LIFE'SJOURNEY

Sir, none of this matters to immigration, I know it matters to you, but NOT to immigration. The threating phone calls, how and why would you continue to be a part of it. Do you get some pleasure out of it, a simple call to change your phone number stops all of it. Now, if you are hoping that the mother has a chnage of heart and wants to come back to be a part of the children lives, then continue on with the calls. Since only you know the contents of the phone calls, and what is being exchanged between the 2 parties on the line, everyone opinions as subjective to what you are saying.
But for immigration you have not shown any thing that would warrant a U visa, and the VAWA petition is very iffify. This has been a long 17 page post of you repeating the same things and strangers keeping you entertained.

I am talking about VAWA. There isn't a current order of protection in place because no one has been able to find her since 2006. Correct? SIX YEARS AGO you had an order of protection. the order of protection is meant to keep her away from you - and from what you've said, she has stayed away! how is her exploiting herself online abuse? how is "fraud" that has never resulted in any sort of charge or conviction or even an investigation - going to prove you've been abused? it only proves she committed fraud.
i am an extremely liberal person. i don't agree with deportation and separating families - pretty much ever. but i think if you did a little investigation, you'd find that there are plenty of good, loving parents that have been deported and taken away from their families. i have two nieces who will not be able to see their father again until they either win a lottery ticket to pay for plane tickets (when they get old enough - they are 3 & 5) or turn 21 to petition for him. he was deported to cambodia last year. he had only lived in cambodia until he was six months old. he was brought to the US by his family and eventually fell out of status. in his early thirties he had his girls and was with their mother. shortly after the second daughter's birth - their mother decided she'd rather party and drink than care for the kids - so he did everything, provided everything. cops were called plenty of times to their house as she would come home drunk and throw things at him, trying to get him to hit her. she knew that he could get deported and he had to find a way to get legal. in an effort to somehow get legal, he took some bad advice from a friend he turned himself in for a minor drug conviction from when he was 19, to try and make sure he wouldn't be taken away from his children. guess what? even though he had raised those girls for the most part - by himself - from birth to four years..he was deported. they are now in custody of their mother, who recently (june) got two d.u.i's WITH THE GIRLS IN THE CAR! after serving 15 days, she got the girls back and continues to be a poor parent. all while their father can only watch them grow up through pictures on facebook. it is heartbreaking. i know others have told you this, but if you really care about your kids - you'll get this all resolved quick, before your kids are all alone to fend for themselves in a very cold, uncaring, system.

Here is a thought. Instead of generalizing that every Filipina is like your wife, and your wife's family is like every family in all the provinces, and and your wife's village is like all the rest.. why not see your wife as a individual? She chooses to be like that, perhaps she was raised like that, and that's okay.. That's why you fell in love with her, and that's what you like about her. It doesn't mean we are all like that. My mom was raised in a village, a province, and yet she is nothing like her, neither is her family like your wife's. Nothing wrong with that, the one cool thing about humans is that we all have different qualities and attitudes. :)That goes with every culture!
Okay, done with my little rant.. other than that, you did post some valid points, like knowing drugs etc, and having an interpreter for those not adept in English.

No problem, your hubby can come to the US and leave the very next day. His GC will be activated, he doesn't have to wait six months from the date of the visa. Once he has ativated his GC, he can stay in Jamaica until 12/31 without any problems. He can travel back and forth to visit after he has activated his GC at POE. He will get a stamp in his passport that he can use until actual GC comes in the mail.
This information only pertains to a CR1 or 1R visa.

You needs to understand if/when your wife goes back home, she will never come back. Your wife is not happy in her current situation, maybe you needs to think about moving to Chile if you want this marriage to survive. Maybe you should think about making the adjustment to their environment. Good luck,
I have read all past and present posts before I commented.

You needs to understand if/when your wife goes back home, she will never come back. Your wife is not happy in her current situation, maybe you needs to think about moving to Chile if you want this marriage to survive. Maybe you should think about making the adjustment to their environment. Good luck,
I have read all past and present posts before I commented.

She doesn't have to mention anything the US govt knows, so she would not have been ale to obtain USC. Also the lie she stated hat she was single, would have surfaced.

Then what you have written tells me, you donot have sole custody of these children. You are still under the courts direction regarding custody of these children. If you have sole custody of your children, NO one can stop you from removing them out of the country.
Again, as I said before there are more missing pieces to this story.

You are looking at a tough case, you are looking at a very long road, and the end may not be to your liking. Seek quality legal advise, not this DIY forum.

Unbelievable..
Cant we just help people without being judgemental or jumping to conclusions.. It's always the same attackers.. you guys dont have lives? Seriously.. If you only intend to attack, then dont waist good webserver space...
This is not a forum to determine someones guilt, inocense, or whether due process was served or not; and your "holy'r than thou" attitude does nothing to further the objective nor does it make anyone bow to your ridiculous attacks.. Get a life...
Unbelievable.. Simply Unbelievable
That's the issue with internet, I guess, they let anyone in...

Then what you have written tells me, you donot have sole custody of these children. You are still under the courts direction regarding custody of these children. If you have sole custody of your children, NO one can stop you from removing them out of the country.
Again, as I said before there are more missing pieces to this story.

This entire post was only about how you could obtain a DL legally.
All you want is a DL period.........
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You are looking at a tough case, you are looking at a very long road, and the end may not be to your liking. Seek quality legal advise, not this DIY forum.

So what country did you live mos of your life in, except the USA.
If your wife had any type of charges she did not obtain USC, no matter what she might have told you.

Nothing is stoping him frm going home, so why is USCIS just ridiculous? Poor and out of money, usually means it's time to go home. Who was paying for his education, he was on a student visa correct, couldn't thse same people assist with the fee for a lawyer.
Also he had to be out of status for a while inorder to land on I.C.E pick-up list, so how was he surviving while he was out of status.

Then list me 5 skills you have that should qualify you to be paid more than $8.00 per hours. Also, what is the mimimun wage for jobs in your home country. Not trying to be rude, we now are going to work with FACTS.
Then what do you want to do about what is in the quote, not once had I heard you talk about going back to school to get a higher education. Do you have what is equal to a high school diploma?

Jandk you said " i would personally settle for an American woman, they can put up with that kind of behavior from you", which rock did you crawl out of?. There is no one single freaking difference between american and foreign women. Character has no face or nationality.

I do not believe at all that she left the Country. ShelterS NEVER get involved to the point to go to someones house and take the person to the airport. Her friend LIED TO YOU. Shelters offer a safe place to stay and if the person is in danger they call the cops.I do not believe in a single thing her friend told you.

Darren from reading your multi post, you have given others to believe that you don't understand how or what your marriage should consist of. Not quite sure if consist is the right work right now. But, you would benefit from some individual marriage counseling. You don't understand the expectations or what you should give or receive from within a marriage. Remember this is your 2nd marriage and you are asking about everyday situations that most would expect young couples to be having issues with in their marriage.
Cooking, a shared responsibility.
Throwing away of food, make the statement that this is unaccepatable.
Wife pregnancy, this is her first time, she has no idea what to expect.
Speaking in a forgein language when you are present, explain it is not acceptable in your home and present. You can't control other peoples home.
Reading to your kids, note those are your kids reading is YOUR quality time with them. If she wants to be present then that will need to be a decision wife will have to make on her own. Wife is learning many new things at one time, you must learn to be patient. gees
If you teach, she will learn, if you expect and demand of things she has no knowlege how can you complain.
Darren seek professional marriage counseling, or you will continue to make everyone un-happy.

Betsy El sum she was victim of domestic violence because of that she is entitled to receive public benefits. Who are you to say she is a burden to the taxpayers?
The Law allows her to receive public benefits and there is nothing wrong with that.We need to be more compassionate towards those who suffered domestic abuse . She wrote that she got prima facie determination it means she was victim of domestic violence and the USCIS approved her case to get public benefits.
Bjandrea I am so sorry for all suffering you endured here in the USA. Forgive those people that don't know God's words about respect and compassion and have no clue about Immigration Law as well.
Take care my dear.Peace.

Marrige is a hugh responsibility, being that your bf is sick if you'll marry you will become responsibile for any medical debt that he should incurr. Think this through completely, there is more involved than being by his side while he gones thru treatment. You are from a country that allows you to visit for 90 days without a visa, don't think rushing to marry is your only option.

Your mother can't stay. She came on a visitors visa, for visiting. Even if you tried to AOS in country they will get the current petition and see that you are trying to aviod being fiancially responsible for your mother. She will be deportable if she overstays her visa and that will only make it harder on her ever getting a visa. Does your family have any assets that could be converted to cash ? It is a requirement that you show you can care for her before she will be granted a visa here or there. Forget trying to fudge the system and concentrate on overcoming the issue of support. If you can't overcome the issue then you may have to move on to finding the best way to care for her in your country.

I am of the opinion that unless it's a K-1 visa applying for the AOS, the AP shouldn't be granted if currently in overstay.

I am sorry about the situation but no woman/man is worth giving up your kids. That is selfish of her to ask.

Please refrain from posting the same questions multiple times. Simply post them and wait for the responses. Keeping the conversation in one place makes it easier for all members.
If you are really having a lot of difficulty finding answers to these questions I suggest that you hire someone to help.