Alaska2012

I'm just baffled that you have such serious conditions that you can't work, like ever! Except for 3 afternoons a month but yet flying across the Atlantic as often as you do is not a problem!?

I'm just baffled that you have such serious conditions that you can't work, like ever! Except for 3 afternoons a month but yet flying across the Atlantic as often as you do is not a problem!?

Google it.

And that's unlikely on a tourist visa.

So you were 16 and she was 43 when you guys met? That could be a red flag....but if you have a lot of evidence you should be good. How many times did you guys meet before getting married and how many times after?

So you have an age gap of 27 years, she being older than you which goes against the cultural norm of your country. You met when you were a kid and she was in her mid-40's. You only met once before getting married. You have only met twice after your wedding. And you are of different religions. Do you know each other through family or how did you actually meet? That might be important for your visa case.
I have to say, I think you have a lot of hurdles to overcome with US immigrations. You have to really front load the petition from the get go. Lots of pictures of you and her together, pictures of meeting each others families. Passport stamps of her visits to see you. Evidence of potential trips taken together. Loads of emails/chat logs/phone records etc, basically pump in proof of how and when you communicate with each other. Do you guys own anything together like a bank account, property etc? If so, then that's great proof as well. Honestly, in your case, I would look into the possibility of your wife coming to spend some quality time with you in Morocco for a longer period of time. Is this possible? Personally, I think that would help strengthening your case, as well as your relationship.

So you were 16 and she was 43 when you guys met? That could be a red flag....but if you have a lot of evidence you should be good. How many times did you guys meet before getting married and how many times after?

So you were 16 and she was 43 when you guys met? That could be a red flag....but if you have a lot of evidence you should be good. How many times did you guys meet before getting married and how many times after?

If he withdraws the I864 there are no other options but to go home. He must be the primary sponsor. There is no way around it.

If he chooses alt. A or B, why would you want to stay?

But you came on a K1. If your marriage goes down the drain before you even get your green card or he pulls the affidavit you have no real option. If you wanted to come here and work maybe you should have taken another route than a K1

Well being new in a country it's hard to get to know new people and by being a stay at home mom makes it even harder. When you work at least you get to interact with other adults. Yeah maybe she agreed to stay home but maybe reality caught up with her. Maybe she's just downright depressed, lonely or homesick? Moving to a new country leaving everything you know and love behind isn't easy.

Instead of focusing on your Green Card I would focus more on helping your husband. My dad died almost 6 months ago and I have been a huge wreck. Many days the only thing I did was binge watch stuff on Netflix because I couldn't deal with life. My husband was super patient with me and didn't complain that he had to take care of cooking and that kind of stuff.
The withdrawal of AOS, divorce or anything surrounding your immigration status has not happened yet. If I were you I would focus more on giving all the support I could give to my husband.
Don't nag on him, don't force him to do stuff he doesn't want. Just be there for him and let him know you're there for him. Healing from death in the family takes time, there's no timeline: this is how long grieving should take. Just give him space to grieve.
And what do you mean when you mention you as a responsibility? What is his responsibility towards you?

If he chooses alt. A or B, why would you want to stay?

You didn't send in any other evidence? Have you been filing taxes together? Lease? You buy anything together? If the rest of your evidence is strong you should be fine. We never had any joint accounts but had other evidence that was strong so it was never an issue..

You took the first one that came along and now you want a new one? Dude you are not buying a car! How long did you know your wife before you got married and moved her over? How many times did you meet before sending in the paperwork?

You took the first one that came along and now you want a new one? Dude you are not buying a car! How long did you know your wife before you got married and moved her over? How many times did you meet before sending in the paperwork?

If the embassy is so limited in time when you can pick up her medical, wouldn't it be easier to just have a new one done again? That way you can do it when it suits you and just send it in.

Hi,
Sorry about your loss.
There is no special dispensation. Especially when you overstay your visa by over a year.
If you leave with AP or a green card, you will end up with a 10 years ban for overstaying on your K-1 visa for over a year. Your spouse will need to file an I-130 to start the spousal visa process. Your visa application will be denied because of your overstay. Your spouse will need to file a waiver and show why denying you a visa is a hardship to him (missing each other is not enough).
Sorry, but you didn't make it easy on yourself when you overstayed your visa without filing to adjust status.
Best of luck

You took the first one that came along and now you want a new one? Dude you are not buying a car! How long did you know your wife before you got married and moved her over? How many times did you meet before sending in the paperwork?

You took the first one that came along and now you want a new one? Dude you are not buying a car! How long did you know your wife before you got married and moved her over? How many times did you meet before sending in the paperwork?

You took the first one that came along and now you want a new one? Dude you are not buying a car! How long did you know your wife before you got married and moved her over? How many times did you meet before sending in the paperwork?

You took the first one that came along and now you want a new one? Dude you are not buying a car! How long did you know your wife before you got married and moved her over? How many times did you meet before sending in the paperwork?

seems you picked up an overseas foreign worker, not a wife.
well, since yer married, do you want to divorce or no ?
if yes, well, divorce !
if no, i have no advice for you at all.

Just checked postnord's website and the 221(g) papers we sent to the embassy yesterday has already been delivered. The embassy paid for express delivery of the papers. That's pretty impressive.
Almost as impressive as when we used UPS to send my husband's new i-864 a couple of weeks ago. It was handed in at a UPS office on a Wednesday at 11.40 am (that's 6.40 pm Sweden time) and it was delivered to me at home the following Friday at 9 am. That's 36 hours to get a letter from the US to Sweden. I would really recommend UPS to anyone needing to send signed papers between Sweden and the US. We used them three times during our visa process and they've already been super fast, reliable, helpful and not too expensive. Hoping this was the last time we had to use them though.
So now when the embassy got our papers already this morning, we're really hoping to hear something by the end of the week.