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This OP is so rude. Do what you think is right. People trying to help and you are getting angry. This conversation wouldve keep on going with members telling you the same thing over and over. The envelop should be sealed!!!! yours have a very big tear, you said about 3 inches. Wonder when youre going to be able to accept criticism from a forum where people who reply to your post give nothing but good advice from personal experience and direction. Man up and stop being ignorant. Hope you come back soon and apologize.

My yellow envelope had a corner cut off on purpose by them.

Everything went smoothly. Took about 1/2 hour after our posted time (2pm) to get done. Pretty quiet for the most part.

i've been watching a lot of Nigerian TV lately - it's Over The Air on my digital TV set up.
Many of the stuff I've been watching has the same story line. It's very strange.

Thank you, very much. I appreciate it.
Actually, a lot has happened since I posted this. Miss Swiss kicked him out after speaking with me. She and I have become friends, along with Miss Poland . We speak regularly and are all helping each other through it. The three of us are even making plans to meet up for a vacation later this year! Haha Funny how things work out.

After she leaves, notify the Manila embassy and USCIS, referring to her A# in your correspondence. Sincerely sorry for you, but things tend to happen for a reason.

I think I remember you. If I remember right your SIL and your personality just don't match up, you didn't like her cats so I'm sure that didn't help. I also remember some other issues you were having with your expectations of them.
As for the meet up, you have no clue who the person is that you gave personal information too, you have no idea if the person you spoke to is not some nut. Just because he organized it doesn't mean the guy is going to be a safe person to be alone with. Heck I host a party every year for Canada here and the only person who ever contacted me was by email and then we swapped FB info to check each other out. Sure she could of be a psycho but neither of us were ever going to meet up alone.
The whole point of going to group meet ups is to not be alone with a perfect stranger. This is a safety issue and your husband went into the the protector mode. Now he did over react and then turned nasty and that was not called for.
Why did you not even ask your husband if he wanted to go, I mean give him the chance to say no at least?
Ok not the thread I was looking for but this makes more sense of why he acted the way he did. Still not acceptable though.
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/474677-anxiety-about-upcoming-aos-interview-due-to-a-secret/#entry6747944

So this can cause the confusion as well, especially for the new fillers....

I think it would be better to keep this thread only for K1/K2, cause the info gonna mess up and will only confuse everybody! All other guys from different adjustments can open their own thread! No offense guys, it's my opinion....

Hey everyone,
As planned, my AOS packet was mailed off yesterday. I couldn't believe how expensive passport photos were, at CVS. If I had known, I would have brought them from home.

I think boiler is spot on, seems like she wants reassurances that when she gets here she will be living in the conditions she thinks that America is. Finding out what she thinks will be the key.
does she expect that she won't work and you give her an allowance or does she talk about work and/or education once she is here? Does she expect a house of a certain size? Does she expect you will either send money to her family back home or sponsor them?

This. She don't want no broke man. Seriously why do you have to reasearch what her mind is thinking. In my experience the culture is very open and honest she isn't being that.

Sounds like she wants to make sure you have the financial resources to ensure she can live the American Dream.

Hi guys, I'm not actually sure which thread I belong more, May fillers or June, I joined May fillers as well, but be happy to join you if you don't mind too, cause my actual NOA1 issued June 3rd. Any way received my biometrics appointment yesterday scheduled June 29th, so excited! Wish you guys good luck and to get your biometr.letters soon!

They can still do it themselves, it's been done many times. Stop scaring him, no need for a lawyer.
He will have to pay a tad more and supply an extra form, that's all.
Not too different from people marrying on tourist visas and adjusting in the US.
And, and Op - no one expects you to have proof of genuine marriage at this point. That is for the ROC stage, but it would help if you started gathering them now. Put your name on the lease as well, if possible, and on the car title and insurance.

Thats some good news! Make sure you add your email and number on the website to receive notifications abt your case. Good luck
Use your case numbers and make sure you sign up for email and text notifications.
https://egov.uscis.gov/casestatus/landing.do

better make sure everything goes the way your Fiance and his family want, or else u may just be up for a report of obducting a child from Egypt into the US

Got my texts and emails this afternoon! I feel like I'm finally in the system 9 days after it was delivered to them.
"Your case has been accepted and routed to the USCIS National Benefits Center for processing.Within 7-10 days by standard mail you will receive your official Receipt Notice (Form I-797) with your Receipt Number MSCxxxxxxxxxx......"
I'm going to go and find out the significance of the "MSC" of my receipt number. Plus I didn't even realize it goes to the national benefits center. I assumed it just got sent to the Texas office because I'm in Georgia. I must have read that somewhere. Oh well, I'm off to educate myself on this bit of the process. :-)

better make sure everything goes the way your Fiance and his family want, or else u may just be up for a report of obducting a child from Egypt into the US

Been there, done that.. Everyone went into the same process. Not only were stressing our relationship bec of the visa process but also our relationship itself.. The trust, understanding...and so on..
But hey, he's sleeping beside me now. And our wedding will be next week. Goodluck on ur journey!

Going to state one thing then step out. This topic is over my head. However, I will say this. What happens if she gets sick you ask? She will have a loving person to care for her. We do have doctors here. She is not an article of clothing or an item to return. She is a human being. With the gaurdians permission she has every right to be here. And I applaud her for taking her in. I am not sure of her plans. But if she stays, she will have many opportunities available to her here that were not available to here there. Sometimes we don't plan for great things to happen. They are thrust upon us and they just happen. I don't know the whole story... but if everything is legit... if its just black and white.. Im wishing you all the best of luck.Yeah! I'm an optimistic person!! Lol

I just spent some time reading your previous threads to get a little more information before I added my reply.

My first reaction to your original post was ... That child needs to go back to her home and I can't believe that you agreed to taking her with you!!!!

After reading everything, I am now thinking:

My gut is telling me if you somehow petition your "niece", once your fiance marries you and moves to the USA & gets his green card. he will leave, with that child and run off to be with his uncle ... who left your sister. And who knows, they can start bringing their family over slowly until everyone is in the USA. That's what my gut is telling me.

Nothing in your story gives me any good feelings... I read your other post about trusting your "gut" ... my husband and I were looking at buying a house earlier this month and even though the place was perfect, looked sooo nice, was such a good price, my gut was telling me to BACK AWAY. I trusted my gut! We cancelled the agreement and are looking elsewhere. I say this because... your gut can tell you things your heart will ignore!!!

Trust your gut!

And it's no surprise most of the comments have been heading warnings about the whole situation. It sucks, I know it, you love this man, you think he is your everything. He is related to his uncle, who did horrible things to your sister, but he isn't anything like him, he's different! .... well, maybe. But it really is going to suck when/if he marries you then walks out with a GC and leaves you alone and completely devastated. And perhaps financially responsible for him and now this child.

But anyway, this girl will have to go back home. If he really is the guardian for this child, he will HAVE to get documentation to support that. There is NO WAY this girl can stay with you or come with him unless there is some sort of consent for both the parents, or the legal guardianship is transferred. He should have mentioned this before you guys spent the money and applied for the K1 Visa. This is what makes me feel like this is a SCAM. And not a very well thought out one either because there is no way, NO WAY he wouldn't've mentioned anything! You fill out an entire part of the application about any children, obviously you two went through the application together? And what he just sat there and bit his tongue when you were going over that part? No, that doesn't sound right. This was either last minute (Hey, maybe you can bring my daughter with you and get her a free green card) ... or well, some other unpleasant things.

You need to really THINK. Something smells wrong!

Take care of yourself, look after yourself. You can't even back out of this situation now because you have a CHILD with you. How are you going to send her back? Do you have a ticket for her already? What are you possibly going to tell them at the airport when you try to buy her a tcket to send her home ... especially if her father really is in the USA?? They are going to call somebody because it doesn't take a lot to realize how FISHY this sounds.

I'm so sorry your in this situation. Sorry for the long post. I feel for you

I followed them as the were live, it just never occured to me or came as a thought in my head.
I'm still interested in how the visa was obtained and am mildly mortfied that she was able to come all the way back home from Egypt with zero problems with a foreign child that she has no guardianship or legal binding to. I mean moot point right now and under no obligation to answer as that doesn't resolve anything she's asking.....just interesting to me.

1. Why didn't you ask who the woman was who came to the airport? Doesn't that seem logical to ask? Perhaps she is actually your fiance's wife and that is really his daughter.
2. It is hard for me to believe that a young child was allowed to accompany a totally unrelated person to the U.S. without the U.S. asking questions about this child. Considering the concerns about international abduction, it is hard for me to believe that the U.S. would just allow a child to travel here without the permission of both parents. I know that it is required to have parental permission to leave the U.S. as well. https://help.cbp.gov/app/answers/detail/a_id/268/~/children---child-traveling-with-one-parent-or-someone-who-is-not-a-parent-or
3. What I understand is as long as the child has living parents, you can not adopt that child to immigrate to the U.S.
4. It is asking a lot of a person to take their child to another country and be responsible for that child. They seem to have taken advantage of your compromised emotions and good will.
5. Considering that the child has a parent in the U.S., the U.S. would give additional scrutiny to a child coming here and possibly trying to immigrate, I would think.

I dont mean to make this worst than it's already between you guys. But if this visa process is the reason for her to stress you out then yea I would take a second to think about it. Is it you she wanted or what? Please take a look at my timeline, It has been 7 months since I sent off the paper and still waiting for our approval. My fiancee and I talk everyday, anytime we could. This is personal but even when showering we still leave the webcam on. And all night when one of us is asleep ( 12 hours different between us). Instead of stressing me out over this visa process, my fiancee has always been very supportive. I wish you best of luck