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Mags and I are pretty good together. She keeps me from telling people what they really are, and therefore keeps me from getting banned from VJ permanently. lol

OMG I can so relate to you. That's what Charles do and I thank him for that.



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he hates to shop, I love it...so I shop for the both of us! he likes the clothes I pick up for him, everyone says he's dressing better since I arrived :D.

Differences are great and fun :P enjoy them! :thumbs:

Saludos,

Caro

Gary hate to shop for himself..he always tell me that as long as his clothes still cover his body he don't need to buy any even the clothes are faded and old . :angry: I had to do the shopping for the 3 of us. Every time he come over to visit me when I still in the Philippines he comes back home with 2 big suitcase full of new clothes. He don't like it but the wifey insist! :P

Now he looks gorgeous. :luv::D

sorry about the empty post..Bruha jump on the keyboard while I'm typing.. :blush:

Oh hi, hahaha, akala co yun ang post mo.. kaya mejo nalito na aco.. im talkin to u in tagalog na, hope u dont mind? well, i agree sau, my husband also hindi masyado picky with his clothes, though aco (i think most filipinos though) are may pagkamaartes oh let me say gusto diba natin lagi presentable? so i think , nakita co difference is di masyado picky american sa damit , would u believe husband co dont mind kahit di plantsado damit, omg, aco naman papahubad co sa kanya yun at ayaw co sya magsuot ng di plantsado, well, some are really funny, but its ok, we talk abt without offending each other and jokingly , so thats good. im happy to hear from you abt how u are dealing with your husband... nakakakuha me ng aral... thanks ha...

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he hates to shop, I love it...so I shop for the both of us! he likes the clothes I pick up for him, everyone says he's dressing better since I arrived :D.

Differences are great and fun :P enjoy them! :thumbs:

Saludos,

Caro

Gary hate to shop for himself..he always tell me that as long as his clothes still cover his body he don't need to buy any even the clothes are faded and old . :angry: I had to do the shopping for the 3 of us. Every time he come over to visit me when I still in the Philippines he comes back home with 2 big suitcase full of new clothes. He don't like it but the wifey insist! :P

Now he looks gorgeous. :luv::D

sorry about the empty post..Bruha jump on the keyboard while I'm typing.. :blush:

Oh hi, hahaha, akala co yun ang post mo.. kaya mejo nalito na aco.. im talkin to u in tagalog na, hope u dont mind? well, i agree sau, my husband also hindi masyado picky with his clothes, though aco (i think most filipinos though) are may pagkamaartes oh let me say gusto diba natin lagi presentable? so i think , nakita co difference is di masyado picky american sa damit , would u believe husband co dont mind kahit di plantsado damit, omg, aco naman papahubad co sa kanya yun at ayaw co sya magsuot ng di plantsado, well, some are really funny, but its ok, we talk abt without offending each other and jokingly , so thats good. im happy to hear from you abt how u are dealing with your husband... nakakakuha me ng aral... thanks ha...

who is bruha by the way? a dog or cat? hmmmm...

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Mags and I are pretty good together. She keeps me from telling people what they really are, and therefore keeps me from getting banned from VJ permanently. lol

OMG I can so relate to you. That's what Charles do and I thank him for that.

only cause i know everything one can be suspended for around here from personal experience :lol:

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Hi, thanks for sharing that... thats so very good advise for everyone out here.... differences is not always a bad thing...... (L) (L) (L)

np, Good Luck to you! :thumbs:

Gary hate to shop for himself..he always tell me that as long as his clothes still cover his body he don't need to buy any even the clothes are faded and old . :angry: I had to do the shopping for the 3 of us. Every time he come over to visit me when I still in the Philippines he comes back home with 2 big suitcase full of new clothes. He don't like it but the wifey insist! :P

Now he looks gorgeous. :luv::D

sorry about the empty post..Bruha jump on the keyboard while I'm typing.. :blush:

I figured! :D

What is it with men and their old shirts?? :lol:

Saludos,

Caro

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What is it with men and their old shirts?? :lol:

Saludos,

Caro

and underwear and socks :blush:

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Hi, thanks for sharing that... thats so very good advise for everyone out here.... differences is not always a bad thing...... (L) (L) (L)

np, Good Luck to you! :thumbs:

Gary hate to shop for himself..he always tell me that as long as his clothes still cover his body he don't need to buy any even the clothes are faded and old . :angry: I had to do the shopping for the 3 of us. Every time he come over to visit me when I still in the Philippines he comes back home with 2 big suitcase full of new clothes. He don't like it but the wifey insist! :P

Now he looks gorgeous. :luv::D

sorry about the empty post..Bruha jump on the keyboard while I'm typing.. :blush:

I figured! :D

What is it with men and their old shirts?? :lol:

Saludos,

Caro

Thank you and to you too good luck and best wishes.... :)

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he hates to shop, I love it...so I shop for the both of us! he likes the clothes I pick up for him, everyone says he's dressing better since I arrived :D.

Differences are great and fun :P enjoy them! :thumbs:

Saludos,

Caro

Gary hate to shop for himself..he always tell me that as long as his clothes still cover his body he don't need to buy any even the clothes are faded and old . :angry: I had to do the shopping for the 3 of us. Every time he come over to visit me when I still in the Philippines he comes back home with 2 big suitcase full of new clothes. He don't like it but the wifey insist! :P

Now he looks gorgeous. :luv::D

sorry about the empty post..Bruha jump on the keyboard while I'm typing.. :blush:

Oh hi, hahaha, akala co yun ang post mo.. kaya mejo nalito na aco.. im talkin to u in tagalog na, hope u dont mind? well, i agree sau, my husband also hindi masyado picky with his clothes, though aco (i think most filipinos though) are may pagkamaartes oh let me say gusto diba natin lagi presentable? so i think , nakita co difference is di masyado picky american sa damit , would u believe husband co dont mind kahit di plantsado damit, omg, aco naman papahubad co sa kanya yun at ayaw co sya magsuot ng di plantsado, well, some are really funny, but its ok, we talk abt without offending each other and jokingly , so thats good. im happy to hear from you abt how u are dealing with your husband... nakakakuha me ng aral... thanks ha...

who is bruha by the way? a dog or cat? hmmmm...

This is Bruha and Tabujet. Bruha is the black one and Tabujet is the grey one.

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What is it with men and their old shirts?? :lol:

Saludos,

Caro

and underwear and socks :blush:

:lol:

now, the benefit of underwear and socks, is...you don't have to consult before throwing them away. A shirt I might ask if it has a sentimental value (many of Justin's concert shirts do, that's fine). Socks and underwear, no mercy! :P:no:

Saludos,

Caro

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now, the benefit of underwear and socks, is...you don't have to consult before throwing them away. A shirt I might ask if it has a sentimental value (many of Justin's concert shirts do, that's fine). Socks and underwear, no mercy! :P:no:

definitely...and just to make sure they don't get pulled out of the bin, I rip them totally apart....good stress reliever too! :D

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What is it with men and their old shirts?? :lol:

Saludos,

Caro

and underwear and socks :blush:

:lol:

now, the benefit of underwear and socks, is...you don't have to consult before throwing them away. A shirt I might ask if it has a sentimental value (many of Justin's concert shirts do, that's fine). Socks and underwear, no mercy! :P:no:

Saludos,

Caro

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sister fracas, now sister caro..sanita...what is with wives..throwing away their husband good underwear and tee shirts..........................

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What is it with men and their old shirts?? :lol:

Saludos,

Caro

and underwear and socks :blush:

:lol:

now, the benefit of underwear and socks, is...you don't have to consult before throwing them away. A shirt I might ask if it has a sentimental value (many of Justin's concert shirts do, that's fine). Socks and underwear, no mercy! :P:no:

Saludos,

Caro

I just tear them up and turn them into rags esp those shirts that come from his ex's . :P ..socks throw away

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he hates to shop, I love it...so I shop for the both of us! he likes the clothes I pick up for him, everyone says he's dressing better since I arrived :D.

Differences are great and fun :P enjoy them! :thumbs:

Saludos,

Caro

Gary hate to shop for himself..he always tell me that as long as his clothes still cover his body he don't need to buy any even the clothes are faded and old . :angry: I had to do the shopping for the 3 of us. Every time he come over to visit me when I still in the Philippines he comes back home with 2 big suitcase full of new clothes. He don't like it but the wifey insist! :P

Now he looks gorgeous. :luv::D

sorry about the empty post..Bruha jump on the keyboard while I'm typing.. :blush:

You have a cat named Bruha? Is it black?

ETA: Oh sorry, now I see the the pics. :blush:

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Mags and I are pretty good together. She keeps me from telling people what they really are, and therefore keeps me from getting banned from VJ permanently. lol

OMG I can so relate to you. That's what Charles do and I thank him for that.

only cause i know everything one can be suspended for around here from personal experience :lol:

Charles, I am the poster child for this subject. :P

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