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I wouldn't say it depends on the country, the percentage of honest people and cheaters is the same all around the world and in any country.

I disagree, some people meet and marry in 1 day and live happy forever and some have lots of time dating and divorce after a week of marriage

Also the people behave different when they see an American abroad, walking dollar, free meal ticket, free way to America and it cost only a nice smile and love, easy game for many of them.
 
After my experience, I would say, more face time but here, in US, not marrying so fast. Maybe the new law, not 90 days but 1 year here for a foreigner to see our country, to see both of us in the same house and decide to marry. 1 year living together can give you the idea if it works. 1 year with a work permit but no green card, AOS after 1 year together here.

I disagree, some people meet and marry in 1 day and live happy forever and some have lots of time dating and divorce after a week of marriage

I disagree, some people meet and marry in 1 day and live happy forever and some have lots of time dating and divorce after a week of marriage

I have a very similar situatation.
First thing I did, I made the Info Pass and gave them all evidence (chats, him, his family, his women) saying he married me for papers only and he has other kids, I didn't know about them. I asked for to talk to the Fraud Officer and we talked, my documents as a prove were accepted.
Second, I applied for the Marriage ANNULMENT by Fraud attaching the same proves, chat's printing and my letter about it, the Fraud was based on him saying he married me for papers and it is not a valid marriage for him and he didn't tell me about having 2 other kids and living with other women, he told me he is a single father with 1 kid.
 
The judge gave me the Annulment by Fraud, which is good for me because it is like this marriage never existed, it doesn't make me share my property with him, I got my Military benefits back under the fact this marriage was annuled and also if he wants to marry an American again, he will need the divorce decree but he only can get the Annulment decree by Fraud, which probably won't let him to adjust his status with another marriage.

better get her outta there before she divorces you and you have to pay on the affidavit lol. 

Amazing, reading myself, how still I blame myself he didn't get at least his documents because I didn't give him more space and I didn't do more for him, when this bad "A" did it all wrong by himself and for himself.

Yes, mostly people have a sense of what they need in a partner, so abusers see who is a potential victim and victims are attracted to a potential abuser. But I had a great marriage for many years, became a widow, probably my abuser saw a widow, they know the widow is in a grieving weak stage but it's temporary.

Yes, i think all was adding, a widow, then meeting all well, accepting a single father, bad luck he is a scammer and scammers are very smart playing games. This marriage was annuled, once I saw what he was doing, I decided to do the right thing, to get the annulment or divorce and move on, to protect myself from more lies. My marriage Annulment is based on Fraud with the written evidence about him saying he married me for papers only, his family saying the child he brought to US is not his, him not telling me before our wedding he has more children, not only one, this all is a ground for Annulment in my State and I was granted it.

Yes, mostly people have a sense of what they need in a partner, so abusers see who is a potential victim and victims are attracted to a potential abuser. But I had a great marriage for many years, became a widow, probably my abuser saw a widow, they know the widow is in a grieving weak stage but it's temporary.

Totally agree!

I disagree, some people meet and marry in 1 day and live happy forever and some have lots of time dating and divorce after a week of marriage

Exactly! It happens everywhere. The thing with  foreigners is some Americans get addicted to the type of opposite sex with the specific country and do it again and again, specially American men see they can have a pretty young woman maybe with strong family values. And some realize it's too expensive to spend so much time waiting for visa, time and money expensive and if it fails the 1st time, we don't want to try again and again because of a very expensive dating and visas, more easy to go locally to Starbucks and meet.

This topic is very interesting but I’m going to give you some perspective. My friend married an American born man. Dated for 5 years and was married for 10. The man had a whole other life with another woman and kids. Had a home across country with this woman and because his job had him travel he got away with it for 10 years until he was in an accident in the city with his other family and they contacted his wife. When everything came out he tried to take everything from my friend and swore he would rather give it to lawyers than her since she wanted to divorce him. They have 5 kids and he has 4 kids with the other woman. She had know this man from college so I’m saying this to say to label a liar and a cheat just on foreign men or women is wrong. There are bad people that do bad things everywhere. Just my 2 cents! 

We all human and not only women, men also fall in love online with people from Ghana, Nigeria, Philippines, etc. Some say in those 3 countries charms, voodoo, juju, potions are heavy used on westerns. Running to marry, it's not good, to me even to start accepting my ex took 6 months and we already met twice. But again, quick marriage or taking time to know each other it's not the way to success.
 
Some Americans yes, shop for a spouse, mostly men who are not seen by American women as a marriage material. American women mostly have different stories and mostly not shopping. Any nice American woman has men locally, for a woman is not difficult to find one if she wants. Foreign fiance happens to a woman for different reasons.

Also the people behave different when they see an American abroad, walking dollar, free meal ticket, free way to America and it cost only a nice smile and love, easy game for many of them.
 
After my experience, I would say, more face time but here, in US, not marrying so fast. Maybe the new law, not 90 days but 1 year here for a foreigner to see our country, to see both of us in the same house and decide to marry. 1 year living together can give you the idea if it works. 1 year with a work permit but no green card, AOS after 1 year together here.

I disagree, some people meet and marry in 1 day and live happy forever and some have lots of time dating and divorce after a week of marriage

I did the same test, he was all abusive to me coming to my house, after he left (because of his own legal troubles), he asked for another visa, now CR1 spouse visa, I said if you want us continue married, better I go and we live in your country, his answer was NO, then he said come and we do business together but bring money for the business, I asked what kind of business, he said he won't tell me, bring money, I answered I don't have, can I go to live with you, my husband in your country? his answer was if no money, do not come. After that I went to the court, annulment of marriage, it took time and money (debts I am still paying) but it is done now.

Also the people behave different when they see an American abroad, walking dollar, free meal ticket, free way to America and it cost only a nice smile and love, easy game for many of them.
 
After my experience, I would say, more face time but here, in US, not marrying so fast. Maybe the new law, not 90 days but 1 year here for a foreigner to see our country, to see both of us in the same house and decide to marry. 1 year living together can give you the idea if it works. 1 year with a work permit but no green card, AOS after 1 year together here.

I disagree, some people meet and marry in 1 day and live happy forever and some have lots of time dating and divorce after a week of marriage

And who says you can't get scammed by the spouse from the same country also? Girl marries a rich guy, takes money and disappeares. Young guy marries older lady for her big house and insurance money.   That happens also.

1. If you US Citizen, feel the person you married is very different coming to your house, emotionally and verbally abusive and very distant, if you feel something is wrong and instead of honey moon time it's all worse and worse, listen your guts. Watch, think, analyze and do NOT get married, or if you already did, do NOT send the AOS, or if you already did, get the InfoPass and cancel your Affidavit of Support.
 
After that divorce him/her, keep yourself at a safe distance once you start to divorce or annul your marriage, live apart or bring a roommate to be your every day witness, do not play the immigrant games about abuse, keep calm

3. what else would I do based on my failed marriage experience? I wouldn't trust so much. No adding to my phone bills and account, no adding his name to my house title (he asked for it, fortunately it was delayed), no keys from my car, me driving him where he and his baby go. I even would think about putting cameras inside of the house. It's hard to think about cameras, I respect privacy but after this experience I say maybe.

I disagree, some people meet and marry in 1 day and live happy forever and some have lots of time dating and divorce after a week of marriage