Discovered fraud 2 weeks into K1 marriage- annulment, vawa? (split)

[subwayguy 100]

Haven't had any PI nurses so I can't comment on their expertise but I agree on the strong US ally

perspective.

Unless of course some CO's see a potential cute young PI scammer as less of a threat than a potential

Ghanaian black male scammer. Who knows !

When I grew up, we had a live in domestic helper from the PH, she said a lot of girls would spend years in front of computer screen , wishing one of those western man 3 times of their age would bite.

Of course not all Filipino women are like that. But, who do you blame? Why would any 50+ years old, 250+ pounds , minimum wage earning , GED education plus alimony believe they are all of a sudden Price Charming to some 20 years old , seme demi attractive single mother of 3 in the PH?

Mutual benefits, buddy.

[Russ&Caro 1,548]

When I grew up, we had a live in domestic helper from the PH, she said a lot of girls would spend years in front of computer screen , wishing one of those western man 3 times of their age would bite.

Of course not all Filipino women are like that. But, who do you blame? Why would any 50+ years old, 250+ pounds , minimum wage earning , GED education plus alimony believe they are all of a sudden Price Charming to some 20 years old , seme demi attractive single mother of 3 in the PH?

Mutual benefits, buddy.

How does a minimum wage earning man afford trips to the Philippines and all the attendant costs associated with immigration?

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

They do want someone with enough dough to bite. They like nice things ya know

[Merrytooth 5,748]

They do want someone with enough dough to bite. They like nice things ya know

The trend is get into US first (green card) and then find sugar daddy ($$$) later.

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

Or two or three.

[subwayguy 100]

How does a minimum wage earning man afford trips to the Philippines and all the attendant costs associated with immigration?

minimum wage here in the states = high income in the PH. and round trip ticket from the states is roughly 1,000.

[Russ&Caro 1,548]

minimum wage here in the states = high income in the PH. and round trip ticket from the states is roughly 1,000.

Airfare - 1,000

Hotel for 1 week - 700 (you're not going to stay in some bad part of Manila)

Restaurants for 1 week - 300 (at least, again not in bad part of town)

US Passport - 100

Immigration fees 1,000

Website charges where the minimum wage guy meets PH girl - who knows?

In your example you mention the guy is 50+. Guys who are 50+ earning minimum wage usually have complicated lives. Maybe they've been convicted. Maybe they have lots of debt. Maybe they pay child support. Maybe they help support their aged parents. That $15,000 they earn gets stretched pretty thin. Not sure really how they stretch it further by successfully wooing and then landing a PH girl here on a K-1.

Also, the standard of living in PH on $7.50 US/hour isn't really relevant to how a guy can support himself in the U.S. on this wage plus bring a PH girl here.

[FxL 39]

Wow this got out of control.

[khwaidee1 196]

Wow this got out of control.

"Literally"!

[TBoneTX 43,058]

The OP hasn't logged on to the site in 10 days. Let's stick to his topic or refrain from posting, please.

[davexxx 0]

On 6/19/2016 at 6:59 PM, NuestraUnion said:

Wow. Tough break. Seems like she has her feet on US soil so half the battle is over. This sounds like a long plan in the making. Did you also get the name of her bf? In case he could be doing the same to an unsuspecting USC woman?

I hope you can get the annulment and the fraudulent VAWA case dismissed.

Best of luck.

Yes, I know the name of the bf. It's in the conversations as well. I recently discovered the aunt she was living with before the marriage was arrested for caregiver fraud. She was stealing money from the old man she was caring for. This network of scammers are living in the Chicago area and have filed civil suits against me in both IL and CT. Annulment is pending but I may have to settle for a divorce. I have been trying to get Homeland Security to move on my case.

[davexxx 0]

On 6/22/2016 at 10:28 AM, Bluey said:

Oh my... what a terrible experience.

You said you guys married two years ago, so is it the time for her to file ROC?
If so, can you get an infopass to let the officer know about the situation that they can decline her ROC?

No one at Homeland will give me any updates on my case. Really frustrating!!

I reported her to immigration several times and as far back as Nov, 2014, They told me they dont have the resources to investigate individuals....only if it involves 10 or more people.

[Cyberfx1024 7,978]

28 minutes ago, davexxx said:

Yes, I know the name of the bf. It's in the conversations as well. I recently discovered the aunt she was living with before the marriage was arrested for caregiver fraud. She was stealing money from the old man she was caring for. This network of scammers are living in the Chicago area and have filed civil suits against me in both IL and CT. Annulment is pending but I may have to settle for a divorce. I have been trying to get Homeland Security to move on my case.

I am sorry you having to go through this man. I know this must suck for you. All Filipinas are not like this one you just need to find a good one.

[Boiler 43,433]

24 minutes ago, davexxx said:

No one at Homeland will give me any updates on my case. Really frustrating!!

I reported her to immigration several times and as far back as Nov, 2014, They told me they dont have the resources to investigate individuals....only if it involves 10 or more people.

What is your case?

[TBoneTX 43,058]

Depending on your case and any criminal charges potentially involved against the scammers, can you involve state or local authorities?