Advice I Gave My Husband ...

[TBoneTX 43,405]

You got it exactly. Thanks. That was my whole point. BTW, I made up with Pushbrk in private messages and this dispute is settled. When you are in a lot of pain, and in a helpless situation, and feel misunderstood, and under attack, it's hard. I know I over reacted, but in my job you have to keep fighting, particularly when you know you are right - and you have to make sure the rules, regulations, and law are interpreted fairly and applied consistently. So I have an obsession about that. There's nothing worse than having a judge make a decision without reviewing the file, and that's basically what the OC did to us. But you got my point. So thanks.

I'm more confused now. In the timelines, the VJ member "verde" (join-date in 2006) lists "Naveed" as the petitioner and "Lori" as the beneficiary (likely switched). This member "numohame" (join-date Nov. 2009) lists "Emily" as the petitioner and "Naveed" as the beneficiary. In the quoted message here, "numohame" sounds like a suddenly-more-reasonable version of "verde." Are these two different people? The same person with two different accounts? Have I skipped my distemper shot again THIS month, and it's affecting my brain? Si, man?

One thing IS clear: Despite all of the initial patience shown to her, the member "verde" is wearing out her welcome.

[Donna A 4]

You got it exactly. Thanks. That was my whole point. BTW, I made up with Pushbrk in private messages and this dispute is settled. When you are in a lot of pain, and in a helpless situation, and feel misunderstood, and under attack, it's hard. I know I over reacted, but in my job you have to keep fighting, particularly when you know you are right - and you have to make sure the rules, regulations, and law are interpreted fairly and applied consistently. So I have an obsession about that. There's nothing worse than having a judge make a decision without reviewing the file, and that's basically what the OC did to us. But you got my point. So thanks.

I'm more confused now. In the timelines, the VJ member "verde" (join-date in 2006) lists "Naveed" as the petitioner and "Lori" as the beneficiary (likely switched). This member "numohame" (join-date Nov. 2009) lists "Emily" as the petitioner and "Naveed" as the beneficiary. In the quoted message here, "numohame" sounds like a suddenly-more-reasonable version of "verde." Are these two different people? The same person with two different accounts? Have I skipped my distemper shot again THIS month, and it's affecting my brain? Si, man?

One thing IS clear: Despite all of the initial patience shown to her, the member "verde" is wearing out her welcome.

other people have braught this up and she overlooks the comment. so that means ur probably not going to get an answer either.

[verde 0]

You got it exactly. Thanks. That was my whole point. BTW, I made up with Pushbrk in private messages and this dispute is settled. When you are in a lot of pain, and in a helpless situation, and feel misunderstood, and under attack, it's hard. I know I over reacted, but in my job you have to keep fighting, particularly when you know you are right - and you have to make sure the rules, regulations, and law are interpreted fairly and applied consistently. So I have an obsession about that. There's nothing worse than having a judge make a decision without reviewing the file, and that's basically what the OC did to us. But you got my point. So thanks.

I'm more confused now. In the timelines, the VJ member "verde" (join-date in 2006) lists "Naveed" as the petitioner and "Lori" as the beneficiary (likely switched). This member "numohame" (join-date Nov. 2009) lists "Emily" as the petitioner and "Naveed" as the beneficiary. In the quoted message here, "numohame" sounds like a suddenly-more-reasonable version of "verde." Are these two different people? The same person with two different accounts? Have I skipped my distemper shot again THIS month, and it's affecting my brain? Si, man?

One thing IS clear: Despite all of the initial patience shown to her, the member "verde" is wearing out her welcome.

other people have braught this up and she overlooks the comment. so that means ur probably not going to get an answer either.

Here is your answer. I have two names, a first and middle name just like most of you. I go by my middle name. Both my husband and I have an account. I was posting our CR1 timeline under my account and our K3 timeline under his account, and accidentally responded under his account. But I want off of here too - even though Pushbrk and others understand that I am sick in pain, scared, and frustrated - people like you make me feel unwanted and unwelcome so I don't want to be here. EWOK please do remove me. I will send you a private message. Even Pushbrk admitted when he first started he had rants and was upset with the injustice of the system. But I don't need to be insulted and dismissed and clearly told I am not welcome here, or have insinuations made about me. Thanks for your understanding, kindness, and support. Now you can go after the next new person who is having a hard time and scare them off too.

[pushbrk 12,221]

You got it exactly. Thanks. That was my whole point. BTW, I made up with Pushbrk in private messages and this dispute is settled. When you are in a lot of pain, and in a helpless situation, and feel misunderstood, and under attack, it's hard. I know I over reacted, but in my job you have to keep fighting, particularly when you know you are right - and you have to make sure the rules, regulations, and law are interpreted fairly and applied consistently. So I have an obsession about that. There's nothing worse than having a judge make a decision without reviewing the file, and that's basically what the OC did to us. But you got my point. So thanks.

I'm more confused now. In the timelines, the VJ member "verde" (join-date in 2006) lists "Naveed" as the petitioner and "Lori" as the beneficiary (likely switched). This member "numohame" (join-date Nov. 2009) lists "Emily" as the petitioner and "Naveed" as the beneficiary. In the quoted message here, "numohame" sounds like a suddenly-more-reasonable version of "verde." Are these two different people? The same person with two different accounts? Have I skipped my distemper shot again THIS month, and it's affecting my brain? Si, man?

One thing IS clear: Despite all of the initial patience shown to her, the member "verde" is wearing out her welcome.

other people have braught this up and she overlooks the comment. so that means ur probably not going to get an answer either.

Here is your answer. I have two names, a first and middle name just like most of you. I go by my middle name. Both my husband and I have an account. I was posting our CR1 timeline under my account and our K3 timeline under his account, and accidentally responded under his account. But I want off of here too - even though Pushbrk and others understand that I am sick in pain, scared, and frustrated - people like you make me feel unwanted and unwelcome so I don't want to be here. EWOK please do remove me. I will send you a private message. Even Pushbrk admitted when he first started he had rants and was upset with the injustice of the system. But I don't need to be insulted and dismissed and clearly told I am not welcome here, or have insinuations made about me. Thanks for your understanding, kindness, and support. Now you can go after the next new person who is having a hard time and scare them off too.

I said something to the effect that many have rants in the beginning, even me. I made no comparison with regard to the nature, magnitude or quantity of ranting as it would have been both inappropriate and unproductive.

[verde 0]

I see you know "Bush" Spanish - "Si, man" is all you can say, lol. Sorry, but you insulted me and apparently I'm not allowed to say anything back. But since I'm leaving anyway ...

You got it exactly. Thanks. That was my whole point. BTW, I made up with Pushbrk in private messages and this dispute is settled. When you are in a lot of pain, and in a helpless situation, and feel misunderstood, and under attack, it's hard. I know I over reacted, but in my job you have to keep fighting, particularly when you know you are right - and you have to make sure the rules, regulations, and law are interpreted fairly and applied consistently. So I have an obsession about that. There's nothing worse than having a judge make a decision without reviewing the file, and that's basically what the OC did to us. But you got my point. So thanks.

I'm more confused now. In the timelines, the VJ member "verde" (join-date in 2006) lists "Naveed" as the petitioner and "Lori" as the beneficiary (likely switched). This member "numohame" (join-date Nov. 2009) lists "Emily" as the petitioner and "Naveed" as the beneficiary. In the quoted message here, "numohame" sounds like a suddenly-more-reasonable version of "verde." Are these two different people? The same person with two different accounts? Have I skipped my distemper shot again THIS month, and it's affecting my brain? Si, man?

One thing IS clear: Despite all of the initial patience shown to her, the member "verde" is wearing out her welcome.

other people have braught this up and she overlooks the comment. so that means ur probably not going to get an answer either.

Here is your answer. I have two names, a first and middle name just like most of you. I go by my middle name. Both my husband and I have an account. I was posting our CR1 timeline under my account and our K3 timeline under his account, and accidentally responded under his account. But I want off of here too - even though Pushbrk and others understand that I am sick in pain, scared, and frustrated - people like you make me feel unwanted and unwelcome so I don't want to be here. EWOK please do remove me. I will send you a private message. Even Pushbrk admitted when he first started he had rants and was upset with the injustice of the system. But I don't need to be insulted and dismissed and clearly told I am not welcome here, or have insinuations made about me. Thanks for your understanding, kindness, and support. Now you can go after the next new person who is having a hard time and scare them off too.

I said something to the effect that many have rants in the beginning, even me. I made no comparison with regard to the nature, magnitude or quantity of ranting as it would have been both inappropriate and unproductive.

[verde 0]

I see you know "Bush" Spanish - "Si, man" is all you can say, lol. Sorry, but you insulted me and apparently I'm not allowed to say anything back. But since I'm leaving anyway ...

You got it exactly. Thanks. That was my whole point. BTW, I made up with Pushbrk in private messages and this dispute is settled. When you are in a lot of pain, and in a helpless situation, and feel misunderstood, and under attack, it's hard. I know I over reacted, but in my job you have to keep fighting, particularly when you know you are right - and you have to make sure the rules, regulations, and law are interpreted fairly and applied consistently. So I have an obsession about that. There's nothing worse than having a judge make a decision without reviewing the file, and that's basically what the OC did to us. But you got my point. So thanks.

I'm more confused now. In the timelines, the VJ member "verde" (join-date in 2006) lists "Naveed" as the petitioner and "Lori" as the beneficiary (likely switched). This member "numohame" (join-date Nov. 2009) lists "Emily" as the petitioner and "Naveed" as the beneficiary. In the quoted message here, "numohame" sounds like a suddenly-more-reasonable version of "verde." Are these two different people? The same person with two different accounts? Have I skipped my distemper shot again THIS month, and it's affecting my brain? Si, man?

One thing IS clear: Despite all of the initial patience shown to her, the member "verde" is wearing out her welcome.

other people have braught this up and she overlooks the comment. so that means ur probably not going to get an answer either.

Here is your answer. I have two names, a first and middle name just like most of you. I go by my middle name. Both my husband and I have an account. I was posting our CR1 timeline under my account and our K3 timeline under his account (since you can't post two timelines on one account), and accidentally responded under his account. But I want off of here too - even though Pushbrk and others understand that I am sick in pain, scared, and frustrated - people like you make me feel unwanted and unwelcome so I don't want to be here. EWOK please do remove me. I will send you a private message. Even Pushbrk admitted when he first started he had rants and was upset with the injustice of the system. But I don't need to be insulted and dismissed and clearly told I am not welcome here, or have insinuations made about me. Thanks for your understanding, kindness, and support. Now you, TBONE, can go after the next new person who is having a hard time and scare them off too.

I said something to the effect that many have rants in the beginning, even me. I made no comparison with regard to the nature, magnitude or quantity of ranting as it would have been both inappropriate and unproductive.

Pushbrk, I just meant that a lot of people come into this system and are upset over the subjectiveness of it and even you said you laugh at what you ranted about in the beginning. There is no need for this T-Bone person to be so mean. I give up!

[TBoneTX 43,405]

I give up!

You're a fighter. What did Winston Churchill say? "Never, EVER quit!"

[NavarreMan 10]

I know how to interpret the law - it's my job - but he's the one who is arguing, not me, I am only responding. If anyone would bother actually reading the content, they'd see what was happening. But anyway, I won't waste my time with him anymore. It's not worth it.

You're a judge? How cool is that!

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[belinda63 2,981]

Point is Verde obviously you have never dealt with our justice system or the government in any extensive way. What the law says, what the constitution says, what any legal document says is only good if someone decides to enforce it. And if they don't there is no one to go to have it fixed.

You are stuck in the system and while I agree with you that the law says, the manual says, the constitution says, etc. etc. There is not a thing you can do about it except complain. You cannot get it fixed, you cannot speed it up, you can do nothing but wait.

Feel lucky that your case was expediated as much as it was. I am sorry you are having some problems with your case but so did I. All you can do is wait. If he is in AP no one, and I mean no one can do anything. If he is being given a K-3 instead of a CR-1 (or the other way around) just go with it, at least he will get here. You are so busy creating stress over minor details and losing focus on the main issue, getting him here in the US.

When you deal with the government or the justice system you are at their mercy. Just an example. I was in prison, I was released and had my letter signed by the Warden that I had served out all my time. Two weeks later i was arrested again on the same charges because the prosecutor went to the judge and lied. I spent two more months in jail with my letter stating I had already served my time before I saw a judge and was released. There was not a thing I could to about it, I just had to sit in jail and wait.

Same thing here you are at their mercy. You will just have to wait.

[morocco4ever 63]

You got it exactly. Thanks. That was my whole point. BTW, I made up with Pushbrk in private messages and this dispute is settled. When you are in a lot of pain, and in a helpless situation, and feel misunderstood, and under attack, it's hard. I know I over reacted, but in my job you have to keep fighting, particularly when you know you are right - and you have to make sure the rules, regulations, and law are interpreted fairly and applied consistently. So I have an obsession about that. There's nothing worse than having a judge make a decision without reviewing the file, and that's basically what the OC did to us. But you got my point. So thanks.

I'm more confused now. In the timelines, the VJ member "verde" (join-date in 2006) lists "Naveed" as the petitioner and "Lori" as the beneficiary (likely switched). This member "numohame" (join-date Nov. 2009) lists "Emily" as the petitioner and "Naveed" as the beneficiary. In the quoted message here, "numohame" sounds like a suddenly-more-reasonable version of "verde." Are these two different people? The same person with two different accounts? Have I skipped my distemper shot again THIS month, and it's affecting my brain? Si, man?

One thing IS clear: Despite all of the initial patience shown to her, the member "verde" is wearing out her welcome.

other people have braught this up and she overlooks the comment. so that means ur probably not going to get an answer either.

And again she doesn't mention that she has done the immigration once before, which would shed light on the fact that the consulate needs to do extra security checks.

[NArocks 13]

Skips over the facts on a regular bases wants people to feel sorry for her, yet is not straight up when asked. The RED flag is waving if this is the 2nd time in 3 years you are applying for a visa for a differnt person.

So do not let the door hit ya.............

[Susita 175]

Verde ~

In no more than 2 sentences, 3 tops, please explain to me what kind of help it is that you need so that I can understand how to respond to you.

ANSWER ME LADY!

You go back and forth and argue with everyone in this thread but you won't answer a simple question. Do you want help or not? If so, what do you need help with!!?!?? I am trying to HELP!

[Susita 175]

Forgive my disgustingly large font and aggressive reply above. I have posted some advice for you on your other thread since other members made it clear what your problem was. I hope I could help out.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Here is your answer. I have two names, a first and middle name just like most of you. I go by my middle name. Both my husband and I have an account. I was posting our CR1 timeline under my account and our K3 timeline under his account, and accidentally responded under his account. But I want off of here too - even though Pushbrk and others understand that I am sick in pain, scared, and frustrated - people like you make me feel unwanted and unwelcome so I don't want to be here. EWOK please do remove me. I will send you a private message. Even Pushbrk admitted when he first started he had rants and was upset with the injustice of the system. But I don't need to be insulted and dismissed and clearly told I am not welcome here, or have insinuations made about me. Thanks for your understanding, kindness, and support. Now you can go after the next new person who is having a hard time and scare them off too.

Oh my god, not this ####### again. Lady, no one can make you feel anything.

[meowmeowmeow 0]

Edited November 20, 2009 by enraptured