Any kind of help, plz i-485 Denied -signed deportation document

[TBoneTX 43,081]

No need for the "Bite me" comment. All opinions are those of a personal opinion.

Next time, to avoid being asked to bite anybody, please refrain from slamming people with "opinions that are of a personal opinion" (?). Back on point, I agree completely with Heather's second paragraph. Edited March 17, 2010 by TBoneTX

[When2RNLove 6]

Next time, to avoid being asked to bite anybody, please refrain from slamming people with "opinions that are of a personal opinion" (?). Back on point, I agree completely with Heather's second paragraph.

Let's stop with the back-and-forth. Signing off.

[TBoneTX 43,081]

Let's stop with the back-and-forth. Signing off.

Agreed. Peace.

[Brother Hesekiel 2,235]

I've been guilty of some comments that have come over not exactly the way I intended, so let me try to do this a bit more gentle.

You did not provide us with all the important information, so I'm just guessing that you married a US citizen in the United States while visiting here with a B2 or perhaps a student visa. When applying for adjustment of status (AOS), the Immigration Officer (I.O.) has one primary job: finding out if the marriage is legit, meaning if it was entered out of "love" and affection, not because the foreigner would greatly benefit from such marriage by getting a Green Card.

I've walked in your shoes, so I know the walk.

When trying to establish whether or not the marriage is legit, the I.O. has to use common sense and common "standards." What I mean with that is that she would have looked at every angle of your relationship. How you met, how long you knew each other, what you do for a living, whether or not you appear to be compatible, and how you got married. To tell you the truth, it is very unusual for a married couple not to have a single photo of their wedding. Even small weddings have in most cases at least a friend of family member ("best man") present, and getting married is one of the most exciting moments in most people's lives.

I don't know how the I.O. came to the conclusion that your relationship isn't real, but she did. By the way, in your post you didn't mention with a single word how your wife would be affected by you having to leave the country. No offense, but I find that strange as well.

In any case, if somebody is married "for love" and the I.O. tells them that she believes that their marriage is fraudulent and asks them to sign a statement to that effect (signing that the I.O. is correct), I doubt that many people would do that. Had that happened to me I would have said: "you are wrong; I am not signing this statement. I would like to speak with a supervisor, please."

But you didn't. You signed your deportation papers, for reasons only you know. But at this point of your journey, I doubt that there's anything you can do. Even if you were to hire a competent immigration attorney, you'd only have a slim chance that an immigration judge would wipe your signed statement clear as if you never signed it, then overrule the decision of the I.O., and finally approve your AOS case.

Edited March 18, 2010 by Just Bob

[Ladylethal 12]

If you did sign an agreement of deportation, I'd find an immigration attorney yesterday! and see if you can still salvage the situation. Be prepared to show tons of evidence of the bonafide relationship but any comments of you should have had this or that won't matter now if you're already under deportation.

[When2RNLove 6]

I've been guilty of some comments that have come over not exactly the way I intended, so let me try to do this a bit more gentle.

You did not provide us with all the important information, so I'm just guessing that you married a US citizen in the United States while visiting here with a B2 or perhaps a student visa. When applying for adjustment of status (AOS), the Immigration Officer (I.O.) has one primary job: finding out if the marriage is legit, meaning if it was entered out of "love" and affection, not because the foreigner would greatly benefit from such marriage by getting a Green Card.

I've walked in your shoes, so I know the walk.

When trying to establish whether or not the marriage is legit, the I.O. has to use common sense and common "standards." What I mean with that is that she would have looked at every angle of your relationship. How you met, how long you knew each other, what you do for a living, whether or not you appear to be compatible, and how you got married. To tell you the truth, it is very unusual for a married couple not to have a single photo of their wedding. Even small weddings have in most cases at least a friend of family member ("best man") present, and getting married is one of the most exciting moments in most people's lives.

I don't know how the I.O. came to the conclusion that your relationship isn't real, but she did. By the way, in your post you didn't mention with a single word how your wife would be affected by you having to leave the country. No offense, but I find that strange as well.

In any case, if somebody is married "for love" and the I.O. tells them that she believes that their marriage is fraudulent and asks them to sign a statement to that effect (signing that the I.O. is correct), I doubt that many people would do that. Had that happened to me I would have said: "you are wrong; I am not signing this statement. I would like to speak with a supervisor, please."

But you didn't. You signed your deportation papers, for reasons only you know. But at this point of your journey, I doubt that there's anything you can do. Even if you were to hire a competent immigration attorney, you'd only have a slim chance that an immigration judge would wipe your signed statement clear as if you never signed it, then overrule the decision of the I.O., and finally approve your AOS case.

I have to agree with every word, comma, sentence and period. I think this was well said.

[MacTO 6]

Because I am new to this whole process, I can't imagine what kind of horrible thoughts are flooding your mind. It seems that it would be a difficult one to reverse, but I really hope that you can find a way. All the best.

[When2RNLove 6]

Because I am new to this whole process, I can't imagine what kind of horrible thoughts are flooding your mind. It seems that it would be a difficult one to reverse, but I really hope that you can find a way. All the best.

You're commenting on something you have no understanding of. I responded to a poster that simply reworded their thoughts that I found much kinder in the end versus their previous post and I was commending them. So therefore, there are no horrible thoughts.

Edited March 18, 2010 by Mike N Julie

[Kathryn41 3,205]

MacTo wrote: Because I am new to this whole process, I can't imagine what kind of horrible thoughts are flooding your mind. It seems that it would be a difficult one to reverse, but I really hope that you can find a way. All the best.

You're commenting on something you have no understanding of. I responded to a poster that simply reworded their thoughts that I found much kinder in the end versus their previous post and I was commending them. So therefore, there are no horrible thoughts.

I think this poster was directing his comments to the original OP:) and not the previous post.

Just Bob, thank you for clarifying your comments and expressing what you had to say in a way that is useful to the OP.

Edited March 18, 2010 by Kathryn41

[MacTO 6]

You're commenting on something you have no understanding of. I responded to a poster that simply reworded their thoughts that I found much kinder in the end versus their previous post and I was commending them. So therefore, there are no horrible thoughts.

First, yes, I am new to this. Second, I replied to the OP with kind words I can give. Cheers.

[When2RNLove 6]

First, yes, I am new to this. Second, I replied to the OP with kind words I can give. Cheers.

I guess we are all still feeling our ways around the new VJ. I am getting posts that were meant for others. Cheers.

[milimelo 4,220]

I've been guilty of some comments that have come over not exactly the way I intended, so let me try to do this a bit more gentle.

You did not provide us with all the important information, so I'm just guessing that you married a US citizen in the United States while visiting here with a B2 or perhaps a student visa. When applying for adjustment of status (AOS), the Immigration Officer (I.O.) has one primary job: finding out if the marriage is legit, meaning if it was entered out of "love" and affection, not because the foreigner would greatly benefit from such marriage by getting a Green Card.

I've walked in your shoes, so I know the walk.

When trying to establish whether or not the marriage is legit, the I.O. has to use common sense and common "standards." What I mean with that is that she would have looked at every angle of your relationship. How you met, how long you knew each other, what you do for a living, whether or not you appear to be compatible, and how you got married. To tell you the truth, it is very unusual for a married couple not to have a single photo of their wedding. Even small weddings have in most cases at least a friend of family member ("best man") present, and getting married is one of the most exciting moments in most people's lives.

I don't know how the I.O. came to the conclusion that your relationship isn't real, but she did. By the way, in your post you didn't mention with a single word how your wife would be affected by you having to leave the country. No offense, but I find that strange as well.

In any case, if somebody is married "for love" and the I.O. tells them that she believes that their marriage is fraudulent and asks them to sign a statement to that effect (signing that the I.O. is correct), I doubt that many people would do that. Had that happened to me I would have said: "you are wrong; I am not signing this statement. I would like to speak with a supervisor, please."

But you didn't. You signed your deportation papers, for reasons only you know. But at this point of your journey, I doubt that there's anything you can do. Even if you were to hire a competent immigration attorney, you'd only have a slim chance that an immigration judge would wipe your signed statement clear as if you never signed it, then overrule the decision of the I.O., and finally approve your AOS case.

Bob,

OP has several topics on K-1 forum so he came on a K-1 visa. His double post was in AOS from tourist... visas but I think it was there as he was trying to get more advice. Later his second topic was merged with this one.

[Jad28 1]

Yes exactly , anyway i was in the obligation to sign this deportation because you dont know anything about how and why for those were so rude , and yes be straight is fair but with a rude way is unfair , you can say it it is your right as an ignorant man who maybe was lucky ,i think i ll appeal and i ll not give up so easily because everything was fine with me , and i think i had all the necessary proof , maybe it was not my day , maybe it is good for me to leave this country for people like you, and yes beating around the bush is a naughty gesture to do , and not polit at all ,good luck for you in your life even if you dont need my advices , best wish , and for those who are really human with a nicely help and kind , i really applause again your encouragment and support . but i have never seen in my life , someone said i mean the officer the interviewer , you know find a work here in usa is so difficult because of the actual crs , you ll better do if you sign it , i mean she wanted me to leave i dont know why , thats why i say , she is racist and yes she is , and she was not doing her job , she was pushin me in the corner to let me feel depressed .

Thanks a lot and Respect for Those who deserve to be in VJ

[Jad28 1]

Yes you are Right , no doubt at all . i signed my Own fate and yes our relationship was about love i mean true love true love , thanks a lot the slim chance i ll take it and i ll defend my case as well as i can

[Darnell 8,478]

Jad28 - did you consult with immigration attorney, yet? Your calendar is short, hurry hurry !