Help! Does everybody sends snail mails for proof of relationship?

[tee_pee13 0]

Hello everyone! I just wanted to ask what are the evidences you prepare for proof of relationship. I have heard from friends who were approved that they had snail mails. Unfortunately, my fiancee doesn't want to do the snail mails. What if we don't have the snail mails, would that be a demerit?

I would appreciate any advice you may give to enlighten me... Thank you in advance... God bless us all

[payxibka 10,044]

i never sent snail mail

[Zee Bee 61]

We were asked to provide snail mail at our interview even though we had e-mails, chat logs, text message logs, passport stamps and pictures.

You can send like one card per month or something like that until the interview. Its not hard.

[Hell0W0rld 10]

we are in the 21st century, so there are alternatives in communication, so don't worry if you don't have any snail mail. i've known my fiancee for about 4 years now and have maybe 3 or 4 snail mail... just be sure you write more emails and chat more.....

[sara..... 371]

we never did send snail mail anything until this year, but because of the mess our case is felt it was necessary, so prolly is a good idea to do that just in case ur asked for anyone applying i think

sara

[tee_pee13 0]

i never sent snail mail

Wow thank you for the fast reply... Wow at least now i know someone without snails mails as proof... We'll all my friends has their snail mails... Thank you I have light now... God bless us

[tee_pee13 0]

We were asked to provide snail mail at our interview even though we had e-mails, chat logs, text message logs, passport stamps and pictures.

You can send like one card per month or something like that until the interview. Its not hard.

Thank you!!! Alright, I will ask him to do the snail mail, better have it, better be safe at the end... Thank you so much!!! God bless

[tee_pee13 0]

we are in the 21st century, so there are alternatives in communication, so don't worry if you don't have any snail mail. i've known my fiancee for about 4 years now and have maybe 3 or 4 snail mail... just be sure you write more emails and chat more.....

we chat more like everyday,but he doesn't send me emails.... Oh no.... we should email each other now I think... Thank you for the reply!!! Thanks thanks.... God bless us all

[tee_pee13 0]

we never did send snail mail anything until this year, but because of the mess our case is felt it was necessary, so prolly is a good idea to do that just in case ur asked for anyone applying i think

sara

ohh ok, yeah its wake up time to do the snail mails I think... Thank you for replying!!! Thanks:-) God bless us all

[JAPrincess 27]

Snail mail can be so romantic

I can't wait to get home and check my mailbox every day

[Mrs. Disney 0]

We sent copies of snail mails as proof of ongoing relationship but I don't think you have to send them or anything. Send what you've got to your service center and you should be good. Good luck in your journey!

[TBoneTX 43,253]

The consulates can be VERY behind the times. Ours insisted on seeing cards, etc., which luckily we had. Take NO CHANCES with ANY aspect of the consular interview!

[ThaitoUSA 15]

I believe most of what posters above have said covers it.

1) Snail mail is not necessary, as the Consulate Officer is looking at the whole picture. It would best to have phone records, emails, chat logs, etc. going both ways, not just from you to him or from him to you.

2) Snail mail can never hurt, even if you present 3 to 5 pieces each and it can be quite romantic. He can do it if for no other reason, then for the visa. If he still refuses it says a lot about how much care he is willing to put into the relationship.

3) Begin gathering the evidence today and continue until the interview. My fiancée and I have an abudance of evidence that spans nearly five years.

Wish the two of you all the very best!

[tee_pee13 0]

Snail mail can be so romantic

I can't wait to get home and check my mailbox every day

Yeah very romantic but my man doesn't want doing it,whew... I will ask him not to do this... Thanks dear... God bless us all

[tee_pee13 0]

We sent copies of snail mails as proof of ongoing relationship but I don't think you have to send them or anything. Send what you've got to your service center and you should be good. Good luck in your journey!

Thank you for giving me strength... I'm so down knowing that my friend from my hometown has their snail mails and others here... Thanks thanks... God bless us all