To lie about sordid details?

[Applying4K1Visa 0]

The sordid thing is that i met my fiancee on a porn site, Streammate. She used to chat with guys and do private shows. We have decided to marry. We have made up our minds, so i am not asking for advice about that. Question is, should we lie on the K1 application and when she goes to her interview? We could make it vague, but what if they ask detailed questions during the interview? We did not break any laws and it was not a marriage broker site. We have good evidence for the relationship.

Anyone else met this way, pls PM me.

Should I get a lawyer before we file K1?

Thx

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Should you lie? No. No one here will advise you to do so since it is against the Terms of Service.

The only issue I potentially see with this is that her previous profession might put her within one of the categories of inadmissible aliens. Google that.

edited to add:

A person coming to the US to engage in prostitution, or who has engaged in prostitution within ten years of their application for entry, is inadmissible, as are those who have made financial profit from prostitution. No criminal conviction is required, and the bar applies even to nationals of countries where prostitution is legal. Those who have been forced into prostitution are not inadmissible.

This from Visalaw

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

No exchange of bodily fluids? Not even in the same room? Not a problem in my book. Call her profession "performance art".

[Penguin_ie 6,005]

Never lie, because that could lead to a lifetime ban. But, no need to volunteer info unless they ask for details. Plenty of people meet on the internet, so just say that in the letter and interview, unless they ask for details- you can say you started chatting and then did cam-to-cam, no need to say what exactly you saw unless they ask for the name of the site..... I don't think a lawyer can help you with this, so unless there are other issues, or you are realy bad at filling out the detailed forms needed for a visa, no need for a lawyer.

[utopia2004 2]

webcaming isnt prostitution? the person doesnt leave there own room? no sexual acts with another person are performed?

[Road 2 Peace Arch 0]

The sordid thing is that i met my fiancee on a porn site, Streammate. She used to chat with guys and do private shows. We have decided to marry. We have made up our minds, so i am not asking for advice about that. Question is, should we lie on the K1 application and when she goes to her interview? We could make it vague, but what if they ask detailed questions during the interview? We did not break any laws and it was not a marriage broker site. We have good evidence for the relationship.

Anyone else met this way, pls PM me.

Should I get a lawyer before we file K1?

Thx

You dont need a lawyer. Dont lie and dont cop out to stuff they dont ask information about. IMHO, vague is okay if you are honest and the same time and answer the question. You (and she) havent done anything wrong. Go for it!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

webcaming isnt prostitution? the person doesnt leave there own room? no sexual acts with another person are performed?

your post doesd not add anything to the discussion. refrain from personal attacks as they are against TOS. reported,

[Dakine 26]

If it's illegal in her country you have a problem.

Time for a lawyer if it is!

Edited October 9, 2009 by Dakine

[lyekka 5]

The sordid thing is that i met my fiancee on a porn site, Streammate. She used to chat with guys and do private shows. We have decided to marry. We have made up our minds, so i am not asking for advice about that. Question is, should we lie on the K1 application and when she goes to her interview? We could make it vague, but what if they ask detailed questions during the interview? We did not break any laws and it was not a marriage broker site. We have good evidence for the relationship.

Anyone else met this way, pls PM me.

Should I get a lawyer before we file K1?

Thx

You dont need a lawyer. Dont lie and dont cop out to stuff they dont ask information about. IMHO, vague is okay if you are honest and the same time and answer the question. You (and she) havent done anything wrong. Go for it!

I agree. Give honest answers, never lie. Just say you met online. I met my fiance online, and when people ask oh yeah were, and I tell them they always laugh at me hehe. We met playing World of Warcraft lol. So atleast your not laughed at haha.

[*JG* 2]

Is it illegal in her country?

[utopia2004 2]

webcaming isnt prostitution? the person doesnt leave there own room? no sexual acts with another person are performed?

your post doesd not add anything to the discussion. refrain from personal attacks as they are against TOS. reported,

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Sorry i was asking a question. i was trying to help the OP, im confused about the nature of this issue. what was the personal attack?

Edited October 9, 2009 by utopia2004

[Gary and Alla 3,696]

The sordid thing is that i met my fiancee on a porn site, Streammate. She used to chat with guys and do private shows. We have decided to marry. We have made up our minds, so i am not asking for advice about that. Question is, should we lie on the K1 application and when she goes to her interview? We could make it vague, but what if they ask detailed questions during the interview? We did not break any laws and it was not a marriage broker site. We have good evidence for the relationship.

Anyone else met this way, pls PM me.

Should I get a lawyer before we file K1?

Thx

No. Do not lie. You met on the internet. What's to lie about? Lots of K-1 petitions start this way...meeting on the internet. And something tells me the site is not subject to IMBRA regulations.

You also don't need a lawyer. Tell them it was a chat room. Perfectly honest answer. I doubt it is illegal in Russia, besides she has never been arrested and has no criminal record. The whole thing is a non-issue.

Edited October 9, 2009 by Gary and Alla

[utopia2004 2]

Would this come up in a background check?

[KnJ 0]

webcaming isnt prostitution? the person doesnt leave there own room? no sexual acts with another person are performed?

your post doesd not add anything to the discussion. refrain from personal attacks as they are against TOS. reported,

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Sorry i was asking a question. i was trying to help the OP, im confused about the nature of this issue. what was the personal attack?

this seems more like utopia2004 isn't a native english speaker than that they were trying to be.. antagonistic. at least, that's how i initially read the post.

ETA Utopia2004, please fill in your timeline

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I don't think a porn site = prostitution. Even if individuals are paying for a service that they get off on. So it seems this is more.. just information of a sensitive nature, than a question of a legal barrier. IMO

Edited October 9, 2009 by KnJ

[Beth/ Paris Heart 2]

Would this come up in a background check?

She will have to list her employment places and title on the DS-230 form when you turn in your paperwork at the embassy stage of this process . That is where you may have a problem. But like all said earlier, Do Not Lie!!!

But wont show up in back ground check to my knowledge. Good luck!!