Help! Does everybody sends snail mails for proof of relationship?

[Nagishkaw 510]

We used snail mail a lot. It's the best proof because of the post mark on the envelopes. You can't fake that.

[tee_pee13 0]

The consulates can be VERY behind the times. Ours insisted on seeing cards, etc., which luckily we had. Take NO CHANCES with ANY aspect of the consular interview!

Ohhh no, we should exchange snail mails I guess... Yeah better have all and be safe if they ask for it... Thank you for a very good input... thank you thank you... God bless us all

[tee_pee13 0]

I believe most of what posters above have said covers it.

1) Snail mail is not necessary, as the Consulate Officer is looking at the whole picture. It would best to have phone records, emails, chat logs, etc. going both ways, not just from you to him or from him to you.

2) Snail mail can never hurt, even if you present 3 to 5 pieces each and it can be quite romantic. He can do it if for no other reason, then for the visa. If he still refuses it says a lot about how much care he is willing to put into the relationship.

3) Begin gathering the evidence today and continue until the interview. My fiancée and I have an abudance of evidence that spans nearly five years.

Wish the two of you all the very best!

thank you for that precise input... yeah I will begin collecting our evidence... thank you for replying dear!!! God bless us all...

[Jo&Si 9]

Hi everyone!

We have never sent snails mails ...we talk online a lot and a little bit on phone...I live in Caribbean now so it`s very expensive to talk on phone...

So we have boarding passes, emails, pictures, and we asked our kids and friends to write a letter to bring at the interview mentionning that we have a real relationship and that they have met our fiance...

Do you think it`s good enough???

Thanks and good luck to all of you!

Jo

[reeses16 8]

We sent a few. Probably not more than 3-4. We had a lot of e-mails. Also, I sometimes referenced our phone calls in our e-mails.

[phgirllovesjoe 1]

Hi tee pee13,

OMG!we dont have emails too..coz we usually talk everyday also..is it really mandatory to have emails?

Any suggestions...pls pls pls....GOD BLESS TO ALL!

[gennyangel 3]

We used snail mail a lot. It's the best proof because of the post mark on the envelopes. You can't fake that.

i agree with nagishkaw...even if you petition an alien relative say your parents that doesnt know how to use computers this is a best evidence...

it wouldnt hurt to have at least 3 or 4 snail mail in addition to your proof of continous relationship but if your fiance insist not to do so hopefully your skype proof wouldnt be a problem

[AbbynSheryl 0]

hey I never send her any mail since we met but we talk 365 days a year online atleast 8-10 hours a day on yahoo and skype. but after reading ur post i am sending her some cards and i know she will be so surprised and shocked to see them. thank u for clearing this subject. I still have about 3 months before the interview and i will atleast send two or three cards to her in a month. best wishes. abby n sheryl

[marklovetina 52]

Hello everyone! I just wanted to ask what are the evidences you prepare for proof of relationship. I have heard from friends who were approved that they had snail mails. Unfortunately, my fiancee doesn't want to do the snail mails. What if we don't have the snail mails, would that be a demerit?

I would appreciate any advice you may give to enlighten me... Thank you in advance... God bless us all

hehehe.. hello.. yes sis we are doin it also.. snail mail...

[tee_pee13 0]

We used snail mail a lot. It's the best proof because of the post mark on the envelopes. You can't fake that.

Oh my God! I think we're in trouble... thank you very much... God bless us all

[tee_pee13 0]

We sent a few. Probably not more than 3-4. We had a lot of e-mails. Also, I sometimes referenced our phone calls in our e-mails.

thank you for replying! we should move now to exchange snail mails... thank you... God bless us all

[gennyangel 3]

hey I never send her any mail since we met but we talk 365 days a year online atleast 8-10 hours a day on yahoo and skype. but after reading ur post i am sending her some cards and i know she will be so surprised and shocked to see them. thank u for clearing this subject. I still have about 3 months before the interview and i will atleast send two or three cards to her in a month. best wishes. abby n sheryl

abid thats a very good idea and such a good move for you to do....

[tee_pee13 0]

Hi everyone!

We have never sent snails mails ...we talk online a lot and a little bit on phone...I live in Caribbean now so it`s very expensive to talk on phone...

So we have boarding passes, emails, pictures, and we asked our kids and friends to write a letter to bring at the interview mentionning that we have a real relationship and that they have met our fiance...

Do you think it`s good enough???

Thanks and good luck to all of you!

Jo

better be safe, I'm considering to exchange snail mails now... They say its good proof, and that no one can fake it... God bless us all on our journey

[tee_pee13 0]

Hi tee pee13,

OMG!we dont have emails too..coz we usually talk everyday also..is it really mandatory to have emails?

Any suggestions...pls pls pls....GOD BLESS TO ALL!

We're on the same boat!!! ohh no... my fiancee doesn't want to do snail mails, but I'm considering of doing it now because of friends here who believe in doing this as good proof... whew... Let's do it!!! God bless us

[gennyangel 3]

Hi tee pee13,

OMG!we dont have emails too..coz we usually talk everyday also..is it really mandatory to have emails?

Any suggestions...pls pls pls....GOD BLESS TO ALL!

We're on the same boat!!! ohh no... my fiancee doesn't want to do snail mails, but I'm considering of doing it now because of friends here who believe in doing this as good proof... whew... Let's do it!!! God bless us

we talk everyday,i can show you proof but still we have snail mails mine has reached to more than 10 for a year that weve known each other and cards too...

aside from that we have txt each other since its expensive for phone calls....

if you talk via skype then if theres a way you can show your call history,a screen shot of it then that will add to your proof...