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Why do so many people come to this site to ask advice/questions then go on to argue with every last person giving them the correct information just because it isn't what they want to hear?

Asking for an entire forum. 

Practicing meteorology without a license, si Eh ma'am!  Reported!!!
Bad meteorogically unlicensed Eh ma'am!  Bad, BAD meteorogically unlicensed METEOROGICALLY UNLICENSED Eh ma'am!

I also went and looked back in the post history and something isn't quite right. In 2019 you posted that you were the immigrant and Deb was going to be filing either the K or CR. Now you and Deb have a duck farm and she is in a detention center and you are the USC who can rescue her by a quick zoom marriage but the problem is the ducks. They will have to be sold to free your love from jail. Umm. Any thoughts from the mods?

Let this be a lesson to those who would brazenly eliminate all closets from casa.

Quite exciting Sunday report, definitely see man:
 
Awoke far too early, need further zzz we man.
Fed Mini-B. and prepped him for visit to Mama T-B., doting senior she man.
Immediately started Laundry Load #1, knew what we were facing soon man.
Not raining, but skies threatening, uh-oh man.
 
Contacted neighbor with truck, collect yesterday's ES furniture he and we man.
Hastily threw LL#1 in dryer and warshered LL#2, hastily efficient we man.
Hastily dropped Mini-B. with Mama T-B., run off we man.
Not raining, but skies threatening, uh-oh man.
 
Took T-B.-mobile to ES for possible cramming of chairs into it, ultimately not needed man.
Neighbor arrived in truck, dependable he man.
Not raining, but skies threatening, uh-oh man.
 
Neighbor painstakingly inspected each item for sale at ES, thorough he man.
Neighbor bought old cookbooks and 2 wine glasses for $2, steal man.
We bought ourself the stuff mentioned above, steal man.
Not raining, but skies threatening, uh-oh man.
 
Neighbor and we carried chairs and table leaves to truck bed, carry us back to old Virginny man.
Neighbor disassembled table legs, deconstructive he man.
Neighbor and we carried wooden tabletop to truck, need body transplant afterwards we man.
Neighbor and we placed wooden tabletop face-down atop chairs, sensible he man.
Not raining, but skies ominously threatening, uh-oh man.
 
We returned to casa in the T-B.-mobile, return we man.
Neighbor stayed behind to help lady customer load her purchased furniture, helpful he man.
En route, monsoon began, oh [censored] man.
Monsoon somehow quit at casa, still oh [censored] man.
 
Neighbor soon arrived with dry furniture in dry truck, miraculous to report man.
His route had somehow avoided the monsoon, miraculous to report man.
 
Neighbor and we unloaded and brought in table, chairs, legs, and leaves, easy job man.
Curious miu did not escape out door, interior miu man.
Neighbor reassembled table legs, screwed tightly for no wobbles man.
 
Table was made in Hickory, N.C. in (it appears) the year 1ManyManyMany, not foreign junk man.
Table was owned by a dentist, confirmed by ES lady and by prosthodontic books for sale man.
 
Neighbor and we centered table on floor and arranged chairs, perfect placement man.
Neighbor got into truck to leave and a nonstop monsoon began, what timing man.
 
We shone table with furniture polish, can of same bought at an earlier ES for $1 man.
Table shines like an illegitimate male child, magnificent man.
 
Retrieved Mini-B. from Mama T-B., great time had by multiple generations there man.
Showed Mini-B. table, genuinely impressed wee man.
Let Mini-B. try cushioned chair, genuinely impressed butt of wee man.
 
Continued laundry, conquer LLs #1, #2, & #Many man.
Made beds and did other Sunday pre-workweek prep, too much man.
Napped for nearly 2 hours like a dead thing, zzz we man.
 
While we were zzz-ing, Ex-Mrs.-T-B. came over, misjudged start time of AFV she man.
We didn't hear a thing, dead-to-world we man.
Ex-Mrs.-T-B. collected boxes of her junk, stored here all that time man.
Also went into garage, pertinent to later item man.
 
Ex-Mrs.-T-B. impressed with table and silent about bargain price paid, ha ha ha man.
 
For din-din, fed Mini-B. long-promised Chef Boy-ar-Dee Spaghettios & Meatballs, major food group man.
Watched AFV, we and ex-she and wee but no miu man.
Packed up Mini-B. for week with Ex-Mrs.-T-B., bye wee man.
Still no sign of miu, very strange man.
Upon accusation, Ex-Mrs.-T-B. denied letting miu out front door, yeah right man.
 
Intense multi-person search for missing miu, no luck man.
Then we asked Ex-Mrs.-T-B. if she had been in garage, affirmatory she man.
Opened interior door to garage, open we man.
Into casa rushed miu, stranded for 2+ hours miu man.
Ex-Mrs.-T-B. had again not ensured whereabouts of miu vis-a-vis open doors,  man.
 
Bye to Mini-B. with unison chanting of the Two Guys credo plus tummy-bump, bye we man.
Finished rest of chores, finish we man.
A pretty good Sunday, conclude we man.

CDC is just s pile of poop. More ppl get sick from tainted salad then backyard chickens. 
 
 
Fingers crossed for a nice quiet neighbour. 
 
I have one like that. The ####### is only 8 but man he acts like he's 80. You can have him if you want double barking
 
Sounds like my day. Lugged the pool and set it up. Filling it now. I need to work on a few more things like getting the darn PH pucks that I forgot to grab. Had to order more filters. Normally Amazon is the place to go but they wanted crazy money 336 bucks for 12 where last year it was 70 bucks. Trying to find smaller packs didn't help either. I did however find a 6 pack from walmart for less then 60. 

Well after more than a year of blissful peace and quiet, the drug house has finally sold. For way less than they were going for. Lot of activity about the place, there would have to be. Given the price of lumber at the moment, someone must have deep pockets to put  it all right.
 
Trailer of furniture unloaded there today. So far all I've seen is one middle aged man. I hope he isn't hiding a bunch of screaming kids and a couple of atv's, and a pack of crazy mad dogs like the last people had.  Herself, of course, has been interested in all the extra traffic. As in barking at everything that moves. She seems to think that if she can see it, it's hers.
 
I ought to get off my duff and mow tonight. As I spent all day taking everything out of the garden shed,  installing new shelves, and lugging everything back I think I'll pass. Not meant to rain tomorrow, and if I can't finish it up in one day it will have to wait.
Painted the lounge ceiling yesterday, and next I will get the spackle and primer out again. I swear that this is my last fixer upper. Ever.
 

Well after more than a year of blissful peace and quiet, the drug house has finally sold. For way less than they were going for. Lot of activity about the place, there would have to be. Given the price of lumber at the moment, someone must have deep pockets to put  it all right.
 
Trailer of furniture unloaded there today. So far all I've seen is one middle aged man. I hope he isn't hiding a bunch of screaming kids and a couple of atv's, and a pack of crazy mad dogs like the last people had.  Herself, of course, has been interested in all the extra traffic. As in barking at everything that moves. She seems to think that if she can see it, it's hers.
 
I ought to get off my duff and mow tonight. As I spent all day taking everything out of the garden shed,  installing new shelves, and lugging everything back I think I'll pass. Not meant to rain tomorrow, and if I can't finish it up in one day it will have to wait.
Painted the lounge ceiling yesterday, and next I will get the spackle and primer out again. I swear that this is my last fixer upper. Ever.
 

Well after more than a year of blissful peace and quiet, the drug house has finally sold. For way less than they were going for. Lot of activity about the place, there would have to be. Given the price of lumber at the moment, someone must have deep pockets to put  it all right.
 
Trailer of furniture unloaded there today. So far all I've seen is one middle aged man. I hope he isn't hiding a bunch of screaming kids and a couple of atv's, and a pack of crazy mad dogs like the last people had.  Herself, of course, has been interested in all the extra traffic. As in barking at everything that moves. She seems to think that if she can see it, it's hers.
 
I ought to get off my duff and mow tonight. As I spent all day taking everything out of the garden shed,  installing new shelves, and lugging everything back I think I'll pass. Not meant to rain tomorrow, and if I can't finish it up in one day it will have to wait.
Painted the lounge ceiling yesterday, and next I will get the spackle and primer out again. I swear that this is my last fixer upper. Ever.
 

Saturday was a trip to the Beebe flea market/live stock auction. No fleas were brought home thank goodness. 
We did bring home 3 dozen hatching eggs. 
 
Then after that went to go get things for my hydroponics table but old daughter sent a message. 
Her kitten is ready to be picked up. 
So we head home pack up the kids. and Drive 1 1/2 hours to go get her kitten.  
 
Meet Sir Lancelot. He's 10 week old Scottish fold. This is her dream cat and she save for him after she lost her old boy we brought down here from Canada. 

Congratulations.

Not a chance of that happening on either side of the Tasman. .. expecting it for at least another 12 months … 

I am jealous!  Hopefully their militant quarantining will have ended.

Why of why are kids big and small so darn messy. They are disgusting. You would think that the older two (the ones left still) would learn to be neater. They have to clean it up themselves anyways.  The littles have gone way too long without cleaning other then their rooms and pets. So I made them wash the floors and clean their bathroom. OMG the Tornado was so upset I was making her clean. SHe was going on and on that she hates this. She was practically in tears. Of course I helped her because it was the first time I was making her do a deep clean of the bathroom. I'm not that mean  
 
Needless to say my house is clean and it didn't take forever. 

You can't invite anyone for a visa.  They have to apply on their own.  Invitations by a US person is not considered.

Without a high school education, there is zero chances of a work visa.
 
Why doesn't he want your friends to go?  To keep you isolated so he can apply pressure to marry or file a fiancee visa.  He doesn't want your friends to give you warnings if anything is suspicious.  
 
He wants to marry you without having met you after a few months.

Run girl.  Run.  

We had spent much of Friday texting and then phoning a possible rubia, communicate we man.
Attitudes, etc. seemed remarkably compatible, concluded we man.
Arranged a restaurant din-din to meet in person, we meet she man.
However, certain details in her stories failed to add up, uneasy we man.
Researched her claims against public records and found glaring inconsistencies, discover we man.
Decided to sleep on it, decide we man.
 
Continued to mull matters during GS-ing, mull we man.
Concluded that integrity was important, only thing that we can avoid letting others steal man.
 
Texted rubia approx. Many-&-a-half hours before planned din-din, be courteous man.
Told rubia that she had falsely understated her age, obvious from public records man.
Said that her "Manycades-long happy marriage" to late husband was really as follows man:
  -- husband was arrested for assault/bodily injury against somebody half-of-half a Manycade ago in April, ouch man
  -- divorce was recorded that same year in Manyvember, si man
  -- rubia & husband remarried Many (2x2x2x2+1) years later (!), si man
 
In addition, claim of her & husband's age when he died failed to correlate with anything, si and no man.
 
We certainly could have found more had we researched further, but this was enough, sigh man.
 
We texted our findings and concluded as follows, see man:
     "No man of integrity would abide these falsehoods, no man.  Because we have integrity, tonight is called off and we want no future contact between us and you, si and no man.  You're part of exactly what we told you about not compromising our principles of truth-telling without deception, si man.  Good luck in the future, bye man."
 
We got no response, fine with us man, and her profile was gone from the site when we later checked, obviously some conscience restored man.
 
We are disappointed but can still hold our head up, sigh and si man.

07:04 this morning my phone rings. It is the roofers, who are due back to finish up anytime now. "Sorry, I just read the ticket, it says I should have called first. Never mind, sorry, I see your husband has come out the door and is waving at me. Got on a green shirt, right"? 
Wrong. Wrong house, wrong ticket, and certainly wrong husband. 
 
Went downhill from there. Seeing flashes in my right eye, and new floaters, as of yesterday. Off to the eye doc this afternoon, Posterior vitreous detachment she says. I have to go back in a couple of weeks. Ever try and drive 30 miles home through a construction zone with dilated pupils? Don't recommend it. 

Now keep it that way 
 

Next comes the (see man)
Haiku* of the Century,
So read it, si man:
 
[ahem, harrumph]
Pre-Owned Toilet Seats:
Best purchase ever, si man!
Get yours today, man.
 
*Haiku, n. - a Polish literary construction in which Lines 1, 2, and Many have Many, Many, and Many syllables, respectively man.
 
Did you notice, man?
There are two haikus in this
Post, and now Many!

07:04 this morning my phone rings. It is the roofers, who are due back to finish up anytime now. "Sorry, I just read the ticket, it says I should have called first. Never mind, sorry, I see your husband has come out the door and is waving at me. Got on a green shirt, right"? 
Wrong. Wrong house, wrong ticket, and certainly wrong husband. 
 
Went downhill from there. Seeing flashes in my right eye, and new floaters, as of yesterday. Off to the eye doc this afternoon, Posterior vitreous detachment she says. I have to go back in a couple of weeks. Ever try and drive 30 miles home through a construction zone with dilated pupils? Don't recommend it. 

07:04 this morning my phone rings. It is the roofers, who are due back to finish up anytime now. "Sorry, I just read the ticket, it says I should have called first. Never mind, sorry, I see your husband has come out the door and is waving at me. Got on a green shirt, right"? 
Wrong. Wrong house, wrong ticket, and certainly wrong husband. 
 
Went downhill from there. Seeing flashes in my right eye, and new floaters, as of yesterday. Off to the eye doc this afternoon, Posterior vitreous detachment she says. I have to go back in a couple of weeks. Ever try and drive 30 miles home through a construction zone with dilated pupils? Don't recommend it. 

07:04 this morning my phone rings. It is the roofers, who are due back to finish up anytime now. "Sorry, I just read the ticket, it says I should have called first. Never mind, sorry, I see your husband has come out the door and is waving at me. Got on a green shirt, right"? 
Wrong. Wrong house, wrong ticket, and certainly wrong husband. 
 
Went downhill from there. Seeing flashes in my right eye, and new floaters, as of yesterday. Off to the eye doc this afternoon, Posterior vitreous detachment she says. I have to go back in a couple of weeks. Ever try and drive 30 miles home through a construction zone with dilated pupils? Don't recommend it. 

07:04 this morning my phone rings. It is the roofers, who are due back to finish up anytime now. "Sorry, I just read the ticket, it says I should have called first. Never mind, sorry, I see your husband has come out the door and is waving at me. Got on a green shirt, right"? 
Wrong. Wrong house, wrong ticket, and certainly wrong husband. 
 
Went downhill from there. Seeing flashes in my right eye, and new floaters, as of yesterday. Off to the eye doc this afternoon, Posterior vitreous detachment she says. I have to go back in a couple of weeks. Ever try and drive 30 miles home through a construction zone with dilated pupils? Don't recommend it. 

Stop letting people into your house! 

Congratulations!  So based on your OP, you were married online, and then went and visited your spouse after the online ceremony.  I think this is key relative to the online wedding.  Did they ask about the timeline there?