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They didn’t ask me for NOA 2 on my visa interview. Though the consulate will email you the list of documents you’ll come to interview with. 

2 minutes ago, powerpuff said:

~ Topic moved from K1 Process to Progress Reports ~
 

Congratulations on your approval! Feel free to look at the guides for the next steps to take in the US.

 

Just to note, nobody here said it’s “impossible” to get approved in Nigeria (or any other country for that matter). People get approved all the time there, but also plenty of people do not get approved as we have seen here. Also, cases are highly individual. I’m happy that you had a smooth experience. But it’s not fair, or true, to say that people “downplay” or “discourage” you. They are being realistic and always, always reiterate spending a lot of time together is key which will help overcome so called ‘red flags’ consulates tend to focus on. I do not recall anyone saying it’s impossible.

 

Good luck with the rest of your immigration journey

Thanks. 

I’m from a said high visa fraud country(Nigeria), 21 years younger than my female petitioner. A lot of people will say something to downplay you but know that nothing is impossible. Most importantly make sure you and your partner have a real relationship. Thanks for those that send me DM telling me to have faith and trust in God. My interview was not even upto 2 minutes and I was approved. I was disappointed that the interview was too easy because I was so prepared. Till today I still don’t believe that I got approved with all the red flags without a hassle. I didn’t frontload and everything went fine. Will be writing my interview day experience soon. 

Just now, Rocio0010 said:

You don’t understand the red flags in your case? Then you need to research before you submit anything. As somebody said, immigration takes a lot of planning and knowledge. 

 

English only.

Thanks. “People sef” is English. Just like you use “n” for “and”

1 minute ago, Rocio0010 said:

I do love the fact that any one can post in VJ.

I also love reading TOS to make sure I follow them and that everybody does. Believe it or not, even if you’re trying to shut up answers you didn’t like, they’re actually trying to open your eyes and help you. Instead of humbling down, you just take it personal and start pouting. That’s not how immigration works, you can pout and sulk and think it’s unfair aaaaalll you want. You can even think you have all the answers… until you understand you don’t. Well, it’s about that time. I’m out. Good luck.

I only said I will see the K1 through because I already started it. I regret that I didn’t take CR-1 route, should have used It. I don’t even understand all these problems 😂🤣. People sef.

2 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

English only please in the upper forums.

Does it sound like Chinese?

1 minute ago, Rocio0010 said:

Just to remind you it’s against TOS to tell someone what and what not to post.

You must love this topic. Always inch away. 

51 minutes ago, Timona said:

I see a Ferrari on the road here.

 

You met October 2019, met physically January 2021 and were already pregnant by July 2021? Every one has their choice. However, this will come under the microscope. 

 

I read your responses and can tell you that you are shopping for a GC and seem proud of it based on responses I read on page 1. Seems you're keeping tabs with exact dates and times so that you get your story straight at the interview. 

 

I'm Kenyan. We don't marry people same age as our parents. I know it happens a lot in both countries, and that is the reason for intense scrutiny at the embassy. It just smells of desperation. 

 

You claim you've been dating older women. Aren't there older women in Nigeria? Why won't you date them? 

 

I know you're gonna get mad when you read this. But, I've seen this often and call it early, country notwithstanding. 

 

Wishing you luck. But I don't see this being approved. And switching to CR-1 may not get faster approval. It will just be seen as option B to try and salvage your ship. 

 

Good luck. 

Nope. You can’t infuriate me. I don’t even know you. 😂🤣

18 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

Sorry for your loss.

 

This is what is meant by being 'beyond childbearing age' at 46.  A woman's chances of carrying a healthy pregnancy diminish greatly after 40.  Not that it can't be done, but it is often fraught with complications (miscarriage, for example) that the same woman would not have had conceiving in her 20s or 30s.  

 

The cultural focus on male Nigerian virility and being able to father children is known by the Lagos staff, which is why someone your age choosing a partner of this age is scrutinized.  Undoubtedly, if there were no possibility of a US GC involved, you would not be with her......similarly, if the plan was for her to move to Nigeria, you would not be with her.

Oga rest. You’ll just open your mouth waaaaa. Talk only wetin you know. 

35 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

sorry just trying to give u some facts and help

also gave u some hope

as we are both dealing with high fraud countries

and u are always allowed to continue /  didn't say u couldn't

I will not bother u again

 

best to u both

Thanks a lot. You misunderstood me, just trying to say i will see this through before starting another. If I haven’t started the K1, i won’t be stupid to file it after all the advice here. CR-1 is just like a second plan. I learnt about visa journey just last 3 days ago. 

15 minutes ago, powerpuff said:

You asked us about the chances and we’re answered your question. Would you rather hear a cold truth or a sweet lie? No need to get this way when all we’re doing is answering your question honestly and giving our opinions. You’re in no way obliged to follow them. 

 

Spot on. Thanks

42 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

Just so you know, DHS might have approved your petition, but then you’ll deal with USCIS, who have different standards

7 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

We don’t kill people. Rather, we’ve seen and some of us even experienced denial with a very similar circumstance as yours. 
Whether you want it or not, Nigeria is a high fraud country. Be thankful for Nigerians who tried to game the system consistently for years. Don’t blame it on us. Is it fair for Nigerians that want to do it the legal way? No! But it is what it is. 
Age gap can be a red flag, especially if the woman is beyond child bearing age and older than the man. Again, is it fair? No. But it is what it is and you do your best under the circumstances. Good luck.

Okay. Thank you. 🙌🙌

1 minute ago, Rocio0010 said:

No need to get sulky if you don’t get the answer you want. @JeanneAdilis a seasoned member who was once in a very similar situation. 

It’s not about getting the answer I want. Read the topic, I already made up my mind if denied I will opt for the spousal visa. You guys kill people before the interview date. I understand about the CR-1 but lemme conclude this first. It’s almost over. 

14 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

No need to be scared but 

I will be completely honest so do not get upset with what i say

we had the big age difference also

our K1 in 2009 was denied

and we married in 2010 

the 2 of u should seriously consider marriage when she visits next month and reapplying for spousal visa 

 

I feel the chances of a denial for K1 with the 20 year age gap is a big issue 

and yes,  the multiple visits help

not sure how u would convince a CO that she is still of child bearing age as 46 is usually beyond 

other issues for denial :

1. One of the most common reasons for rejecting or denying a fiancé(e) visa application is a suspicious relationship. For example, not having a common language, a short dating time before becoming engaged, a significant age difference, or practicing different religions could raise red flags.

2.  USC income does not meet requirements

3.  one or both are not able to marry

4.  Relationship is secretive

5.  criminal reports show criminal activity

6.  certain medical conditions

7.  contradictory statements made during interview

8.  USC has applied for K1 or CR1 in past and CO expects USC is being paid to marry

9.  too many divorces or divorce papers are suspect

 

If she wants to come next month and says no to marriage , at this time just think about doing the marriage and CR1 at a later date 

 

for Hope to u we married and it did take a long time to get his visa approved but we have been married now going on 13 years and he is USC

 

You want me to abandon the K1 that I have couple of months to the interview not knowing if it will be denied or not, at least just allow me take this chance then if denied, I’ll apply for CR-1. Your case and my case is not the same and about the childbearing stuff, me and my fiancée lost a baby in July 2021. The only red flag we have is the age difference that’s all. 
 

if I’d known about the age gap red flag #######, I’d have use spousal route. And also about people saying Nigerian men don’t date older women, I think it’s the other way round, Nigeria women don’t want anything to do with any man younger because they feel they can’t take care of them. 
 

I didn’t just apply recently, I have my Petition approved and so many people with age difference didn’t make it to this stage. At least just allow me to be denied before going with spousal visa. Thanks for the response though. 

40 minutes ago, Coco8 said:

She'll be 48 by the time they get any visa (with a big IF for country and age gap, etc.). 

 

K1 is very difficult for Nigeria, OP. When there are red flags like this, marriage and lots of visits are better. Even with that, it might not be possible, though.

Thanks

1 minute ago, wontonathon said:

Okay. cool. I'm sure you know all the dates and time. But just remember that it's not what you know to be true, but what they (USCIS, Embassy, CO, etc) believes. Some times info is lost in translation. I say that because I've certainly been guilty of doing a poor job at getting what I know across to others. Last thing you want is a delay in an already lengthy process just because you are misunderstood. Just being really detailed and provide more info and evidence than what you think you need and you should be able to overcome the red flags you may have. Like they say, better to have more than not enough.

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate a lot. 🙌🙌

9 minutes ago, wontonathon said:

So when did you actually meet? Just a word of advice. Every petition has a degree of scrutiny, but knowing that Nigeria has more than other countries, basic things like getting dates right is important. Could be typo or something else. While messing up on this forum is not a biggie; messing up on your forms could be bad. Make sure all forms are triple checked for correct info and whenever you interview to make sure what you say also matches what you write down. Best of luck on your journey.

We met in October 2019 but met physically(face time) on January 15th 2021. Trust me I know the dates and the time of everything. Thanks a lot. 

2 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

Will be once her visa is approved. But you could still be successful provided you have other high- quality evidence…

Thanks a lot. I’m gathering more evidence for the interview 

2 minutes ago, Rocio0010 said:

She’s close to being beyond child- bearing age…

But she’s not. 

2 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

Ages?  

26 and 46

2 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

Okay.  Expect some scrutiny on the age difference for the second reason then......    If local men your age do not normally date women that much older, it may look like a green card marriage.

Yeah I understand. I’m ready for the scrutiny. After dating older women, you won’t be with a younger woman. She is matured and knows what she wants. 😍

Just now, Jorgedig said:

It is a red flag for Nigeria, especially if she is beyond childbearing age, and also because if a US green card is removed from the situation, more than likely someone your age would not marry a local who is 20 years older......

She is not beyond childbearing age. 

Just now, Crazy Cat said:

That age difference is a red flag, but the best evidence you can provide is that of being together.  Multiple visits is the key for that at this point.  Good luck. 

I have a lot of pictures together, mostly with my family. She wants to come again next month so we can have valentines together and I can’t wait. 

Hi everyone. 
 

I(male) met my fiancée(female) in October 2019, she’s 20 years older than me and we met in January 2021, we filed K1 after the first visit and since then she have visited me 3 times which total of 4 times. Our petition have been approved, waiting for interview. I’d have followed spousal route if I knew about the red flag. 

What are my chances, I’m scared.

On 10/20/2021 at 7:15 PM, Boiler said:

Going to be tricky getting a B from Albania 

 

I expect you will be better off getting married and going that route

People still get approved through K1, everything is not CR-1. 
 

she doesn’t have any issue so let her do K1