthday in United Arab Emirates
  • August 4, 2006 sent certified mail I-129F packet Neb SC
  • August 9, 2006 NOA1
  • August 21, 2006 received NOA1 in mail
  • October 4, 5, 7, 13 & 17 2006 Touches! 50 day address change... Yes Judith is beautiful, quit staring at her passport photo and approve us!!! Shaming works! LOL
  • October 13, 2006 NOA2! November 2, 2006 NOA2? Huh? NVC already processed and sent us on to Abu Dhabi Consulate!
  • February 12, 2007 Abu Dhabi Interview SUCCESS!!! February 14 Visa in hand!
  • March 6, 2007 she is here!
  • MARCH 14, 2007 WE ARE MARRIED!!!
  • May 5, 2007 Sent AOS/EAD packet
  • May 11, 2007 NOA1 AOS/EAD
  • June 7, 2007 Biometrics appointment
  • June 8, 2007 first post biometrics touch, June 11, next touch...
  • August 1, 2007 AOS Interview! APPROVED!! EAD APPROVED TOO...
  • August 6, 2007 EAD card and Welcome Letter received!
  • August 13, 2007 GREEN CARD received!!! 375 days since mailing the I-129F!

    Remove Conditions:

  • May 1, 2009 first day to file
  • May 9, 2009 mailed I-751 to USCIS CS
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